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I am thinking too much of this?

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Question - (10 April 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 11 April 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *aliGrown09 writes:

First off, last summer I visited my sister and her husband on a marine bass they lived at. I visited them for 2 months. I met a friend of theirs.. he liked me, I liked him.

We even hooked up one night. It was the best haha. Anyway, he went to iraq for 7 months and we still talked over myspace, with the same feelings. Feelings might have faded a little sense it has been so many months sense we last saw each other.. he just got back recently and we have only texted.

He is the type with "no game" and is the shy type towards girls. The only way I found out he even liked me was because he made his friend go to tell me! Besides the point, I might see him this summer. Should I expect him to contact me all the time, or do you think it's not even that serious to be thinking of this stuff? Please help, and thanks =]

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A female reader, bobbles32 Canada +, writes (11 April 2009):

bobbles32 agony auntSo he said that if you were a year older than it would be fine? Hm! Looks like he's definetly interested then! But as you can see the age gap is freaking him out..

Hm! maybe if you wait till you turn 18 (the magic number) haha, then he'll make a serious move.. but as it is you could always just be really close with him and chat it up all the time, then he'll see what a wonderful person you are and want you to be his woman!

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A female reader, CaliGrown09 United States +, writes (10 April 2009):

CaliGrown09 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

CaliGrown09 agony auntokay that made alot of sense about the expecting part lol. thanks.. & the age gap, i was 16 back then, he was 20. now i'm 17, hes still 20. & he talked to my brother in law about it and said if i was only a year older then it would be fine. meaning if i was 17, which i am. i dont think the age gap is a big of deal cause im turning 18 this year anyway.

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A female reader, bobbles32 Canada +, writes (10 April 2009):

bobbles32 agony auntYou shouldn't really EXPECT anything, if he likes you then he will try to keep in contact and if he doesn't then he won't.

He may be a little freaked by the age gap because you're not legal yet, have you talked to him about it?

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A female reader, CaliGrown09 United States +, writes (10 April 2009):

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CaliGrown09 agony aunthes only 3 years older, but thanks for answer i guess.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2009):

i think your too young to be dating him in the first place..

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