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Sex: Help and advice

Is this due to low self esteem or could I be gay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 584 days ago

18 April 2008 (F) - I am a woman and at 23 I am still a virgin. I have had boyfriends in the past but found it hard to be intimate. I am attracted to men but I am sexually attracted to women. is this due to low self esteem or could I be gay? I need help!...

A dear cupid STD riddle, can someone solve it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 584 days ago

18 April 2008 (F) - This is a dearcupid riddle... Who's done it??? Girl A is long distance girlfriend of Man B, but Man B also has an affair with girl C. Man B has unprotected sexual relationships with Girl A and also with Girl C. Recently Man B has had sex...

He only climaxes during oral if he gets himself off. What am I doing wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 583 days ago

18 April 2008 (F) - please can somebody tell me what i am doing wrong. i am trying to give my partner a satisfying blow job. i am 48 and he is 57. despite reading all the advice on this site and putting it into practice he only ever climaxes by jacking himself ...

How can I make sure my boyfriend doesn't have any STD's??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 584 days ago

18 April 2008 (F) - hi, Me and my bf have been dating a while and the topic of sex has come up alot. Now I am a virgin and he is not and i am not ready to have sex, and he knows I am not and said he would wait fot me, so what I am worried about is Sexually Transmit...

Why doesn't he cum from oral?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 191 days ago

18 April 2008 (?) - I love to give my bf oral, and i understand that making him cum is not everything, but he never does cum. Although he claims to enjoy it! But it puts me off doin it when i feel like i cant even make him cum. The whole on-goin argument about spit or ...

I worry about HIV, could I have caught it in a moment of madness?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 584 days ago

18 April 2008 (F) - Hi, This is probably a really stupid question but i'll ask none the less. A few years back I was really drunk and thought it was a brilliant idea to take off my shoes and go wading around in the city fountain in Leicester. I didn't get far and...

With my bf for about 6 months but I have always felt really nervous about initiating anything sexual,

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 584 days ago

18 April 2008 (F) - Hi, i actually posted this same querie before but it was edited so it was nothing at all to do with my problem so here it is again lol. I have been with my bf for about 6 months but i have always felt really nervous about initiating anything sexual, ...

I have always been quite shy about initiating sex and initiating kisses -tips?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 584 days ago

18 April 2008 (F) - Hi, i have been seeing my boyfriend for about 6 months but i have always been quite shy about initiating sex and initiating kisses etc. i don't know why it makes me nervous, but it does. Recently my bf says he doesnt like having to initiate ...

Should he stay a virgin?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 580 days ago

18 April 2008 (F) - Hi all, I find it really disturbing that one of our Aunts (WE ALL KNOW WHO) is ranting and raving over religion. He is clearly very disturbed, and should anyone that has such extreme views be giving advice? We are all entitled to believe in w...

He gets defensive when I talk about our sex life and porn! How do I talk to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 584 days ago

18 April 2008 (F) - I really need some relationship advice. I live with my boyfriend and at first everything was perfect. Then we got near to Christmas and it all started going wrong, I know he used to have a problem smoking cannabis but he quit a yr and a half ago. ...

I have taken my friends Virginity, and now I don't know how to handle it!!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 584 days ago

18 April 2008 (F) - I slept with a guy who was a virgin, but only found out afterwards. Now he's in contact with me all the time. I personally feel terrible, taking his virginity, especially as he had been drinking. I feel like I've 'spoiled' him. Because he had been ...

How do I avoid having sex with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 584 days ago

18 April 2008 (F) - Please help. So I'm going to this guy I'm dating's house today for lunch. The thing is 2 weeks ago we hung out at his place and we had sex. We used to date about 2 years ago and we stopped talking and now we met up again (about 2 months ago). I ...

I need advice on how to meet girls or go up to girls in normal places ie clubs, bars, etc for a threesome

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 584 days ago

18 April 2008 (F) - I need advice on how to meet girls or go up to girls in normal places ie clubs, bars, etc for a threesome?? I know there are books written giving guides or opener lines to use, tips, strategies etc. But wondering if anyone has any suggestions or ...

I can't erect when with my girlfriend please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 584 days ago

18 April 2008 (M) - so this just started like 2 weeks ago. now i never had a problem getting rock hard before and i can get hard to beat off but just not when we wana have sex. i dont know why or whats wrong. if i watch porn it goes right up and everythings ok but with ...

I had a period, but could I still be pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 584 days ago

18 April 2008 (F) - I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend 4 days before my period was due. He came in me. 3 times. I did get my period, but I'm still a bit worried that this doesn't definitely mean I'm not pregnant? Is there a chance I am? ...

Is saying no to sex when you don't feel like it a bad or good thing?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 582 days ago

18 April 2008 (M) - Is saying no to sex when you don't feel like it a good or a bad thing? Sure you don't feel like it so why shouldn't you say no? But is that the sort of way you'd like your partner to treat you when you're the one wanting it? Personally if ...

He can't keep it up, is it my fault?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 584 days ago

18 April 2008 (F) - My partner has problems maintaining an erection. It occurs at the most random of times, and 85% of the time he is fine. He used to be quite heavily into drugs (but not for about 10yrs) and had his penis pierced (but is now healed up). Is it possible ...

I'm afraid his "plan" may include sex with his ex. What do you think?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 584 days ago

18 April 2008 (F) - 16/f..since my boyfriend and i don't see each other very often and he apparently wants to "save" the relationship so he doesn't get tempted with anyone else..(mostly in his case..) he made a plan. on early dismissal at our school (which was today) ...

Did I scare him away by leaving a "freaky" message on his voicemail?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 584 days ago

18 April 2008 (F) - Ok.. I am in some desperate need of advice. I just started dating one of my sisters friends. I met him a while ago but have only been talking to him for like 4 days. There is a strong sexual connection between us and really thats the only reason we ...