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Archived questions from: 7 April, 2009 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

My wife cheated with a 72 year old man. What do I do?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

7 April 2009 (M) - I'm 28, my wife's 26. We have a 5-year-old son. Last night she said to me she had something to confess. I listened as she aadmitted to me she'd been having an affair with a 72-year-old man and that it was basically just sex for her, and that the...

Am I right to want to break up with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5500 days ago

7 April 2009 (F) - Check out my other posts on my huge fight with my boyfriend this weekend. But I have another huge problem. My boyfriend lied to me last night. He told me he was going out for coffee with his guy friend, and I talked to that guy friend toda...

Follow up: 16 year old male dating a 20 year old female (with a baby boy)...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

7 April 2009 (M) - Mod note: This is a follow up to http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-16-dating-a-20-year-old-with.html Hi, I previously wrote about me dating a 20 year old with a baby boy but I forgot one very important detail - she's married and he knows but he d...

How can I get my girlfriend back? What is the best thing to do from here on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

7 April 2009 (M) - i have been dating a girl for 8 months when last night she told me she wanted to break up. The reason she gave was that she had a lot of things going on in her head and she couldn't sort everything out whilst being in a relationship. she said it w...

Anxieties after a breakup.Help me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

7 April 2009 (F) - Please someone help, I can't stop crying as I write this. I've posted a few times but find it helps. I broke up with my boy friend of five years five months ago. I was totally fine and had never felt so together with myself. I liked my guy friend ...

As Meatloaf said "It just won't quit"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5500 days ago

7 April 2009 (M) - After a long split with my girlfriend of two years, she started seeing someone else and I found out. Since that time I tried to be as normal as possible, saying to myself I'm better than this. Since the split there have been many hot and cold time...

Follow up: How do I get over my bf (who made me feel like crap)

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5500 days ago

7 April 2009 (F) - http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-bf-is-making-me-feel-like-crap.html Thank you, all, for the responses. I have just been so confused because as one of you mentioned - yes, he does flatter me a LOT. But when it comes to the actual act of se...

She left me for someone else

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

7 April 2009 (?) - Hi so here is the situation: Me and my girlfriend were together for about a year but before we were good friends for about 5 years. It was highly passionate, and everything seemed perfect. We were both dutch, devout Christians, both had loving ...

My boyfriend wants to keep our relationship a secret whereas I want to tell the world!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

7 April 2009 (F) - my boyfriend is 17 and i am 15 he said for me not to tell anyone about us going out because he thinks people will call him a perv for going out with me. i'v talked to him about it but he just doesn't want anyone to know and keeps changing his story ...

My husband seems 'unplugged' from our relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

7 April 2009 (F) - My husband and I have been married for nearly 25 years. I have found over the years that he tends to want to live 'in his own world' and becomes very unplugged within our relationship. I have found that the way to get him 'plugged back in' is extr...

We lived together for 1 year and now I'm moving back home and I don't want to lose him.

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7 April 2009 (F) - This is so typical, so why am i so scared. Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 1 year and 8 months. he is 23, and i am 20. we are in love and care about each other so much. when we first met i lived at home with my parents and ...

Follow up:Break up pain

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5500 days ago

7 April 2009 (F) - This is a follow up to http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-am-afraid-he-will-be-gone-by-the-time-i-get-home-today.html Your Open QuestionShow me another » Broke up with my partner not sure how to feel? I wrote in a couple of times last week about...

I don't understand what I'm meant to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

7 April 2009 (F) - I don't understand what I'm meant to do. I was with my boyfriend 8 months and I was convinced I was in love with him. I split up with him because i couldn't handle how he treated me; he punched me, pressured me into sex, made me feel generally s...

I was more independent when in a relationship than I feel now!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

7 April 2009 (F) - Please someone help me shed some light on why I feel the way I do. I'm 21 and broke up with my bf of five and half years about five months ago. I felt we'd grown apart and also I liked another guy who is my best friend. He promised a lot, and let me ...

I don't know how I will move on

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

7 April 2009 (F) - I dont know how I will move on. Its quite long now, 2 months, since my married man left me. He left me as our relationship went to his wife, however from the time he left we do not stop keeping each other until one day his wife came to know our ...

How can u tell if a man still loves you?

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7 April 2009 (M) - Id like to ask all the men out there a question. I'm a woman confused about men, so who better to ask :) right! The question is, how can u tell if a man still loves you? My ex broke my heart, i let him go because that is what he wanted and that...

My partner is tight with his money, even for our own daughter! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5501 days ago

7 April 2009 (F) - hi. me and my partner are living apart we have a daughter he has always been tight with his money. we split up for a while because he was controlling and seems to have very little interest in our daughter he will spend time with her but it usually ...

Should I give her a second chance or move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5500 days ago

7 April 2009 (M) - I have been going out with this girl for about 6yrs. About three years ago, I had to move to another country having got a good job. We have remained in touch almost every single day. We have met a couple of times but had intended to possibly sett...

I'm best friends with my ex's family. This is making it hard for me :-(

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

7 April 2009 (F) - Hi, i need help with the ex factor. My ex and i split a year ago. We were together for 6yrs and we had a butiful son together. The break up tore me to pieces bcoz i love this man dearly but it wasn't working as he seemed to want something else...

Are we headed downhill to destruction?

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7 April 2009 (F) - I live with my boyfriend and we both have each others passwords for everything including Faceook and email. We both look through each others phones too. I looked through his face book inbox and i found that there was innocent messages like, "Hi swee...

What should I do? I realized my fling is my true love!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5489 days ago

7 April 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, I have been with this guy for about 1.5 year, and I thought he was my soulmate, everything I ever wanted. Then, 5 months ago I got very close with one of my male friends.. and with time we even had a thing going on (me and my boyfr...

Should I let him back into my life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

7 April 2009 (F) - Ummm....hey all cupiders! Instead of givin u the whole boring run down here's how it is....okay I had a friend some of u know him cause of what I've told u....but first of all he was my best friend, then I fell in love with him yadda yadda, then he ...

We don't have a thousand years...How would this gesture be preceived?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5501 days ago

7 April 2009 (M) - If i put a box of chocolates on her desk, saying " We dont have a thousand years, we don't have a hundred years, its time to be friends please." Do you think after a break up that was over 15 months ago where i found she was seeing someone e...

Is she sincere or just clearing her conscience?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

7 April 2009 (M) - Hey Guys, I met up with my ex after a painful break-up (on both sides). She cheated on me whilst overseas, and left me for that person. Anyway we had a nice night together catching up and sharing a laugh. At the end of the night she though she s...