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Archived questions from: 14 April, 2008 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Are there any other people who want to wait for marriage before having sex?

This question has 51 answers - newest was posted 581 days ago

14 April 2008 (M) - As a young man 25 years old, I want to know if there are any other people from 18-35 who have standards and want to remain virgins when they marry, also would not marry a person who has been divorced and had kids of of wedlock?...

My boyfrind might be gay! What am I going to do? Can I make him straight?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 587 days ago

14 April 2008 (F) - Im so worried My Boy Friends Gay, Im his first GirlFriend and he always used to get teased and called gay, and resently he told me hes not so sure him self! I dont know what to do! he says he loves me, but if he was gay i dont know how id cope ...

My ex wants a sex fling but does he really want more?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 584 days ago

14 April 2008 (F) - My ex boyfriend dumped me 4 months ago. We were together for a year, lived together as well. Although the reaosn why he broke up with me wasn't actually clear at all, I think it had something to do with him feeling insecure - basically he was more ...

Are there any long term side effect from anal sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 162 days ago

14 April 2008 (M) - Hi Over the past few months my partner and i have tried anal sex. At first she was against it, but now likes it and enjoy the change. she is concerned if there is any long term side affect from doing it that way and if so what...

I don't trust the pregnancy tests...!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 587 days ago

14 April 2008 (F) - I had sex for the first time on 2/25. It was unprotected, although I had been on the pill for a week and he withdrew. I took the morning after pill within 7 hours. I had my period on time two weeks later. It was really heavy and then my next period ...

My wife 'claims' to be interested in sex - but her actions do not at all reflect that claim...help : )

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 588 days ago

14 April 2008 (M) - I have been with my wife for 8 years (married for four of them) and until recently she was almost never interested in sex. In fact, it was a source of great tension and naturally moved into the shadows due to her apparent lack of interest. Now she ...

Does a man having sex with his wife as often as he wants prevent him from getting it elsewhere?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 579 days ago

14 April 2008 (F) - I was wondering if a woman has sex with her husband every day, or as often as he wants it, will that prevent him from cheating? Or will it at least help in preventing him from cheating? I am not worried that my husband will cheat, but there was a ...

If I have an abortion, is it true that I won't be able to have children in the future?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 588 days ago

14 April 2008 (F) - My B/F and I had unprotected sex, and I'm pregnant but I don't want to keep the baby because I'm only 17. I may sound selfish but I really don't want to, I want to have an abortion but I've heard that after having an abortion there is a big poss...

How can I stop my mouth aching when giving him oral?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 574 days ago

14 April 2008 (?) - How can I stop my mouth aching when giving him oral? I've been giving my long term boyfriend oral for months now, but I still don't seem to be able to keep going without my mouth really aching. It gets so uncomfortable that I have to stop after ju...

Will I get pregnant if I keep having unprotected sex? He pulls out!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 588 days ago

14 April 2008 (F) - Me and my BF had sex lots of times without using condom but always when he wants to pull the sperm out he takes his penis out of me, I'd like to know how safe is this from not getting pregnant? I've had sex lots of times with him this way, and I ...

Will my boyfriend wait for sex if he truly loves me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 588 days ago

14 April 2008 (F) - Me and my bf are 5 yrs apart, and even though were in love, he tells me he can wait to have sex with me but I wonder if its true cause most guys I know won't wait. And how can we make are relationship stronger than what it is. Thanks ...

How to offer the best strip show to my BF? I'm stressed about not organising properly...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 588 days ago

14 April 2008 (F) - How do I give the best strip show for my boyfriend? I would love to do it for him, cause I know he would love me to .. but I am soooo stressed out, that I will mess up, or that I will look pathetic infront of him, since he saw strippers (via ...

We share a sexual relationship and I want to compromise in pleasing him in ways I don't feel comfortable. Should I talk to him about this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 588 days ago

14 April 2008 (F) - I got a problem thats bothering me but I really don't want it to. I've been with someone for quite a while now but it's not a full on relationship more casual sex. Anyways he takes control in sex, which I prefer but now he wants me to instead, prob...

Husband wants sexual pleasure, but will not return the favours, so I feel unwanted!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 560 days ago

14 April 2008 (F) - hi, i am writing to ask about my husband doesn't seem to be sexualy interested in me any more i no he is not having an affair because we have are own business so we are together most of the time.also he wants sexual pleasure from me in the way of ...

Can I have anal sex while I suffer from hemorrhoids?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 588 days ago

14 April 2008 (F) - can I have anal sex while I suffer from hemeroids? thank you...

I want to last longer during sex, why can't I stay hard after I cum?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 400 days ago

14 April 2008 (M) - I can not stay hard after i cum when im haveing sex im only 25 i went to last longer i haveing sex with my but how if i cant stay hard? we have oral everytime before we have sex. i do not know what is wrong...

My husband doesn't seem to be interested in sex!! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 543 days ago

14 April 2008 (F) - My husband doesn't seem to be interested in sex. Everyone says I'm attractive and I get a lot of attention from other men. I am totally committed to him but I feel like I've tried everything. I have tried to be "hard to get", understanding, and ...

He was not quite supportive when I told him I cannot climax without a vibrator! Shouldn't he be happy and excited to meet my needs??

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

14 April 2008 (F) - I have a problem with my boyfriend of 9 months. Everything in our relationship is great except for the sex. I do enjoy having sex with him very very much, but I can’t orgasm without a vibrator on my clitoris. I don’t know why and I wish it wasn’t ...

I've had a very thin yellowish discharge afres ex, could it be an infection?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 587 days ago

14 April 2008 (F) - I had sex for the first time a week ago and ever since i've had a very thin yellowish discharge that smells bad. Do you think i have an infection? Or could it be something else? it only started after having sex....

Does a preferred position say something about a man's personality? (controlling for example)

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 588 days ago

14 April 2008 (F) - Just curious...if a man says his favourite position to make love is the doggy style, does it say something about his personality i.e. selfish? From a woman's point of view, I think it is, as the position only enable the man to have full control from ...

Possibilites of being pregnant after unprotected sex, several times...!? My body acts differently: exhaustion, stomachaches, loss of appetite...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 588 days ago

14 April 2008 (F) - Wondering if I may be pregnant or the possibilities before I take a pregnancy test. Last month I had my period March 3-6 (four days - which is normal for me) but afterwards my boyfriend and I had unprotected sex almost everyday, if not, every other ...

He wants to be close sometimes and other times its like he's afraid of me !

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 588 days ago

14 April 2008 (F) - I have been discreetly seeing a guy who is going through a divorce,there is a 6 year old involved whom he adores dearly, he wouldn't take any chances in losing his son. He doesn't really want anyone to know that we are involved ,so to speak. We've ...

Should I let him go and see if he comes back again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 588 days ago

14 April 2008 (F) - Should I still keep seeing him and fight for him or would he want me more if I stopped communicating completely...Help I need a guys poing of view. I have been dating this guy for several months and we were friends for several months first, we...

The question is does he just want sex from me or is he starting to fall for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 589 days ago

14 April 2008 (F) - I have been working with my married co-worker for about two years now (i'm also kinda married) and i have always kind of felt something with him, but i have never acted on it. Until now, we have had sex twice and we 'IM' each other all day at work...

My wife likes endless fondling and foreplay with no sex. Any advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 573 days ago

14 April 2008 (M) - My wife likes to fondle. She loves to play with my penis (teasingly, really) every chance she gets. On my days off, she would want me to sit with her for hours sometimes just to talk and fondle. I accommodate her a lot. Playing with my penis, she ...

I'd like advice on having penetrative sex please.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 589 days ago

14 April 2008 (F) - A guy that I've been seeing for a while has expressed interest in ME having penetrative sex with HIM. I'm totally open to giving it a try, but I really don't know how to go about it, or what's ideal to do/use the first time. If anyone could off...

He doesn't like me in his 'face space', and says it's too personal.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 589 days ago

14 April 2008 (F) - He likes for me to give him oral sex, but he doesn't really like kissing me, before or after, he doesn't like me in his face space. Does he not want to be that close to me, he says it's too personal, but isn't oral sex pretty personal?...