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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:So my girlfriend of five years and I broke up about two months ago, and until recently ive been okay because it was like we were still together. We live in the same buildings paralle from each other, and friday night I was having a smoke and I saw her with someone else. I wanted to get away so I went for a walk to a park around the corner and she was there with him and my friend and her girlfriend, I kept walking eventually i was so overcome with pain I sat on the curb of the street. When I first saw her I sent her text saying she looks good with her new boyfriend and she lied and told me he was gay, my other friend and I had been talking the whole night and she told me he wasnt, so here I am sitting on a street coner and they all come up stand there talking and I can hear them, they fake a loud conversation about him being gay..Later when I came home about quater to six she came home, I noticed her personal message said help, so even though I was heart broken I asked what was wrong and she freaked out on me like I had done something to her.. I havent eaten, I cant sleep and I am thinking of getting medical help. Her and I broke up before, today she decided we shouldnt talk after I was being hessitant about speaking with her and made it as she was the victim, I just dont understand why I cant cope, i feel like even though everyone else has a hard time dealing with break ups its worse for me. I have litterally no one to talk to, my mother and brother are homophobic, she has taken all my friends and none will speak to me now. I just dont know what to do anymore, and Im terrified Im going to see her with someone again and i get this sick feeling in my stomach. How do I deal with all this?
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reader, Mummy86  +, writes (22 August 2011):
 Aw i feel for you 5 yrs is a long time maybe she was just testing you to see your reaction although that is low and mean, just give her some space she obviously doesnt care about you to do it right on your doorstep only time will tell you may/not get back together, to do that after just 2 months also shows she has no remorse about the break up, you do need your family at this time or friends if you cant talk to them google advice contacts and speak to someone confidential, i felt exactly the same couldnt eat, sleep etc when i broke up with my exboyfriend just try to keep your mind occupied sometimes it will be harder but it does get easy, although you will always love her things happen for a reason good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2011): It is what it is. Nothing you can do except let it help you to move on. You have to. Dont spend your life like this,you only have one.
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