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writes:I've been seeing my boyfriend for a few months now. We are both very adventurous and have both had threesomes before. So when my boyfriend suggested one I was happy to oblige.We had a house party last month and at the end there was me, my bf and my best friend. We were all very merry after a great night and we suggested the threesome to her.Things got very very steamy between us and we ended up enjoying an amazing night. We all feel asleep but I was awoken by them next to me at 5 in the morning having sex with each other. She also has a betetr body than me and is a more passionate lover. I felt incredibly jealous with it all, and I'm worried he won't be satisfied with just me any more.Me and my bf had talked about marriage and children but now I don't know how I feel. Worse still is that me and my best friend can hardly look each other in the eye after what we did to one another.I really don't want to lose him but I don't know what to do, I need your help!
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reader, MissKin  +, writes (9 April 2008):
 I agree with Ayda1110 on this one. It's wrong to have a threesome and then have one on one. especially with you right there! If you were 'merry' as in drunk then perhaps this hadn't worn off yet but that's besides the point. I think you should tell your boyfriend about how you feel. even though you don't know how you feel - explain this to him. If he's had threesomes before he should understand the rules and to be honest i would consider it cheating because you weren't involved in the one on one sex between the two. You and your best friend need to come to terms with what happened, try to break the ice and move past it. I really can only suggest telling your boyfriend everything you think and feel and that you don't think this was the right thing for him to do and that you're feeling inferior in his eyes compared to your best friend. See what he has to say. I hope things work out.
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reader, Ayda1110  +, writes (9 April 2008):
 first off your friend and boyfriend were in the wrong....threesome etiquette is that you and the other girl are with him, not just the other girl... if you are having problems like that then talk to him about it, and tell him what you think is wrong.......if he keeps doing it, then drop him, he's not worth it
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