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I'm gay and want to tell one of my best friends but just don't know how to tell her. Please help!!!!

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Question - (5 January 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 17 January 2009)
A male Australia age 22-25, *rae123 writes:

Ok I'm just gonna say it all at I de so bare with me. I 15 and I'm an the closet gay. I have a really really good friend who live across the road from me. We hang out all the time and go to the service station for slurpees all the time together. I really want to tell her that I gay. I want to get it off my chest to someone. I haven't worked myself up to telling my parents yet. The only problem is that I have no idea how to tell her.

So does anyone have any ideas on how to tell her. Or tips.

Please help me. I really want to tell her.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2009):

my advice is to tell people while you have control because at some point she/they will find out and its best for them not to find out during a game of spin the bottle or strip twister(dont ask)

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A male reader, yum yum Switzerland +, writes (6 January 2009):

yum yum agony auntI think you should ask her what she thinks about homosexualty first. Then you might feel much more comfortable in telling her that you are gay( if she is open minded). If your parents are open minded you should not hesitate in telling them. Good luck!

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A female reader, dt1213 United States +, writes (5 January 2009):

hmm.. well i understand that you are scared because you arent sure of how she will react but a good friend will accept you for who and what you are. You dont need to have a big plan on how to tell her and you dont need to be ashamed and hide it. Im sure that she will be totally cool with the whole thing. Dont stress over it. She knows you better than I do so maybe once you get it out to her, she could help you think of ways to let your parents know as well.

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