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writes: I started working in this bar from July time to end of October and I'd always liked the manager that worked there. I knew he had a girlfriend and always did but he's like the only person I could think about. About the beginning of October I finshed work and he gave m a lift home as he always did due to that being the condition I worked because I wouldn't walk home in the dark but this one time he asked if I wanted to go on a slight detour if you get me which I'd been waiting for a long time. I felt like I couldn't turn it down becasue I so wanted him even though I knew he was my manager and had a girlfriend.That night happened and it was like the best ever, things happened but not sex cos I knew not to be that stupid to go that far but thngs did happen. Since then we have not spoken about it at all except from the weekend after when I went to work where he acted differently and I text him when I finished and said did he regret it? I got a reply of yes and that was it, we never spoke about it ever again. Now he has broken up with his girlfriend becasue she cheated on him.The problem is that since what happened he's all I want and I have tried to move on and think about other people but everything I do say or think leads back to him. I want to talk to him but I don't have the guts to ring. I have text and said how are you but there is never a reply. He lives an hour and a half away but I have never ever liked someone like I like him and I pine for him. I don't know what to do?? I can't get over him, I have been trying for ages and it's no good. Can I have some help please??? Do I text him and say how I feel? Does he like me and feel the same?? Thanks if anyone could help.
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reader, dearkelja  +, writes (28 December 2007):
 I think you are best not to push things, especially if he has only just broken up with his ex. Just let him go. It's not like you wont see him at work anymore. Just be friendly and casual.
I believe he knows how you feel so you don't need to tell him outright. Let nature take it's course.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni have kept away and that but he has no idea how i feel should i tell him? i wan him to know but theres a part where i dont want him to know. i have no idea how he feels. he is always on my mind its like ive had him s i can get him again
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reader, dearkelja +, writes (28 December 2007):
I think ifyou have sent him text messages already and he hasn't replied then you should not try to contact him further. It is possible that he feels badly about his break up and just isn't ready for any relationship. Guys don't like clingy women. Give him his space.
You need to try to move on. It could be he's all you think/want because you can't have him. Being in a one way relationship isn't any fun, so try to find someone who wants to be with you.
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