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Archived questions from: 17 April, 2009 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

Does he still love his ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5490 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - this is a long one.... okay! when i first meet my current boyfreind we were both dating other people. All 4 of us were mutual friends and hung out a few times. As time went on my relation ship with the old boyfriend ended and a few months l...

Do you think he'll come back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have just broken up, he has been seeing another woman for a month, I found this out yesterday. We've been together for a year and a half and I feel as though my whole life has come tumbling down. I know who the woman is and ...

My head says I cannot trust him... that's not a good basis for a marriage/family.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5490 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - Hello, I'd appreciate some advice on the head verses heart question. My ex and I had been together for 8 years. We broke up 12 months ago - we were living together, and he moved out. We had been having lots of silly arguments, he was always t...

My ex said he loved me up until 3 months ago. Has he moved on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5490 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - I was with my ex boyfriend for 5 years after a 14 year marriage. We had a lot of outside pressure and split very often!! We have a 3 year old daughter together whom he doesn't see. I still love him but we have been seperated now about a year, he ...

I thought I'd feel relieved that he's found someone else. Why do I find it so hard?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5490 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - Hi. I'm a thirty year old woman with a seven year old son. Me and his father split up because we were arguing all the time - he didn't want to end the relationship and was quite possessive but I couldn't handle it any more. I felt really bad ...

She broke up with me because of something my mom said!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - my girl friend just broke up wit me cus my mom said somthing to her but i love her she is my world nd now i just wnt to die cause i cnt haver her i hate my life now wat should i do ...

We didn't break up because we didn't love each other, I want to get her back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5489 days ago

17 April 2009 (M) - just over a month ago my girlfriend of 15 months almost completely out of the blue dumped me. often she'd say how she wanted to be with me forever and never wanted me to leave her which i happily said i wouldn't. then she took part in our uni play ...

14, pregnant and he may be moving to Spain!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - hello anyone there i need help i have broken up we my bf about 3 weeks ago now heis thinking of moving to spain to be with his cousins we were together for 2 years we have only ever had sex 3 times this last week i missed my period so i wa...

Has something similar to this ever happened to anyone you know?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - I've just moved house a few days ago to a town twenty odd miles away from my boyfriend and I hadn't yet told him where I'm living, as we had a physical fight a couple of weeks ago and I'm thinking of leaving him. Anyway, last night he rang me and ...

Emotionally immature and sexually confused!

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17 April 2009 (F) - It’s been a couple of years, but the same issues are popping up again. I guess I would just like to know if anyone else is a emotionally immature/sexually confused 23 year old? The last girl I dated I broke up because she wanted more than ‘frien...

Loveless...split family

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - Dear readers, To cut a long story short, and without going into personal detail or circumstance. Is there anybody whom has lived apart from their partners for years on end and only get together may be 8 days a year... A phone call once a day to di...

It's all so confusing for me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

17 April 2009 (M) - I have posted on here before about a friendship I have had with this girl and we were friends for almost a year and had some good times together. She has had a permanent partner since I have known her but she has cheated on him more than once and ...

Is this fixable? Should I give it another try? Should I let it go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - I am 23 years old with a 10 month old son. Abit of a long story//sorry! Please Help ME!! I met this guy who was 13 yrs older than me when I was 17 years old. He convinced me to go out with him, keeping it secret from both our families, until I ...

How can I reign in my emotions after being lied to?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - I posted a question on here recently dealing with trust issues I have been having with my boyfriend of four years. I've gone back and forth thinking that it would be easier to just end it, but have decided to just give it time and try with all my ...

Why do I still love him and want him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5491 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - Hey guys.Here's my question:I lived next door to this one girl and she had a boyfriend who used to talk to me.Then the girl moved and I never saw them again. Well,I was 9 at the time.It's been 5-6 years later and I finally found her boyfriend agai...

Go with the flow or time to talk about it now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - I've been casually dating this guy for about eight months. We have not been exclusive. I'm going thru a divorce and he had just broken up with his girlfriend when we first started hanging out. We have talked almost everyday since the beginning, ...

My best friend tried to finger me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - So I went on a trip with my school and I sat next to my best guy friend on the bus. It had been a long day and we were both tired so we decided to go to sleep. He layed down on my lap and I put my head on his back. I fell asleep until I felt a hand ...

My head says no but my heart says yes, should I give him another chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5491 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - 5 months ago i discovered my boyfriend of 4 years was cheating on me, found a text saying 'come over so we can finally be alone' and believed that they did have sexual relations but merely emotional cheating at that time. Inevitably it was over ...

How can I make my Mom trust my boyfriend/best friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

17 April 2009 (?) - Hello! My mom doesn't like my boyfriend at all. She doesn't trust him. He broke up with me once for a day and I was shattered, but even before that, my mom never liked him, back when he was just my best friend. Any tips on how I can make her see...

I lost her, Please help

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

17 April 2009 (M) - Well first thing we had what you would call an ideal relationship. We were talking about getting married and having kids. It was perfect. But one day she broke up with me because she said "Do you think we were better as friends" I said no i don'...

Is it wrong for me to fake my own death to see if she still loves me?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

17 April 2009 (M) - Well basically my ex havn't been going out for ages, but I'm going out for her best mate (2 months) and she's always trying to get her to dump me but the girl i'm with doesn't want to dump me so i'm thinking. Is it wrong to fake my own death to prov...

His family likes me, but I don't get why he doesn't (like me)

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5433 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - i'm fifteen. and i lost my virginity to this amazing guy. we were together a few months after i actually had sex with him for the first time. we didn't do it all the time. we've probably only done it 10-15 times. but about a month ago, he dump...

After our breakup she tells me she was cheating on me for a year?? I still care!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

17 April 2009 (M) - Hi everybody, basicallly had a 2 yr relationship with a girl, I love her to bits still do, she broke it off over commitment issues, during the 2yrs i treated her like a queen (in hindsight not the best way to go). We have remained best friends over ...

Should I have done this? What are your views?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - I've fallen in love with this guy, A. We were seeing each other for two months and then broke up but we hadn't talked through it properly or cleared the air between us, he just seemed like he didn't want to know although he did say he still loved me ...