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Archived questions from: 13 April, 2009 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

Do I give him a second chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - I dated my b/f for 3 years before becoming pregnant. We got into a huge fight and broke up 3 months ago, 3 weeks later my son was born and he didn't show up for the birth. He showed up on Easter Sunday telling me he loves me and we ended up sleep...

I keep going back and forth with him and don't know what to do for the best. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - I have been with this guy for 8 months now. Since the first month I have been back and forth about whether I should be with him or not, despite the fact that we got along really well, he treated me well, etc. I found him to be really needy and I ...

Was I right to leave my emotionally abusive ex-boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5494 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - I went out with a guy on and off for 3 months. We spent so much time together and he was so charming. After the first month, things degraded and we argued a lot. He gave me silent treatment lots. But we always made up. Then one night he embarrassed ...

Some questions for you to answser about a friend I'd like to be more than a friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5493 days ago

13 April 2009 (M) - I think I love this girl. She's a close friend. I'm not sure if I should tell her how I feel since her boyfriend just broke up with her after almost two years. The thing is, her ex boyfriend is one of my best friends too. I haven't talked to him ...

I cannot move on as I love her with all my heart and will wait forever for her to come back.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

13 April 2009 (M) - hello, im in the army and started a relationship about 6 months ago, and everything was going great. However after 5 months my partner fell pregnant totally by accident, and everything changed. she already has one child and i treat him fairly and ...

I feel so used and hurt and cannot believe he didnt really value our friendship!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - YES, YES! I am finally admitting it, I NEED HELP! I met this guy (online) about three and half years ago. At the time I was 'kinda' involved with someone else and he TOO had 'designs' on a chick. We hit it off immediately -sharing same sense of hu...

How do I get out of our engagement? He's not the one anymore

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5494 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - My fiance and I have been together for exactly two years and one month now. I'm nineteen and my fiance is seventeen. Although he's only a year younger than me in school terms, he's just a really young guy in his graduating class. Anyways, just ...

Has anyone had a break up after a long time and felt like this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5493 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - Hi, just wanted a little moan again. I'm so fed up of feeling sad, and worrying about things. I split with my bf five months ago, and although I don't want him back, I miss being in a relationship. He's moved on fast, which he's entitled to do, but ...

We broke up after we had a three-some. I felt so disrespected by him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - Hi guys, My fiance and I went out last night after having a 3some with another woman the night before (his idea) We went to a bar and he kept reacting around a certain girl who was out. I asked what was wrong as he kept gasping, stopping still a...

What kind of friendship is she looking for ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5494 days ago

13 April 2009 (M) - hello people ...i broke up with my gf 2 weeks ago because it really had no future and i had a strong reason...she is and will always be the most special person for whom i care a lot in my life.... she is really sweet and very understanding and want...

My bf is 7 yrs older than me and I know it's illegal for us to date. Is he worth it?? Please read xxx

This question has 34 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - i am currently going out with a 21 year old and im only 13 (he was 20 when we started seeing eachother) the thing is he hasnt pressured me into anything and ive never felt this way before. i know about his past and everything ive spoken 2 his cous...

Is her love for us fading out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

13 April 2009 (M) - I've been dating my partner now for 4 1/2 years we have a lovely little boy of 2 1/2 years. Over the last 6 months things seem to have changed dramatically as we hardly ever see each other. we live together but are lucky to spend a few hours a day ...

What do you guys think? Do I no longer want boys?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5490 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - I'm in a really complex situation right now. ok, I had an ex for 10months but we dated back in high school (the senior years) its been almost 2years since our break up, but during that time we'd use to flirt and always looked like we were going to g...

I am deeply confused and in pain. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5403 days ago

13 April 2009 (M) - I was Involved my a wonderful girl for around seven months.when we were first dating she confessed to me that she was still married with her long time boyfriend. It was an agreement between them two so she could get her green card.she told me that...

Should I leave my ex and move on with new lady? What about our son?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

13 April 2009 (M) - I have been together with my girlfriend for about 4 years im 23 and she 22, on and off, throughout the relationship it has not been perfect. A year into the relationship she was pregnant, 6 months after we broke up after constant arguments, she has ...

My boyfriend, or the bit on the side? I like them both! What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5494 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - I really don't know what to do. I am in a relationship which i have been in for 7 years and when we first got together, he cheated on me several times with my ex best friend, since then there has been suspicious incidents regarding friends and situ...

There' so much trust broken. What more can I do than walk away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5492 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - Not quite sure where to begin. I posted a problem about 18 months ago whilst I was undergoing treatment for breast cancer. My partner of then just 6 months was signing up to dogging websites etc and you guys offered me invaluable advice - Thank ...

I need to pull myself out of this heartbreak but I don't know how.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5494 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - I really need to pull myself out of this heartbreak and i dont know how. i'll cut my story really short all that i care about now is that i miss him and i dont think there is anyway back as he made it clear he has absolutely nothing else to say to ...

I still love him but I don't know if I should take him back

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5494 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - Hey I need help ASAP. My ex wants me back but I found out earlier that he tried to put the moves on "K" his room mate. She laughed at him when he bought her roses. So I think he only wants me back because she turned him down. But I still love him ...

We both love each other but I don't know if I could trust her or him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

13 April 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 8 months. But we broke up last week because we just couldn't handle us fighting all the time. We seemed t be fighting about the same stuff over and over. I was going to school and working too much and ...

Am I wrong to feel this need for our penance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

13 April 2009 (M) - Here’s the story… This happened years ago… So, I met this girl who was a little rebellious at first. She was flunking out of school and what not. I really liked her because she was herself around me. I feel madly in love with her. She was perfect ...

I'm starting to lose my feelings for this girl but I'm so scared of breaking up with her

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

13 April 2009 (M) - Hello everybody... I've been with my girlfriend for 10 months now and we've already been through so much together... But, I think starting to lose my feelings for this girl but I'm so scared of breaking up with her because i don't want to hu...

I can't stand to see him with someone else! Is this love? Or addiction?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5495 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - its almost a week that i broke up with my boyfren.. i have been in dis relationship for almost 3 and half years.. i loved him very much and we also had a very intimate relation.. but then he always doubted on me, was very possesive and abused me and ...

Single and loving it! Any ideas to make it better?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - I am nineteen. I have been single for four months and four days now and have not had sex in that long. I have recently masturbated for the first time ever (about a month ago) and I have to say, I really enjoy it. But are there any techniques and ...

I like being with my boyfriend and find it hard to break up...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - Hi I've been going out with this guy for 3 years now...but for the past year we have been falling out and things aren't what they used to be....he's very jealous and sometimes controlling but on the other hand he can be so sweet and fun...la...

Divorced women..Did you find happiness the second time around?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - This question is for all the women out there who filed for divorce from their first husband (for various reasons) and went on to re-marry again later in their lives....Did you find happiness the second time around? I have heard that most second ...