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Archived questions from: 9 April, 2009 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

Is this karma getting me back because I flirted with another girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

9 April 2009 (M) - To get the to the point, we were dating for 4 years and 11 months she left me for another man (she's done this twice, I took her back the first time) and she won't come back to me no matter how much I say I love her or say I can do this. I'll admi...

My boyfriend died 8 months ago and I can't move on...

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - Hey dear cupid, I was dating this wonderful guy for 2 years, everything was perfect we never fought, never argued, it was a perfect relationship. He was my prince charming.. he asked me out on prom and since then we have been inseperable... but he ...

What could I do to show him that I'm the one for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5498 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - I used to be with this guy and we were really into each other he loved me and I loved him. Now he says that he doesn't love me anymore but he likes me and really cares for me and that I'm important to him. We're just friends right now because we h...

Am I being that bad to my ex GF?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

9 April 2009 (M) - I posted on here before and came back to get some more advice. I dumped my GF last year and we were on and off since then. I told her i would consider getting back with her if she lost weight she is a size 14-16 but good looking i must say, I prefer ...

Do feelings really change for someone who was so close to you?

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9 April 2009 (M) - ok so my girlfriend has broken our one year old relationship ... she said she has started life practically and seriously and she sees me more of a friend now because her feelings have changed for me past couple of weeks... i don't mind her breaking...

How can I move on and like another guy?

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9 April 2009 (F) - Recently my boyfriend broke up with me because of complicated reasons. I miss him loads and still love him but I really want to move on. I have tried liking new people, but I can't like anyone seriously like I did my ex. This new guy has been tex...

Did he lie to me all that time?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - Hi cupid readers, here's the story! I was in a long distance relationship and I was so in love with him and he loved me. Then one day he told me a girl asked him out for a meal and he told me they were just friends and I was trying to tell h...

He dumped me but we still act like we're together!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - I'm 19 years btw (don't know if that matters to anyone) I love my "boyfriend" so much and will do anything for him, he is my home, my heart and my other half..but.. we're together for one year, and this has been my 1st very serious relationship. But...

I want to marry two women and they both know about it, is there any way this can be legal?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4942 days ago

9 April 2009 (M) - If I marry two women and they both know and they approve of it is it legal if they both agree? And if not, is there a way that if they both sign legal documents through the courts through the laws can they both marry me then?...

How do I tell my ex I don't want him back without losing him as a friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - i dated this guy for 3yrs, we broke up 2yrs ago but we were still friends. we've both moved on and are dating other people but yesterday he calls me to tell me he still loves me. he was my first love so i'll always love him but i cant go back. all ...

Shadow of my former self....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - Help, I know I post on here a lot, but it's kind of theraputic. I just completely don't feel myself, I feel like a weak person, after ending a five year relationship, five months later I'm a mess. I was fine when I did it, but I genuinely feel like ...

My ex g/f stole my friends away from me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5498 days ago

9 April 2009 (M) - I broke up with my gf a couple of months ago (well...she broke up with me to be exact) but I was still in love with her, even though I found out that she didn't love me for the last three or so months of our relationship. A few months before th...

I feel like I am the only one trying to make our relationship work!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - I wrote a couple of weeks ago about me and my boyfriend because we were having problems. We decided to go on a break type thing but still see each other. Recently, we've been getting on fine. We haven't argued or had any real disagreements. I...

Being too harsh on my ex girlfriend?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

9 April 2009 (M) - I dumped my GF last year and we were on and off since then. I told her i would consider getting back with her if she lost weight she is a size 14-16 but good looking i must say, I prefer size 12. I just dumped her again recently and she's angry...

I think my ex wanted me back to show his friend he can't have me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5498 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - my bf and i have been dating for a year and a few months we broke up for a month and got back together.the reason we broke up was because he constantly blames me for every fight we have and he cheated(more than once) on me and made it seem like its ...

No gift on my 40th birthday.....do I get him a birthday present?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - Hi, I’d appreciate a few views on this. Ive been with my boyfriend a year and a half. We broke up for two weeks around valentines and my 40th birthday and I cant help feeling miffed that he didn’t get me anything for my birthday. He did send flowers ...

10 years of verbal abusive and now he wants a real relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5498 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - What I do not understand is this guy and I had a relationship for over 10 year. I officially ended the relationship last year. We still try to communicate, with one another. But it only leaves me frustrated, because he couldn't communicate then and ...

I'm really angry, my ex and my best friend are going out 2 days after we broke up!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - i brokeup with my boyfriend lastthursdy after goin out for 4 weeks but yesterday i found out that only 2 days after splittingup him and mybest friend were goin out, i got really angry. what should i do ?...

I want to go back but I'm scared

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, First I want to apologize for this being so long but I wanted it to be clear. I have been with a guy for 7 years. He was my high school sweetheart and my first love. Our love for each other seemed to slack off a bit but I thought it...

Will she ever come back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

9 April 2009 (M) - Alright so let me explain the situation. My first love, girlfriend of 2 years has been great to me and to be honest she has put up with a lot of my bull. We were great together. In the first week of the relationship i cheated on her with another ...

Am I kidding myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

9 April 2009 (M) - Living in Miami, I was in a 3 year relationship and lived with the girl for 2 years, and got engaged. Everything was pretty good until we got engaged - her idea. She broke it off and while I had been under other pressures and things weren't great ...

How can I get over my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-boyfriend-masturbated-on-webcam-to-my-friend.html back in august i found out what my boyfriend really got up to whilest i wasnt there! ^ read theres the question i asked bath then, and i know i should have dump...