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I've been fooling around with this guy, but he doesn't want me to tell anyone, should I carry on seeing him?

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Question - (30 December 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 31 December 2007)
A female United States age 30-35, *ickix3 writes:

I'm 16 and I've been sorta seeing this guy [we'll call him A] for a month now. He hasn't asked me out yet and we've fooled around but haven't had sex. I'm really starting to like A more and more but is scared that he might just be using me. A is a one those really popular guys that everybody knows. But he has a very sweet, sensitive side that he doesn't normally show. But when we're hanging out, he shows it to me. I really want to talk about this with somebody but none of my friends know about us because A doesn't want anybody knowing. What should I do?

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A female reader, vickix3 United States +, writes (31 December 2007):

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vickix3 agony auntthanks :]

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A female reader, mama2three United States +, writes (31 December 2007):

mama2three agony auntDitto :)

If he's that crazy about you, he wouldn't want to keep you hidden.

Let him know that you'd like more from the relationship and see what happens.

Good luck!

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A female reader, starfairy United Kingdom +, writes (31 December 2007):

starfairy agony auntWhen you're seeing a guy, you want him to want to show you off. You want him to be proud to be seen with you, and you want him to show you off to all his mates.

Of course this guy shows the sweet side of his personality to you, he wants to keep YOU sweet. So you keep your little fling a secret...He sounds like a waste of time to me. Youw ant to be treated like a princess by a guy, not kept in the shadows!

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