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writes:this sounds rather silly but im a confused teanager, ive grown up to quickly.and theres a boy i like alot.were close freinds, and he said he likes me to.but hes got a girlfreind, who doesn't like me.hes breaking up with her soon though.ive already todl him how i feel, and he didnt seem to serious about how i felt.what should i do please help? Reply to this Question |
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2007): 14,male,
He might feel the same way,
he might just be shy, that was my problem.
my best friend was dating a girl that i liked. i did not rilly know her. but i liked her alot. and he was not good to her. and i did not have the nerv to tell her for almost a month. somthing happend and thay wer fighting so it was my chance.
so here is what i think, he is going to break up with her soon? well if that is the fact then when he break's up with her then ask him out. but i have had a tast of what it is like to be cheated on. by a girl i was very very fond of. and it's like a knife in you'r gut. and then sicknes and then some times vomiting. and it would not be good for you to start dateing this guy if he is still with his girlfriend now. the knife in the gut feeling is not a good one. and it is one of the worst thing's you can do to some one if you ask me.
w8 intell the time is right. and then ask him. and if he is still with his girl friend then wait longer. or start looking for another guy.
P,S. find one that is respectful/responsible/and cares/(dont get a jerk) and one that dosent just want to sleep with you is a good choise as well.thay are hard to find. i am one of the few that dont just want to sleep with his girlfriend. one that you know you can trust. and if he rilly cares about you. then give him a few chances if thay are little thing's.(dunp him if he cheat's!)
hope this help's,
nikandme,
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reader, baby duck  + ♥, writes (31 December 2007):
 You told him how you feel. He says he likes you.
Do you think he's not taking you seriously because he has not expressed the same emotions for you? That is not fair, if that is the case.
Often times, one person cares more for the other. It hurts, but that does not mean that the other person is immature or unkind. It is what it is.
Keep your eyes, mind and heart open. Enjoy your friends. Develop your interests. Some day, you'll meet someone that is as interested in you, as you are in him. In fact, there will be times that someone thinks that you are not taking him seriously, because you cannot return his feelings. Try to be compassionate for that person.
Best wishes.
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reader, maddierose  +, writes (31 December 2007):
 hes an immiture little boy. they can't take these things seriously but i am sure he does value your opinion and your intrest with him. but for his age it is normal not to take that kind of thing seriously, because when anything requires a little more emotion than usual a young male will immediately turn this into an un serious or even soemtimes react in a jokey manner. This is a good sign, it probably means he has definately taken it seriously, and if he feels the same way he would have no reason to not take it seriously.
hope it works out =)
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