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Archived questions from: 9 April, 2008 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

What is rainbow kissing? Should I try it?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 543 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - I might sound really stupid asking this but what does rainbow kissing mean? My current boyfriend is pretty kinky and like trying everything out. I was a virgin when we got together so he's taught me everything i know. He asked me at the weekend ...

Will the fact that I'm circumsized stop me from having sexual pleasure? I'm a virgin.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 593 days ago

9 April 2008 (M) - hi my names mike and me and my girlfriend have decided to have sex together but she dosent know that im circumsized - does matter if i am or not and will i not stop me from having as much pleasure as men which aren't circumsized?...

What do I do when my parents give me the "sex" talk?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 593 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - I am 14 and my parents still havent gave me sex talk. But when that time comes how do i tell them i know all about sex? Cause i did research on it and my sister told me? Help!...

He likes "golden showers" and has other fetishes. Is this a high sex drive or something else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 572 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - My special male friend loves to masturbate over the phone, he also love for me to pee on him in the shower, and loves to play with my small feet. He usually blows his load 3 times during a 30 min session when we are together. does he have a high sex ...

I have a problem with him ending sex with masturbation! Does this stem from watching too much porn?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 588 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - Lately, whenever we have sex, he cums a little and then says he is close to a "big one" and to play with him (i.e. jack him off, lick him, etc) until he's close and then he'll either cum inside of me or just cum. He seems to be in the mind set that ...

We are "friends with benefits". But...could he have feelings for me? I really don't want a relationship right now though...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 593 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - So this one is crazy. I have know this guy since i was in middle school. Had a crush on him then. I was the "ugly duckling and unpopular" girl so it never worked. I grew up and started hanging with him back in 2000. We have been friends ever since ...

I fell in love but found out she has a daughter from another relationship! How can I look at her the same?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 572 days ago

9 April 2008 (M) - Dear friends out there, thanks for all the great advice you are giving to the world because it's helped lots of people, me included. However, I have one very disturbing situation that I have gotten myself into unintentionally. I fell in love wit...

First time to have anal sex, any ideas?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 593 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - Hi I would like to try anal sex with my BF (together 2years now). I have been always interested in doing it, but I am little affraid. 1) how should I get myself ready (cleaning,not eating ... no idea) 2) which is the best pose the first ti...

I went to "third base" with a gentleman from my trip - now I feel lost in my values, as this situation contradicts my usual self!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 593 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - Dear Aunts and Uncles, I am twenty years old and until recently I have never been kissed. Kissing was something I was not familiar with and I could not push myself to do something I did not consider natural, no matter how perfect, accordin...

I'm a relationship failure. Am I risking too much again with this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 593 days ago

9 April 2008 (?) - well im basicly a failure when it comes to relationships. im 15 now, when i was 13 i got my first boyfriend, he treat me like a princess until he decided he wanted sex. when i told him i didnt want sex he forced me into it. and yeh ive been told he ...

Ready to divorce over husband's sex addiction! Any last ditch efforts or is this over?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 462 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - Hello every1 Im a troubled wife who is fed up with my husband's addiction with sex. Just recently in December, I've learned that my husband talks to a female that he met in March 2007. He also tells me that he's been watching this female masturbat...

Does he fancy me, or does he just think I'm easy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 592 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - Right, i have been with my boyfriend about 8 months now..(let's call him Jo - to keep it secret) through him i have made alot of new friends and some very very good ones at that. A good few months ago one of these very good friends made a drun...

I'm decided to have sex at 12. Concerned about the pain though!...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 592 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - help im 12 years old and me n my boyfriend want sex i know people say your too young and wait til your older but i can't wait til im older. we both love each other so much we cant stand being a way from each other. im not scared at all but what hap...

We had a threesome, now I'm jealous as I was awoken by them having sex in the morning!? I don't want to lose my BF to my best friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 127 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - I've been seeing my boyfriend for a few months now. We are both very adventurous and have both had threesomes before. So when my boyfriend suggested one I was happy to oblige. We had a house party last month and at the end there was me, my bf an...

What will people think about me when they find out I had a threesome?? I've extenuating circumstances: drink!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 593 days ago

9 April 2008 (?) - i have done like the stupidest thing in this world!!! i have liked this guy for ages! i mean like a really long time. and i went to a party at a mates house on sautrday night and i ended up sleeping with this guy, but also his mate! all three of us ...

He said that 'Vizen' eye-drops would cure it and I would not get pregnant?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 591 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - Well the other day me and my boyfriend had sex and he was drunk, so when he ask me where i wanted him to cum, i told him my stomach, but he ask me if he could inside of me, and i said that i wasn't ready for a baby just yet. He agreed with me but i ...

Videos of Wham, Rick Astley and wait for it YMCA I felt like the whole world was screaming at me 'He's gay!' Is he??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 593 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - Is My Boyfriend Gay? I just read another reader's description of the same situation and wanted to pose the same question because I'm driving myself mad. I met a fabulous man three months ago. After three and a half years single it was a relief to ...

Do guys only want to date me as a stop over in preparation for the right one? I feel so used!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 593 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - Hi Anne, Last year i was in a very troubled relationship but couldnt get out of it. i guess i figured no one else would want me. while i was in this relationship i met an amazing man and we fell in love. but because i was in a relationship i h...

The 17 yr old daughter of one of my friends is coming on to me quite strong..it's tempting but I need advce...please!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 579 days ago

9 April 2008 (M) - Hey, I'm having real trouble getting my head around this one. I'm a 45 year old divorcee with 2 children of 22 and 19. They both live with me after my wife ran off with another man. I'm lucky that I have a close circle of friends around me with m...

I hate myself for being disloyal to him. I'm confrused and frustrated, what can I do, I still want him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 593 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - I am with this guy for a year now but things are bitter for the last 4 months. we no more respect or trust each other and that passion which should be there is missing. In the past 1 yr i have made big sacrifices for him which i regret a lot ,cos i ...

I need more ideas for non-penetration sex. Any suggestions please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 593 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - Can anyone tell me sexy ideas for non-penetration sex? I am dating someone for some months, we have decided not to have sex with penetration yet, so we've been doing other kind of stuff (like oral sex and mutual masturbation), but it starts to be a ...

How can I become better at sex by being on top?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 593 days ago

9 April 2008 (?) - This sounds silly, but how can i become better at sex when i'm on top? I really have no idea what im doing, and im scared im hurting him! "Going with the flow" just doesnt seem to be working, and i always feel guilty because he's always on top. He ...

I am worried my husband could be gay!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 593 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - I am really concerned that my husband is gay. There are a few reasons i think this. 1) he is not into sex that much, we are lucky if we do it once a month, 2) he is very, very tidy around the house (which is great, not complaining) 3) i think t...

Is it true love or just physical pleasure?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 594 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - I knew this guy for more than 1 year,we are in the same university.For about six months before we started texting and then now we are in a relationship for a about 3 months. We think lot alike and we love each other alot and we feel very comfortable ...

My boyfriend get tired during sex. Any thoughts?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 593 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - When my boyfriend, and I do it. He gets tired, and I just want more and more. What should I do to get worn out, or to cum??...

Will he explode?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 593 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - What will happen if you stop giving a guy a hand job before he cums?...

Why wont my penis stay hard after penetration? Should I see a doctor?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 290 days ago

9 April 2008 (M) - Okay here is the deal. I am 17 going on 18 pretty soon. I've been in love with my girlfriend for a year or so now. I play basketball and workout. But my problem is when i masturbate and then stop, i can feel it going down more and more after about 3 ...

There's a sexual connection between us, but I feel not enough of an emotional one.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 594 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for about a year and a half. We've been through a lot but we seem to have worked things out. The sex is amazing...we have a great time but I feel like he can't give me enough emotionally. He tells me he loves me, ...

He wants to meet with his ex, just for coffee, I do trust him, but deep down it does bother me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 587 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - I have been seeing my boyfriend of 2 months, a lot lately. Over these 2 months we have learned a lot from each other. I have slowly grown to really like him and i enjoy every minute of his company. He is what i consider my first serious boyfriend. ...

He's not interested in sex. Help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 587 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - Problem. I have a boyfriend of 5 months. He does not live here. Thats not the problem. The problem is, he doesnt seem very into sex. Ok im not a nymph or anything like that, but I do enjoy talking about it occassionally. On one hand, I like that he ...

Does a guy only want you for sex if he asks for it on a first date?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 587 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - If a guy and a girl go out on a first date and he then asks her to be his gf and she says yes, then he asks to have sex with her (on the first date!), do you think its fair to say he probably is only really looking for sex and if he doesn't get it ...

I want to talk to him about it, because he was being a little forceful and I didn't like it. Is it just his natural rush? How should I go about talking to him about it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 594 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - Hello Aunts. I know that with what I'm asking advice on, everyone's going to want to tell me that I'm too young to be doing all this and whatever else they want to say about my age, but I'm going to ask you to please not comment on my age if it's ...

My girlfriend sucks at giving head.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 588 days ago

9 April 2008 (M) - My girlfriend sucks at giving me head. How do I make her better....