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writes:Hey! Okay, so I've been messing around with my Friends and Benefits for a couple a months now and he does this thing in bed that kind of creeps me out but at the same time romantic. Whenever we are having sex, he constantly stares into my eyes and caresses my hair. What does that mean when a guy does that ? Do that mean he likes me or something else? Thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (23 August 2011):
 Could be one of two things:
1. He might have feelings for you
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2. He wants the "girlfriend experience" without actually having a girlfriend.
What this means is -- I've heard on this site and in other places that some men in one night stands and other casual situations like to imagine that the woman is "in love with him", though he doesn't return it. That's the girlfriend experiences -- he wants the feel of an emotional connection without...well....the emotional connection!
The way to know is how he acts OUTSIDE the bedroom. If he shows real caring and interest in your life and you as a person, than he might have feelings.
If he only has time for you in the bedroom or on activities that will end up there and doesn't make an effort to know you beyond the superficial, than it's a good bet that it's the "girlfriend experience".
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2011): Apparently I was reading this article the other day and it said that men can make passionate love to a woman they have no feelings for...I wouldn't read too much into it, he's probably just getting carried away in the heat of the moment.
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reader, RedAthena +, writes (22 August 2011):
 That is usually a sign of a more intimate connection.
Some couples in FWB's situations have rules like limited caresses, little or no kissing, no cuddling afterwards, etc. That just tends to create bonding feelings.
If it makes you uncomfortable, speak up to him about toning it down. The added intimacy might mess with your mind to think you two could be more.
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reader, Beaurosie  +, writes (22 August 2011):
This means that he likes to look at you whilst making love, he is obviously very attracted to you. I don't think that is creepy at all , infact the opposite and a very loving action.
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