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26-29,
*oxane Ford
writes:So, if you want someone you have fight for it, isn't it?But what if me and him are in a long distance? Once he got used to send me a message first, ask what i'm doing, and all those thing. But now, he never contacted me again, or ask how I was doing? I've asked 2 times. First he said that he was busy, the second time, i know that i ask for it at the wrong time because when i'm in the morning, he's at night. he said she had wanted to sleep babe. Is he already bored with me? or meet with other women there? What should I do to get him back to me? What does he want?
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reader, Roxane Ford +, writes (22 March 2014):
Roxane Ford is verified as being by the original poster of the questionmmm. yea i think i should let him goooo
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (22 March 2014):
I think also that you need to let him go. There's nothing wrong with fighting for something, but he seems too far away, and it's too easy to lose interest in someone if they are always too far away. Also, twice you tried to contact him, and twice he didn't seem overly bothered. That, coupled with the fact that clearly he's in another country, makes it almost impossible for it to work.
I think it's best to let him go, no matter how hard it may be.
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reader, like I see it  +, writes (22 March 2014):
 I'm sorry, but I think you will have to let him go.
You've made an effort to keep contact, twice, and he has chosen not to reciprocate, twice.
He may not have met anyone else at all; maybe the long-distance aspect of the relationship has made it not as appealing to him over time.
Unfortunately there really isn't anything you *can* do if that's what he chooses. Long distance or not, you can't make someone stay in a relationship with you unless that relationship is something the other person also wants.
I'm assuming that if you only contact him by message he lives too far away for you to visit him and talk about it in person. So him not responding to your messages is his way of ending things. It's cowardly of him not to just say it directly, but I do think he's trying to break things off.
That said, while he may not be the one for you, he is setting you free to find the man who is.
Chin up. Best wishes
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