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writes: hi.Im dating this 1 girl for 5 months now and the first couple of months, she was amazing and loving towards me but i guess after some time she has changed so much, i really dont know what to do.She has been the girl of my dreams.When ever theres an argument or something is not right, i confront her but then she either cries or get upset with me, like its my fault.But then later on she apologises about everything that happen. The next day everything starts again.She lies to me alot, and i dont think i can even trust her even if its the truth.Its a LDR. Recently i noticedWhenever i phone her she gets angry with me and talks badly or end the call, it really upsets me to see this attitude from her.I dont know if its possible to sort things out because shes very stubborn when i try and sort things out.Maybe she has another guy whos her secret admirer, it proves a point the way she treats me, she has no respect towards me.Please help, what should i do or how show i sort things out.Thanks alot. Reply to this Question
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (26 May 2011):
 it does sound like she has no respect for you and is keeping you on a piece of string, nasty to you when you call, arguments, then always sorry and reels you back in. it you carry on tolerating this behaviour she will never respect you, coz she doesn't have to.
if she was so into you she would not want to treat you like this and she would not want to risk losing you.
tell her things have got to change or end
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reader, RedAthena  +, writes (26 May 2011):
 Relationships are hard even if you LIVE in the same town.
LDR's are even harder.
You are both young and still learning what it takes to make a great relationship. Merely choosing someone to be your bf/gf is not enough to sustain it.
So, look at the facts.
*You are long distance, so you do not see eachother much.
*You argue. DO you ever solve anything/come to a solution or understanding? Or does it just end in tears with her?
*You do not communicate well with eachother.
*You do not trust her.
SO, tell us again WHY she is your "Dream Girl"? Because right now, I doubt you even LIKE her.
Best Wishes.
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