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I love him to bits but just as a mate..how do I tell him without breaking his heart??

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Question - (23 December 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 28 December 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

So, i met this guy on the internet we hit it off great, but when we met up, i really liked him but he didnt like me.

We had been dating for a month online and when i finally met him, he broke up with me telling me im not his type, but i really did like him, but i took the break-up ok, then the next day this lad from my town found out i was single and asked me out, i couldnt say no, but i dont really like him but hes had a huge crush on me for over a year now, so how do i tell him its over without breaking his heart?

I love him too bits but as a mate, i just want my ex back :(

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A female reader, Signed-With-EyeLiner United Kingdom +, writes (28 December 2007):

Signed-With-EyeLiner agony aunt1.Just gently tell your mate that you dont think your the one for him and you think of him much more like a close brother. Let him know that you love and respect him and would never want to hurt him but just not in the way he feels about you. Tell him he deserves someone that loves him the way he loves you so that he dosnt get his heart broken later on. Let him know that you are flattered but just can't.

2.This guy you met dosnt seem to know how great you could be. You met up once and he ditches you? try talking to him more so that he can see you for teh cool, intresting person you are. And if it dosnt work out try just being friends with him. If none of this works he musnt be worth it. Your soulmate is deff still out there somewhere though

Much luck x

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