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I had unprotected sex and now I'm freaked out!

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Question - (9 December 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 9 December 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

This weekend my bf and I were fooling around and I got real horny so I let him put it in me without a condom but just for a minute or so. Then he pulled out and I gave him oral until he came. I know nothing got in me and it was only for a short time, but I'm still kinda afraid that I might somehow get pregnant from this. But my bf and I both think the chances are really, really low from just that one time, and I know that nothing went inside me but I just wanted to ask. Yes I'm being paranoid, but we've always used condoms before this so I can't help but worry a little bit.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2008):

There is such a thing as Pre-cum!

This is where sperm comes out of the penis before the guy actually orgasms... So how can you know for sure that nothing got in you?

I know you're freaking out and I don't want to scare you, but even if it was for just a short time Pre-cum can make you pregnant.

It was very silly of you. Don't do it again! Wear a condom even if it is for just a short time.

Try not to panic because the chances are slim... VERY slim... And I doubt you are pregnant, but the chance is still there.

If you are stressed it can make your period late, so try and relax. Take a pregancy test to give you peace of mind.

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A female reader, hlskitten United Kingdom +, writes (9 December 2008):

hlskitten agony auntIf it was the weekend, as in late saturday, you could get down the pharmacy quick and get Levonel? I mean, its highly unlikely you will be pregnant, but there is always that little percentage. Dont beat yourself up about it now, it was daft, you've learnt, but I have been daft myself before, and it was smack bang (pardon the pun) in the middle of my cycle, so most fertile time, yet I didn't get pregnant. But I know that means nothing really and I am older than you. Decreasing fertility on both sides etc.

C xxxxx

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