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writes: This sounds silly, but how can i become better at sex when i'm on top? I really have no idea what im doing, and im scared im hurting him! "Going with the flow" just doesnt seem to be working, and i always feel guilty because he's always on top. He likes it and always cums! But i want to impress him by being on top.How do i do this? Reply to this Question
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reader, deejuliet  +, writes (9 April 2008):
 I understand your confusion. That is what I used to think, too! But no, he doesnt have to be going 'in and out' as you would think. By you rocking your pelvis, he is moving inside you, but only slightly, and it is very stimulating indeed. Since I started doing this technique my boyfriend wants me on the top all the time! Not only does he cum, I have even made him yell out when he does, it is that intense. When I tell him later he was yelling, he is suprized because he didnt even realize it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for all your responses :]
But 'deejuliet', does it not matter that he's not going in and out of me, like the motion that would normally be used? Can he still reach an orgasm through his penis not really moving as much as normal?
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reader, deejuliet +, writes (9 April 2008):
Try this ~ Sit up, putting your hands on his chest or in his hands help up for you to balance and brace yourself on. Then, instead of going up and down, plant yourself firmly all the way down. Now kind of rock the pelvis forward and back, staying all the way down, kind of 'grinding' on him. This allows for very deep penetration and feels absolutely fabulous for both parties. At least for me and my boyfriend! I dont really know if other guys like this, but it drive my guy mad!
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reader, isolated  +, writes (9 April 2008):
Ok i had the same problem, google women on top sex positions and even watch some light porn to get an idea but i find that the more you worry that your not 'doing' it right the worse you are, don't feel stupid just let go of your inhabitions and relax the more confident you are the sexier you will appear to your boyfriend
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