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My friend just doesn't put in the efforts to our friendship..advice?

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Question - (30 December 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 31 December 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi

My friend is being really annoying. Whenever i ask her if she wants to meet up, she is 'busy'. But her definition of busy is sitting at home or going to her dad's house. She's great when i do see her, and a good mate, but i wish she would just make more of an effort, instead of me having to do it all the time.

Hope you can give me some advice

thanks x

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A female reader, lil'shade United States +, writes (31 December 2007):

Sorry to say it but she doesn't sound like much of a friend if she doesn't want to spend time with U.

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A female reader, Butterflyfly United Kingdom +, writes (30 December 2007):

Butterflyfly agony auntWell tell her what you have told us.. And also find some more friends, dont depend and rely just on her attention. All the best.

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A female reader, fifi the1st Ireland +, writes (30 December 2007):

hey hun, i know how you feel ive been there. If i was you i'd just stop asking her to meet up 4 a while. Don't fall out with her it's just a subtle way of letting her know that you're not gonna make all the arrangements. Then she should come round and ask you to meet up. hope this helps.

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