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Archived questions from: 12 December, 2008 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Is masturbation giving me headaches?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

12 December 2008 (F) - Hello everyone I have a rather odd question. but ok here it goes. I have been having a lot of headaches recently... I have also been masturbating more often then usual. can these to be related? could masturbating more cause my headaches? ...

How can I pleasure him with my hand down his trousers?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

12 December 2008 (F) - hi how would i go about pleasuring my man while he is standing up with his trousers on and i put my hand down them? ive never done this before, how would i touch him and things PLEASE HELP ME! x x x ...

How can I fix the erections that he's NOT getting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

12 December 2008 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been dating for over three years. in the beginning of our relationship we had sex about 5 times a week and know its about 5 times a month. the last time we tried having sex he couldnt get hard. i was wondering if this is ...

I'm completely scared that I might be pregnant.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

12 December 2008 (F) - i had sex with my boyfriend and we used a condom and he sayed it didnt rip but im just really scared in case it did and hes not telling me.he wasnt inside me for too long but it was for about 10 minutes. he did come though. im due my periods soon ...

Is a man's orgasm more intense when he cums inside his partner?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 343 days ago

12 December 2008 (F) - This a rather silly question but maybe the answer will resolve a dispute between my bf and I. Is a man's orgasm more intense when he cums inside his partner? I've been with my bf for over 2 years. I never refuse him sex. I don't make him wear a ...

How can I give a smooth blow job?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

12 December 2008 (F) - i've never given a guy a bj before. I want to know how I can go about taking initiative and doing it smoothly without making it into an awkward situation. also do guys find virgins a total turn off? ...

How can I increase my sex drive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

12 December 2008 (F) - How can I increase my sex drive?...

He asked me if I have had sex, and when the answer was yes he stopped texting!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

12 December 2008 (F) - Hello Cupiters! Okay, I started talking to this one guy..he's 26. Just by phone and text..we still haven't met because I think it's still too soon. I want to give it a lil more time since I met him thru an online dating site. Anyways, it's b...

How do you make dry humping last longer for him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

12 December 2008 (F) - My bf doesn't like to dry hump that much because he says its to fast for him. Him comes way faster than with me just giving him a hand job. But i kinida get tired of giving a hand job especially if we do it many times we are together for the nite. ...

Financial problems and swinging issues are putting a strain on this relationship

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 254 days ago

12 December 2008 (F) - Hello Agony Aunts/Uncles and readers, I recently found this site and found it to be so insightful. I have a problem that I have been bouncing around in my mind for the longest time and really would like a different perspective on this. If anyone ...

I'm in love with my wife's best friend and even my wife thinks we'd be great together!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 341 days ago

12 December 2008 (M) - I've been married for about 3 years now and the wife and I had female friend and our relationship with her went a little farther than friendship. For my birthday the two of them had a little surprise for me in the pool. It never went as far as ...

What should I do so that he doesn't leave because of my sexual past?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 299 days ago

12 December 2008 (F) - my boyfriend of 4 years and i have been constantly fighting about my past sexual relationships, which unfortunately he knows the details about my exes. he keeps saying he will leave because i expect him to live and love a person like me, who gave...

My boyfriend brought me a vibrator, I'm a virgin, how should I use it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

12 December 2008 (F) - Hey This probably sounds really stupid but I don't know what it is, when you're meant to find out etc. My boyfriend recently bought me a vibrator and he keeps asking if I've used it yet. He's being sweet and not forceful and I want to try it out, h...

I don't want a relationship, but I want sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 347 days ago

12 December 2008 (F) - dear cupid, i really need your help. im 18 and in college. i love to be single and party. i don't like boyfriends. there is this one guy that i like and completely has my heart, but another girl has his heart but its cool. it hurt for a while but i ...

Will first time sex suck?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 347 days ago

12 December 2008 (M) - Hi. I was talking about the fact that I'm a virgin with this one girl, and I told her that I wanted it to have sentimental value when I finally lost it. She said that my first time will suck, and it's not all it's cracked up to be. I'm wondering.. ...

Does he think about other women while we have sex EVERY time? or just occasionally?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 342 days ago

12 December 2008 (F) - Hello, new to being a member here on DearCupid, but I have consulted to this site for more "level-minded" answers about certain issues I have had with pornography. I have done kaboodles of reading online, and in book stores to find a better u...

If driving when very tired is the same as driving while intoxicated, is having sex while THAT tired considered consensual?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 347 days ago

12 December 2008 (F) - I have been sexually active for half my life now and mostly it's been awesome but sometimes, especially after work I am sooooooo tired my brain hurts, I'm so tired but I still get physically turned on if stimulated so I have "given" in many times ...