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writes:How to deal with a husband who ignores his wife for a period of 2 months now? Basically, we did not consumate our marriage as I am working abroad and my husband is in our home country. My husband was my ex-boyfriend, but when I went on emergency leave last 2009 we met and on that moment he proposed on me and got married abruptly. I have been asking him to come with me so that we can start a new life together, however, he is reluctant to the idea. He said that he is old enough to start a new beginning to the other country (btw, he is only 36 years old). We compromised and I was supposed to stop from my work this coming June and have decided to go back home,for good. Things is doing well as planned, but this past months his resentment to his father haunted him again. I have been calling him and sending him text messages, but to no avail.I can feel that our marriage is in the brink of ending, but I am still holding on my grip. Hoping that one day he will realize that he still have a wife who loves him and needs him. Our problem don't include infidelity, but everday is agony for me thinking about what is happening to my husband now.Should I let it go and walk away to the marriage? Please help....
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reader, RedAthena  +, writes (27 May 2011):
 How do you end something that never really got a proper start?
Sadly, it seems like you have a marriage on paper only.
Maybe you both rushed this arrangment without really thinking it through?
Can you contact a mutual freind or family member that can check on him?
Maybe reconsider ending your job and take an extended leave to head home and reassess the circumstances. You may be giving up a job you really love that can lead to great things....for a relationship that is headed no where.
Best Wishes.
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