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writes:Hello my name's Elle and I have a bit of a problem, well it's a huge problem actually. I have fallen in love with my old teacher, not old as in age old but old as in from high school.It started in high school when I was upset once and he just was really sweet and told me that he was always there for me if I ever needed to talk he would be right by my side if I needed him... And so on and so forth, after that day he became my full time teacher and we just started talking and after a while I was always spending time with him, and we always talked. Even after school I would go and talk to him because I was bored waiting for a bus, and he told me that it was nice to have someone to talk to. Well I have left school now and we have been constantly emailing eachother about life and he's been asking me about univercity and everything. We are really great friends, and i'm 19 by the way he's 32. I know huge age difference but my feelings wont change. We went out for coffee a couple of times and he was really sweet he insisted on paying. Then the other day I was talking to him over the phone because we hadn't spoken for ages and he could tell I was upset I told him I wasn't feeling 100 percent and he kept saying are you alright, talk to me if you need me and the usual. But then a couple of hours later he came to my house with roses! And a get well card?? It was a joke kind of because one time back in school I did the same for him when he was really sick except i gave him a card at school... But yeah he is really sweet and I am head over heals in love. We are going to go to dinner really soon because he's going to give me some tips on one of my art works im working on this semester. Please tell me do I tell him how I feel? Do you think he feels the same way??
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reader, Tevote +, writes (29 December 2007):
Tevote is verified as being by the original poster of the question Hi it's me and thanks so much for your advice. Well we went out last night and it was fantastic, he was really kind and he had the most funniest jokes. But he has always been able to make me laugh. Well this parts really sweet I thought it was anyways. After dinner we were walking at the beach if ur wondering why it's because we had dinner at the lagoon he lives near the beach and I decided to meet him there...Also because I thought it was kind of romantic. Well we were walking on the beach and we were just laughing then I stopped and looked at him and I said I need to tell you something. And
he just waited so I hesitated then I just said I've fallen in love with you. Well the reaction on his face was one that is hard to describe it was mixed of happy, confused and a little sad. Well I was worried because he hadn't said anything and I got really really stressed so I just said I should go I began to walk away but he said wait. Then he just said that he loved me as well, and for a while but he couldn't say anything because he thought it would be wrong and that I didn't feel the same way. I hugged him then and I know....this is weird but I started crying I was just so happy! We spent the rest of the night telling eachother about how we tried to get one an others attention. I didn't kiss him though but as I was leaving to get into my car he ran back to me from his yelling wait! before I turned we were kissing it's a blur. But thank you for your advice without it I don't think I would have had the courage and I don't think we would be together. Thank you so much.
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reader, babygirl91  +, writes (28 December 2007):
 i agree i wouldnt just burst out and tell the teacher that your in love with him. i think he feels the same way about you but hes really shy! sometimes it takes awhile for a guy to tell u he likes u because some are really shy believe me i know! but just give it some time the day will come when he asks u out! good luck!
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