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Archived questions from: 15 December, 2008 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Wow! I hate being a teen. Am I turning gay?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 341 days ago

15 December 2008 (M) - Wow, I hate being a teen! I'm 17 and well confused about my sexuality, more inclined to straight but I'm addicted to anal stimulation, oh boy, do I love it, SO normal I use the traditional german sausage and use it as a dick basically I get ...

Should I buy my girlfriend a dildo for Christmas?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 342 days ago

15 December 2008 (M) - My problem is so weird.... and I'm kinda stuck... my girlfriend and I tell each other everything and she told me she had tried a friend's dildo before and it was fun for her and she loved it but it was her friend's moms so she never had a chance to ...

Is he only with me because he doesn't want to come out of the closet completely?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 342 days ago

15 December 2008 (F) - Is my boyfriend gay? He recently told me he would like to try oral sex with a man, then asked me if I would like to watch. I agreed to it and he has been cruising personal ads nonstop for the right person. Then he told me yesterday he would like ...

I have a boyfriend but I would like to sleep with a girl... is that normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 341 days ago

15 December 2008 (F) - I have a boyfriend but I would like to sleep with a girl... is that normal?...

We don't have normal sex anymore, just anal occasionally. My self-esteem is shattered!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 342 days ago

15 December 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for around five months, we began to have sex after dating for around 3 months, we were both virgins. At the beginning, we both seemed to really enjoy sex, and I felt very satisfied and happy and he seemed to as well. O...

A good way to tease guys when they are fingering you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 342 days ago

15 December 2008 (F) - ok question mainly for guys but any womens input will help.i have two questions 1-when a guy is fingering you,do they like to hear u moan or not? 2-whats a good way to tease guys when they are fingering you? thankyou! xxx...

I don't want to get naked in front of her since she told me penises are dirty and unsightly!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 342 days ago

15 December 2008 (M) - My newish girlfriend has told me today she is revolted by penises because they are dirty and unsightly. We are yet to embark on the sexual side of the relationships and i am rather self-conscious about my genitals anyway and this has actually quite ...

I'm tired of giving and giving and getting nothing in return, not even respect!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 341 days ago

15 December 2008 (F) - hey, here's my situation. i'm 30 years old and have been with my husband for 13 years. our relationship has had many downs, he's been abusive at the start of it and i have always stayed with him, he isn't physically abusive anymore but everytime ...

My wife wants me to be active in bed, but I am passive and wait for her to ask!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 340 days ago

15 December 2008 (M) - I have been married for 2 years. My wife has 3 young childfren from a previous relationship, but was never married. The past year and a half we have had no sex life, maybe every 3 or 4 months. She wanted me to be aggressive and go after it, and I ...

If my boyfriend watched porn, does this mean he is obsessed with sex? Can people change?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 173 days ago

15 December 2008 (F) - Ok so my basic question upfront is- can people change? I know it's possible. But I'll ask with my specific situation. If it ends up getting long I apologize but bear with me. My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months. A couple of months a...

Ejaculation problems... is it me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 297 days ago

15 December 2008 (F) - I have been with my man for 3 years the sex has been great but recently I have noticed that he has not been able to ejaculate while have intercourse. He will ejaculate while we are having oral sex, is there something wrong with me? For some reason ...

I want sex with my cousin but she says no.... what to do???

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 203 days ago

15 December 2008 (M) - Hi my name is jaan, iwant to have sex with my cousine sister.whenever i tried to seduce her she refuses. i am very cofused and frustrated. please help me. Thanks...

If you swallow sperm, can you get pregnant?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 332 days ago

15 December 2008 (F) - Hi, my question is really embarrassing and I know a lot of people will feel awkward answering it... but I have always wandered but I am to embarrassed to ask any one else... Ok so I'll cut to the chase... basically if cum (sperm) gets on or in any o...

Need guy's advice about bj's

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 307 days ago

15 December 2008 (F) - ok, so most people are so open about questions on here so im ganna try it out. me and my boyfriend have been dateing 13 months, and weve only had sex once. but lately he's been doing down on me alot. and i wanna like return the favor, and he...

She slept with her ex after spending the night with me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 341 days ago

15 December 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for 9 months and I had accepted her sexual past. Recently I found out that she slept with her ex just before we started dating. The thing is just before this happened we spent the night together as friends and ...

I can't squirt now!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 342 days ago

15 December 2008 (F) - hi i have a quick question about female ejaculation. i am 18 and used to be able to 'squirt' and i did it once for my now ex boyfriend and his reaction was that of disgust even tho he said he thought it was hot, he said he didnt expect anywhere...

Any tips for experimenting with sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 342 days ago

15 December 2008 (F) - Hi, Any ideas and tips for experimenting in sex? - Anything to do with costume/roleplay? -New positions? -Any good lubes? -Toys? -Places to do it? Any answers to these or more would be great :) Ta xx ...

What do men like their woman to do while on top??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 342 days ago

15 December 2008 (F) - what do men like women to do when their woman are on top. or How do you master woman on top...

He says he feels inferior to me and that he's jealous of the way my body can react while orgasming!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 342 days ago

15 December 2008 (F) - my boyfriend and i are both each other's first serious relationship. along with that, we are both exploring each other's sexuality with each other. while i find it to be fun and exciting, he has such an issue with the fact that a woman can orgasm ...

Born again virgin?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 341 days ago

15 December 2008 (F) - I have a major question... I had a hysterectomy 8 years ago. When I have sex with my husband he says I am snugger then a virgin is.. is it true that the canal is shortened, thus making it snug? or am I wrong? I also found orgasm to be 10 times ...

He told me that only one other girl has ever made him cum with a condom on. Pressure!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 343 days ago

15 December 2008 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for about a month now and we arent bf/gf because ive just come out of a 2 year relationship (my first long term one if you can call it long term) and this new guy is amazing. but the problem is that he told me that only 2 ...

How can we make anal less painful?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 336 days ago

15 December 2008 (F) - my husband and I tried anal for the first time about a month ago. He says he has always liked it.. it was my first time and I really didn't. I was told it is very dangerous, and is a no no. I have seen it done in movies and jesus, those people ...

Any role playing ideas?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

15 December 2008 (F) - Hiya, Me and my bf love sex and we're really into role play like naughty maid and school girl etc. Does anyone have any other ideas we could try? We are gonna try a drama one where we walk into the room in dfferent roles and act out a wild love ...

Should she feel sore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 343 days ago

15 December 2008 (M) - okay well im 14 and my girlfriend is 13. the other nite i fingered her for her first time and she liked it but she said that later on her vagina was a lil sore. is that normal?...