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Archived questions from: 10 December, 2008 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Husband has breath holding fetish!!

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 80 days ago

10 December 2008 (F) - My husband has a breath holding fetish. He enjoys seeing women hold their breath for as long as they can stand it. He loves to see their cheeks puffed out and get red and to see their bellys contract as they push their limits. He visits fetish sites ...

Smells bad "down there" don't want to tell my guy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 347 days ago

10 December 2008 (F) - im messinq with some guy and we already had sex but i be thinkinq that "down there" be smelling a little. i have a yeast infection i know that but is not really really that bad.it might smell just a bit but i discharged way too much and when i do ...

Bent penis-should I have surgery?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 347 days ago

10 December 2008 (M) - hi, this is really embarrasing but i need some advice. I have a bent penis, it bends down like a banana. My girlfriend says that i have a "massive 8 1/2" to 9" penis (which i think she's hallucinating) but it bends down which can't be normal. I told ...

My ex is using emotional blackmail--threatening to cut himself! HELP!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 347 days ago

10 December 2008 (F) - i was with this really nice guy for a few months then he dumped me, after which i found it hard to cope with as he got a new girlfriend a week after, even though he asked me to wait until he was ready. he even told me he loved me. we stayed friends ...

All he wants for Christmas... is for me to have an orgasm!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 347 days ago

10 December 2008 (F) - Hi I'm 19 and I am in love with my boyfriend. As often as we have sex I never ever had an orgasm! All of my friends tell me stories about theirs but I have none, what should I do? I'm willing to try anything. And just the other day he told me ...

Faking it...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 347 days ago

10 December 2008 (F) - When my bf starts to massage me with his fingers to try and get me to have an orgasm, I become embarrassed an I cannot get an orgasm so I fake it. Help me so I can stop faking and start feeling an orgasm?...

We're running out of things to try...any suggestions for things to try in bed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 347 days ago

10 December 2008 (F) - What are some new things to try in bed? We've done a lot of positions and are pretty adventurous. We try brainstorming new ideas but get stuck in ruts. Any suggestions? Thanks!...

It is normal for me to bleed like this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 347 days ago

10 December 2008 (F) - every time i finger myself my vagina bleeds slightly, And me and my boyfriend of a long time want to start doing things now, Is this normal for it to bleed?...

Did I break up for the wrong reason?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 347 days ago

10 December 2008 (F) - my boyfriend and i quarrel over sex. we are both virgins and he wants to sex but i am not ready for sex. i called off the relationship yesterday cos i felt we both need a break to know if its infatuation. i really love him and already missing him. ...

Is this a bad sign? Or I am just freaking out??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 347 days ago

10 December 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I had unprotected sex two nights ago. We were both tested prior, so went into our relationship clear of any STD’s. We have been together for 31/2 months, however, I remember learning in school that you can be carrying a virus for ...

Boyfriends bad aim cause me to be pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 347 days ago

10 December 2008 (F) - Okay, first off, I am 23 years old and my boyfriend is 28. Kids are in our future, and however this turns out we will deal with it. (We both have good jobs and could support whatever happens) I cannot take birth control because of health issues...

What is the best masturbatory device for us men?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

10 December 2008 (M) - Hi guys an gals - ok so we keep hearing about 'rampant rabbits' and the like for you gals, but what do y'all think is the best masturbatory device for us men? (Bin on my own lately an my right arms' knackered!)...

His "finishing pattern" is weird when we have sex.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

10 December 2008 (F) - Hii! :] My bf and I have been having sex lately for the past 3 weeks... he's 19 and I'm 17. Usually about 5 times a week we use protection and everything but his pattern for finishing is weird.... our first time he lasted about 10 minutes and now he ...

Is my penis too large?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 214 days ago

10 December 2008 (M) - Hey I'm 15 and my penis 9 inches flacid and 10.5 inches erect. I am a bit scared as I was going have oral sex with my girlfriend but she declined me due to my size. I feel my penis is too large and I don't know what to do. Is this normal and if not ...

The condom burst! Could I be the big "P"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 347 days ago

10 December 2008 (F) - okay well here it goes on Nov 15th i started my period and ended on Nov 18th and had sex with my boyfriend on Nov 19th and the condom busted and he came inside me and at first i feel hungry all the time but right now sometimes i would feel sick idk ...

First time sex, and now we are worried. Please help??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 304 days ago

10 December 2008 (M) - me and my girlfriend had sex for the first time, there was blood after that, i did not cum inside of her. she had like period for two days after that. could that be her period or what. we are so worried....

Please Help, I am so embarassed over this!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 347 days ago

10 December 2008 (F) - Hi, I was just wondering if anyone could help me... Ive been having this problem for about 6 months now and its really getting me down. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years and i love having sex with him, but about 6 months ago i started gett...

When a woman has an orgasm. how much fluid is normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 347 days ago

10 December 2008 (F) - When a women does ejaculate, how much fluid is an average amount?...

Can I get pregnant with clothes on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 343 days ago

10 December 2008 (F) - Hi. I have a question. okay so. me and my boyfriend have not had sex at all, the furthest we've gone is I'm naked and he's on top of me with jeans and boxers on, and we kind of act like we have sex, just humping until i have an orgasm. well he told ...

What is the best sex toy for a guy, while masturbating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 348 days ago

10 December 2008 (M) - which is the best way for a guy to masturbate and which is the best sex toy for a guy to use for masturbation?...

I have endured cheating, and dishonesty, still want to seduce him, how do I do it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 347 days ago

10 December 2008 (F) - I have read alot of the posts re: marriage and porn, and i am one of those wives who has dealt with the lies, dishonesty etc for the last five years....we are 80% of the time really good together (day to day stuff parenthood etc)...my questions are ...

I am not a sexual person and think sex is nasty.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 347 days ago

10 December 2008 (F) - I've been dating a guy for a month and to say I am not a sexual person. I think sex is not a fun (nasty)thing and I really don't want to have it. He on the other hand is into sex and gets horny in seconds just by being next to me in bed when I dont ...

Does dildo take away virginity?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 348 days ago

10 December 2008 (F) - I need to know if you already masturbated with a dildo but u didn't bleed at all does that mean you are still a virgin? Help please!...