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Archived questions from: 4 April, 2009 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

What can I do about it if anything?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and things have generally been quite up and down. Its been quite a passionate relationship i would say - the good times really good and the bad times really bad. But things always worked out. ...

I keep trying to leave him but he convinces me to stay so I do....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - I have been in my current relationship for almost 6 years. Like every relationship, we have are up's and downs. Today i thought it was all going to end because i told my boyfriend that i no longer loved him and felt as though he was the right one ...

My heartache...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

4 April 2009 (M) - Hello, I am 16 soon to be 17 and my gf left me for someone else, I have handled it well so far but over the last 2 weeks I keep feeling strange, I moved on and found someone else who I really like and we are now dating, unfortunately she is one of ...

Me, my married man affair, his affair, and his wife. How do I deal with this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - I have known this married man for 4 years. we have been physical the whole four years. But he had an affair with another person in the office. and his wife found out about 2 months ago. she filed for divorce and he moved out. we were spending ...

I had my heart set on a handsome Latino, but I feel like I missed the boat.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - Sorry this is long... I tried to keep it concise but I wanted it to be complete. I've been feeling blue about a guy for a long time, a friend from college. I'm confused because my love for him has faded, and I know I need to move on, but... it's ...

Am I being a terrible bitch on both of them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5503 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - i broke up with my ex a few months ago but i just cant move on i dated someone for a while but told them i didn't want to get into anything serious as they were looking for something long term i still talk to my ex all the time and he still is my ...

How do I get over my ex and find another boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - I'm nineteen and my ex is eighteen. Four months ago, he and I broke up after a terrible two-year relationship. He physically and mentally abused me and then decided to cheat on me (with a chick he has become friends with benefits with). Anyway, just...

Does he want to break up with me but doesn't know how?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - ok...so im 17 about to turn 18 and i have been seeing this same guy on and off for two years. the thing is we have never met. i met him in a chat room and we instantly hit it off. we haven't broken up in over a year so im thinking things are goin...

He asked me to suggest one thing that the two of us must do. What do you think I should suggest?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5503 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - my ex told me he is with some one else but it was just after two weeks of breaking up. though he heard rumours that i was cheating on him with his cousin along time ago he had not reacted for so long.. but am now wondering about how he got this...

I want to stop his memories interference in my current relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - i love my ex very much that i can not even give my attention to the current guy. what should i do to forget him? i keep dreaming about him all night and when ever i make love to my current guy i always wish it was him am making love to. please...

Am I wrong for asking her to stop talking to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

4 April 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been going out for almost a year. We recently broke up for like 3 weeks and then got back together. During the 3 weeks, she was seeing another guy quite frequently, hooking up with him several times. And now that we're back...

I cant stop thinking about her. How do I get over her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

4 April 2009 (M) - Ok, How can I begin, there is this girl who goes to school with me, she really really shy, pretty, smart, and athletic. I mean she is so shy that she only like talks to like 3 people, ok. I created a myspace like 2 months ago, and stummbled across ...

Am I in any way tied to her after wearing that chain/necklace?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

4 April 2009 (M) - i broke up with my gf recently ...we were committed for a year and were planning about convincing our parents for our marriage... but being only 17 always used to talk about our marriage and kids and was super excited which made me feel awkward ... ...

I know right from wrong, but I choose to do wrong anyway. WHY?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5504 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - We started dating 2 years ago, as co-workers (and his uncle owns the company so we hid our relationship for the first 6 months). I looked and found another job about a year into our relationship so that our relationship could work. Six months late...

HE keeps reminding me that I said we were just friends!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - I had been dating this guy for about 4 months; during that time things were ok, but never really felt he cared that much. so one day he had to leave to another state so we stopped talking. After a while he came back to stay here, so for sum reas...

Why do we have to take a break after the breakup?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5504 days ago

4 April 2009 (M) - why do we have to take a break after the breakup? if at all we have decided to remain friends after the breakup so what purpose does taking a break fulfill? i think it kills the affection addiction closeness and all the qualities for which we love ...

After 3 years together, he started treating me differently. Why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5504 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - Me and my x bf were together almost 3 years an he started treating me diffrent then one day about 3 weeks before Christmas I called his phone and a girl answered an I have not talked to him since an I can't stop thinking bout him an still love him ...

Did I make the right choice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5503 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - So me and this guy dated for 2 months. Then he broke up with me because we were never really allowed to see each other bc of my parents. Then after about a month he asked me out again and I said yes. But things just felt kinds different and I don'...

My son's father won't cooperate and I don't trust him with our son

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5504 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - i have a 4 year old son and his dad has just been trouble for the last 4 years. In and out of jail and abusive. Now he moved in with a couple and doesn't want to tell me where or give me the address so I can take our son to see his dad, and now ...

I'm tired of a sexless marriage and a woman who doesn't love me at all.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

4 April 2009 (M) - My marriage has been falling apart for years now. The biggest cause is that I caught my wife having an affair 8 years ago and still have trust issues because I feel she didn't do what it takes to regain my trust. Although she said she has no othe...

She claims that I confuse her and she doesn't know how much or how little she likes me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5502 days ago

4 April 2009 (M) - Hi, just looking for some ideas and feedback on a situation I am in. First things first, met this girl about a month ago through some friends, got talking and soon after we met up on own... Didn't do much the first time just hung out. Got on well...

I can't stop thinking about my ex-boyfriend

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - I can't stop thinking about my ex-boyfriend of two years. He broke up with me almost a month ago, telling me that he did not love me anymore, absolutely breaking my heart -- a week later admitting that he had actually cheated on me while we were ...

We broke up because we ran out of things to say

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5504 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - Hey, I recently broke it off with my boyfriend but i cry so much of the day when i think bout him, we broke up cuz we were beginning to run out of things to say to each other cuz we hadnt much in common, but still i really miss him a lot n keep thi...