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How can I ask my parents if my boyfriend can stay over?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

27 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Okay so I've been with my boyfriend for 4 1/2 years and i stay at his house almost every weekend, but lately he's been asking me if he can stay with me, I feel like I'll be disrespecting my parents so much but I haven't really asked them about it..... how should i go about ... (62 words

My mom is ignorant and annoying...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

27 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Ok, to make a long story short. My mom considers herself "open", but she's also biased and prejudiced and whatever doesnt seem right in her eyes, she opposes. I have a boyfriend, which my parents don't know goes beyond anything than a friendship/crush. He's half middle east... (267 words

Why do some people find love so easily?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

27 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - I feel so alone. At 26, I have lots of friends but I want more than just friends. Most of my friends have boyfriends or husbands, and I have no one. The guy I dated moved away several months ago and we don't talk much any more, it makes me so depressed. Even though I know it'... (202 words

Should I contact my ex girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

27 March 2010 (M age 41-50 - Should I contact my ex girl friend? i was with her fo a year it was long distance and we were both dealing with some stuff at the time. I had a prolem with addiction that she didnt know aout and as she was dealing with her own stuff at the time it was hard to tell her. We spl... (302 words

My girlfriend doesn't want sexy with me anymore after a 3 year relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

27 March 2010 (M age 30-35 - Hello everyone, I got a girlfriend almost 3 years right now. Everything was very good in the beginning. After she went on holiday a half year ago, she said she doesn't feel attractive to me anymore. But that wasn't my problem. I changed her feelings and now she is loving me... (131 words

Was he doing this to try and get my attention, does he like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

27 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I was walking down the hall chatting to my friend and I saw him walking in my direction from the corner of my eye. I usually say hi to him, but I didn't think I was going to as I was busy chatting to my friend, so I thought he would just walk by. But as he got nearer I hea... (328 words

Why are my teachers saying I'm anorexic??

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27 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi again, I know I have already put a question up about teachers and boyfriends! But can someone help me.... All my teachers (and I really do mean ALL my teachers) are telling me I'm anorexic! Ok I may not be helping this situation by calling myself fat, not eating and exer... (245 words

My fiance wants me to make out with another woman while he watches!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

27 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - hi my boyfriend, now my fiance, soon to be my husband wants me to make out with another woman and for him to watch.. he said he wont get close or get involve or get near her, he said to even tie him up to the bed or a chair and for him to just sit there cuz he enjoys just ... (233 words

I can't trust a single freaking person on the face of the earth not even my husband.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

27 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - How does anyone trust anyone? How can you believe what anyone says without having proof? How the hell do I know that my husband isn't talking bad and acting bad behind my back if i never have proof that he isnt?? It's not just faith.. you can't just have faith or trust ... (289 words

I'm sick of being heartbroken and scared I'm never gonna be happy.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5104 days ago

27 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - When I was in college, I studied abroad in Mexico and became friends with a guy down there at school (I'll call him Fulano). I fell in love with him, and thought he really liked me. To make a long story short, he's still down there, and he has a girlfriend that he seems ... (1407 words

Do I continue to pursue my sister in law after my wife's passing away?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

27 March 2010 (M age - Have known my sister in-law for 15 years, during the time of my wife's illness and passing I and the sister in-law where together and made all the decisions together during this time. Now 4 Months after my wife's passing my sister in-law stops by to visit and finds another ... (117 words

I am attracted to a man who is 14 years older than me...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

27 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I am attracted to a man who is 14 years older than me and in a position of authority over me as he is tutoring me for an exam. He has shown an interest in me too with many very flirty texts (the kind that can not be misunderstood) and lots of suggestive conversations in our ... (208 words

Help! I'm having serious doubts about this new relationship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4874 days ago

27 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I feel really stupid because it's only the 2nd week of going out with my boyfriend, but I'm having serious doubts... I know I need to talk to him about it but he was one of my best friends before he asked me out and i dont want to lose the friendship : I preferred being ... (123 words

How should I behave when I see him even although he's broken up with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

27 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend of three months just broke up with me last night saying that I should stay on my own, that I am giving him lots of trouble, I don't know what to do right now. I am not even sure that I want him back into my life but this is not my major problem . So I am not ... (121 words

She's no longer with him but wants him there when she's having the baby!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

27 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - I am a woman and my girl friend cheated on me, and now she is pregnant. She told me how sorry she was and that she would never do it again. I got passed that and told her that I will help her raise the baby and that's what she wants too. She's due in 2 months. Now she wants ... (79 words

Should I continue to ignore him or answer his call to say my goodbye?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5105 days ago

27 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - My ex is the type who gets hot or cold with me. Sometimes he is nice, sometimes he mistreats me. I won't mention how the mistreatment happens but it is worse enough for me to rethink my post romantic relationship with him which I thought was a good idea before. Previously, I ... (244 words

I messed up a great relationship. How can I get her back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

27 March 2010 (M age 51-59 - I am the biggest idiot on this planet I have messed up a great reletionship not once but twice and lost the person I love. She is kind generous sexy and very good looking the reason I've lost her is totally my fault. I have issues from past relationships and past events with my ... (151 words

Boyfriend over analyses everything! What should I do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

27 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for over 7 months now but I am now noticing he has some anger issues/over analyzes everything. I have tried talking to him but it still continues a little bit. For example, I had a bad day last Friday with work and family issues and I went to go... (219 words

I want to be more popular at college, how can I do this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

27 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I want to be popular at college and likeable. I don't talk much. I want people to notice me and most importantly like me. I feel like I get pushed around by friends and listen to everything they tell me to do. I want to show them that I am in control but at the same time I want ... (72 words

How can I control my feelings towards him...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5103 days ago

27 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - hi my old crush has a gf who goes to my school and I never got the courage to tell him how i feel. However i tried my best to get over him and now i keep on seeing him and the butterflys are coming back and i really dont think i should like him again as i dont want to get hurt ... (73 words

I can't stand her!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

27 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I have a friend and I've known her for almost a year. She is nice and friendly but she can be annoying and she's a liar. I can't stand liars! I found out a while ago that she had girl's work on her memory stick, I know it sounds petty but why did she have somebody else's work? ... (204 words

How can I get my boyfriend to give me oral sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

27 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Heyy everyone i really need help! ]= okay so i been with my boyfriend for about 3 months and he was a virgin while he was with me until yesterday when he gave it up to me. but he wasnt my first and he knows that we'll anyways i love oral sex!! and im down with giving him ... (149 words

Are irregular periods normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

27 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - omg my period comes 2weeks or sometimes 3weeks..is this normal?? for example: this month it came again after just 2weeks after ive gone of it.. and nest month it will come 3weeks. am not on pills or anything. thnx..x is this normal?? is soo annoying!!... (62 words

I sometimes feel that I cannot breathe with my boyfriend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5105 days ago

27 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for four months today. Over the course of these four months, we've become very close, inseperable. Constantly needing each other. But before him, I was in a year long relationship that did a lot of damage to me emotionally and I think i've broug... (162 words

Will an std harm my unborn child?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

27 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - i been together with my boyfriend for about 6 months ...i love him with all my heart ...he was my first and the only guy i been with ... like 2 weeks ago i went to the doctor and got a check up...she called me yesterday and told me i tested positive for an std... i have... (122 words

This girl is different!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5103 days ago

27 March 2010 (M age 26-29 - This relates to some previous things, which can be found on my profile under questions I've asked. I have been liking this girl on-and-off for a while, and recently it came back. I'd done some very stupid things w/out thinking over very strong feelings about her and lack of ... (525 words

Large blood loss after anal sex. Could something be wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

27 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - I had anal sex with my boyfriend n when were finished there was a large area on my bed soaked in blood,n now when I feel I have to go to the bathroom a lot of blood comes out. Will this go away on its own? Or could something serious be wrong now?... (53 words

What are the chances of this guy liking me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

27 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hey. Could someone tell me what the chances are of this guy liking me? I’ll try keeping it short. I mainly talk to him online because we’re both shy around each other. I know I am because I like him. He’s hinted that he doesn’t have enough confidence to talk to me in person s... (316 words

I miss my ex, but am dating his brother. I need help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

27 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Ok well my ex boyfriend who is 17 and i broke up about 5 or 6 months ago and a week later after he broke up with me I started going out with his brother....his younger brother who is 14 and I am 16..the reason why I started going out with him I think is because I wanted revenge ... (183 words

Old love still stirring....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

27 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - I have been married for almost 4 years...we have one child and another one on the way. We dates for a long time before we got married. Before I met him I knew another man. It was love at first sight for me. We never dated because it was never the right time. He had a gf or ... (385 words

Due a month before cousin's wedding, I'm maid of honor, can I back out?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5101 days ago

27 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I'm due a month before cousin's wedding, and I'm maid of honor, can I back out? Currently it is late March. Two weeks ago my cousin asked me to be maid of honor for her wedding in early September. I'm due almost exactly a month before the wedding will take place, so I tried to... (469 words

We don't we seem to spend time together any more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5104 days ago

27 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 months+ and we used to spend a lot of time together, he practically lives here and we are totally in love, but now it feels like we spend even less time together hes always out on his bike with his dad or with his mates then when he ... (124 words

Am I being old fashioned? Is sex is necessary when it comes to relationship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

27 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - i had a bf,a very first bf. he asked for sex.when i refused immediately he cursed me and said i'm boring and old fashion. i talked to my friend.they said it's my fault for reject his offer. she said it's normal to have sex when they're in relationship;strengthening th... (91 words

Tired of rejection. Why am I not wanted or liked by guys?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

27 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - hello i need some good advice i am irish girl in my 30s i can,t seem to get boyfriend i am always getting rejected and treated badly. they guys who are rejected and rotten are the ones i am nice to.they just don,t show any interted in me at all.i am NOT a good looking,slim ,ta... (141 words

Would doing this fantasy for real be going too far?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

27 March 2010 (F - So I have a fantasy that I've already told my BF about, but scared to act on it cause it may change our relationship. So my fantasy is to watch him have sex with another woman. I know this usually doesnt turn women on thinking of their men being with someone else, but to me it ... (121 words

Could these things be complications from thrush?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

27 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - A couple of months ago, I had thrush. I got it treated and since then it's been fine. But I've noticed a few things which have started to happen, that never happened before I got thrush. The first thing I noticed was after my boyfriend and I had sex, it would hurt to pe... (268 words

I want him to want me for more than fun

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5105 days ago

27 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I went out with this lad a week ago, i wne tout lastnight and bumped in to him and i asked him out right what he was looking for, as in a relationship or just a bit of fun just so i knew where i stand. he said he doesnt want a relationship because he has just recently split ... (127 words

Is it just the depression talking?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5105 days ago

27 March 2010 (F age - My fiance has just been disnosed with depression and says he wants us to split up but he cant give me a reason why.is this just the depression talking?... (29 words

Bored with married sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

27 March 2010 (M age 41-50 - Hello My wife and I have been married for 9 years. The last year and half the sex has become boring and we both admit that. We have talked about it and she is open minded and so am I but we both can not figure out anything new to try. Has anyone else out there expieren... (67 words

Help - what do I do if he comes back to me??

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27 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - Just a little bit of help please, I was seeing a man for 4 months last year (he had separated from his wife and living apart). I totally fell for him as did he me. They have 2 children, aged 3 and 6. To cut a long story short, his wife, who is not from around here put ... (316 words

I want to chat with her but I don't know what to say

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27 March 2010 (M age 26-29 - Hallo agony aunt, i read your letter with your advice... i kissed her and it was so nice. i did it on hers birthday..! i thought taht she really liked it but i don't think so know... i'm so confused i love her... but she acts strange... she doesn't talk me... i sent het a lot... (93 words

My Marine or my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5103 days ago

27 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - i may have made a mistake. After dating my first love for a year and a half, we broke up. He was off the the Services. After we split i swore i would never date anyone ever again. (a little drastic, but i was trying to focous more on my priorities) While my ex and i were da... (311 words

Have we been friends too long for anything more to develop?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

27 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - I have guy issues at the moment. Is it possible to like a guy for over a year, they to (possibly like you) and then get together later. I hope it is but have a feeling we've been friends too long so won't ever be able to move from that phase. I don't feel up to asking him ou... (72 words

Do you think that my relationship is too good to be true? Or am I just a rebound girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

27 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hey all, il try and keep it short, and thankyou for your answers in advance. Im 18 years old and in my last year of sixth form, and i basically need some advice on whether im being too paranoid that somethings going to go wrong, or whether i actually have a reason to worry.... (668 words

I want my baby but my boyfriend wants me to abort. Help!

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

27 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Okay so I'm 16 and 5 weeks pregnant. My boyfriend is 17. Just hear me out okay (: Although my boyfriend of 19 months and I had talked about having kids, our baby was not planned. We weren't careful at all with protection and so inevitably, I fell pregnant. My boyfriends paren... (275 words

Is it normal to have cracked nipples and discharge?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4944 days ago

27 March 2010 (F age 26-29 - I know this is an awful question to ask, but I wouldn't know where else to go for advise like this. My nipples seem cracked and yellow stuff keeps appearing on the tops? Is this normal? And is there anything that could possibly get rid of it? Thanks.... (57 words

I am alone and trapped by an abusive partner. Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

27 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - it might sound pointless writing a story like this on this site, but i have no one to turn to and really need some advice. im 18 years old, my boyfriend is 24. we been together a few years, my mum and dad are dead, my mum died of cancer then a year later my dad had a heart ... (324 words

I just found out my wife has been having an affair for 4 - 5 years and am devastated!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

27 March 2010 (M age - I am a 56 year old man who has just found out that my wife of 36 years this year has been having an affair with one man for the past 4-5 years. I am absolutely devasted as one can imagine. My love for her is so strong that I rang her and asked her to come back after just two ... (275 words

I really like her -- how do I talk to her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5105 days ago

27 March 2010 (M age 26-29 - I really like this girl at the place that I go tutoring. I really jbe never talked to a girl before. How should I talk to her? I've only actually talked to her once and that was like one sentence since we were all talking to each other during a class. And even then I was still ... (59 words

What is the difference between a high sex drive and a sexual addiction?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5105 days ago

27 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - I love sex, I want it a lot but am i addicted? I would rather stay in and have sex than do anything else. it's almost impossible for me not to sleep with a guy on a first date and there on after, and if I'm told no by a lover, I get upset. my boyfriend is frequently ... (102 words

My boyfriend doubts my virginity!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5105 days ago

27 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - my boyfriend doubts that am not a virgin when i was a virgin before having sex with my boyfriend. my growth is faster according to my age. so can faster growth be a reason for losing the virginity... (38 words

Do you agree I've just been dumped?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

27 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - I am a divorced woman that has been dating a divorced man for the last 3 months. We live a couple of hours drive apart, but have been spending our weekends together and text ot call each other every day. He seemed to like me very much all along, but started to become a bit ... (208 words

He is friends with his ex and says he feels like a father to her daughters, .... but shouldn't this be a closed chapter in his life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

27 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now. Before that he was in a long relationship(9years)with a woman who has got 2 daughters (16and 19years old);they have never been married, lived together just for a wee while as children were driving him mad,he said. I and my ... (156 words

Do any other middle-aged men get broody?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5102 days ago

27 March 2010 (M age 51-59 - I'm in my mid-forties, I have a couple of kids, and I'm married. Recently whenever I see a pregnant woman, I get...well, it's difficult to describe the feeling, but all gooey and wistful is probably the best description, and I really want to get a woman pregnant, any woman. I ... (147 words

Feelings for first love flooded back when he contacted me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5105 days ago

27 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - I am not married but with my boyfriend of over three year.( Who I have a one year old child with.) And my first love just contacted me after three Years of no contact. Well all the feeling came rushing back to me and on top of that my current relationship is on the rocks. ... (70 words

We has sex and now he is not answering my text messages. Do I play it 'cool' or chase him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

27 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - i have known this guy for a few weeks now, i have met with him only once and fell imidietly attracted to him... we spent the night together and i didnt sleep with him... after 3weeks i herd from him again wanting to catch up, so we did and had an awesome nite (well i thought it ... (193 words

How long does it usually take to fall pregnant?

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27 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - me and my boyfriend have been together for a few years. we always spoke about how we both want a baby at some point in our lifes, now we are a bit older we are ready now. thing is we have had alot of sex in the past year without condoms or conterception but yet i still havent ... (109 words

I fell asleep so the mood was broken. I'm very disappointed.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5105 days ago

27 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - I have been with my husband nine years. We are having tough times. Tonight I wanted desperately to feel closeness and a comanionship with him, I wanted to make love desperately. I started the mood and he was rubbing my back. I fell asleep. I have an internal pain pump that ... (143 words

Some time has gone by, and he asked me out again...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

27 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - What does it mean if a guy asks you if you have a boyfriend? I was seeing this guy casually on and off for about a year (and also sleeping with him), and then one day during the end of last October we had a misunderstanding that caused me to get angry at him and I basically ... (175 words

How come I do all the work and my friend gets all the guys?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

27 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - OK. So tonight my best friend and I went to a party at my friends house. We are both pretty but I'm a bit taller and a bit on the heavier side. Not fat just bigger. Throughout the night I'm more outgoing, I talk, i get people laughing, i try to meet everyone, have a ... (136 words

I made a decision about the cheating father of my baby, now a friend is telling me I did the wrong thing

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

27 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I have a 2 week old son. His father is not in the picture. He pretty much just up and left and I haven't had any contact with him. At first he wanted to be there. He kept trying to agree to letting him get a place and have me move in with him. Circumstances wouldn't allow that ... (176 words

An email from my abuser has brought back the memories, can I still have him charged?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

27 March 2010 (? age 30-35 - I was sexually abused twice when I was six and once when I was nine by the same attacker. He took all my clothes off and licked all over my body. He put his penis in my face and rubbed it on my clitoris. He rubbed my clitoris and did many other sexual things to me. It scarre... (522 words

I have a 4yo and am pregnant, how do I improve my life for my children and me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5101 days ago

27 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Im 21 years old I have a 4 year old baby girl and im 16 weeks preg... I want to be sombody in life. But I don't know were to start. I fished high school but don't know how if my reading math ext is really bad. I want togo to school but I don't know if I would be any good at ... (143 words

How can I be his friend now that we have broken up?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5100 days ago

27 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - My bf recently broke up with me. We had been dating for a little less than a year. I broke up with him a couple of months ago because i felt very disrespected by pictures that i saw of him and my co-worker flirting. I agreed I would see how things went in the mean time, so we ... (324 words

I feel so deflated since she broke up with me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

27 March 2010 (M age 30-35 - Okay... so this is a really embarrassing question for me, but It's been bothering me for a long time. Here's the story... I was with a girl, who I fell in love with. She told me how her ex boyfriend had sexually abused her, and I respected that. We had sex for a year (the ... (509 words

I have poor body image

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27 March 2010 (F age 26-29 - So I'm very self consiious of my body (can't even spell it ) and I really want to have sex with my boyfriend. I must admit my vagina is what is the issue seeing as it looks like it could talk to you. Lol I hate it but I keep comeing so close to him but pull his hand away from ... (82 words

My boyfriend is sexually shy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5103 days ago

27 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Heyy everyone i really need help! ]= okay so i been with my boyfriend for about 3 months and he was a virgin while he was with me until yesterday when he gave it up to me. but he wasnt my first and he knows that we'll anyways i love oral sex!! and im down with giving him oral... (145 words

My wife wants to have sex with a black man

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

27 March 2010 (M age 41-50 - I am an average size guy and my wife is large down below after having our child and since I have noticed that she has become frustrated as I am not satisfying her, We have toys and have fun but she has asked if she could sleep with a black man to try it out, I am ok with it as... (78 words

I feel my friend is trying to take advantage of my offer

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

27 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I don't know who to ask or what to do. I am a married mother of one gorgeous 5 month old and I have a best friend named Katie that I've known for 10+ years. Before Katie and George split, I offered to let Katie move in with me for a while, if she ever actually decided... (417 words

I don't trust my boyfriend who makes me feel insecure

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5105 days ago

27 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - I dnt trust my boyfriend when he isnt with me i feel that he is with someone else i feel very insecure about our relationship i knw im nt bad looking but around him i feel like im trash he doesnt say anything nice how i look am i good enough for him.... (53 words

I rarely feel satisfied after sex with husband

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27 March 2010 (F age 51-59 - My question, my husband and l have sex but he never really releases inside of me. That to me is a real turn off and makes me feel very unwanted, and somehow full of emptyness and feeling pretty much down. On the other hand once in a blue moon when he actually does and l feel ... (88 words

He loves me but still talks to his ex girlfriend

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27 March 2010 (F age 26-29 - Okay, my boyrfriend of five months has been talking to his ex, what do I do? I've been dating my boyfriend for five months, and there are times that he talks to his ex. I've told him before that I dont like him talking to her when I'm not around, that I dont like her. I ... (224 words

Can you masturbate on your period or have sex without an erection?

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27 March 2010 (F age 26-29 - i was wondering how can women masterbate on their period? also does a man have to get hard before having sex to be able to have sex? ... (31 words

My boyfriend always complained about me and we just broke up, how do I get him back?

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27 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - My bf jst broke up with me,sayin that he don't want more of my problems while he is the one givin me a whole lots of headache.he compares me with his late gurlfrnd nd always complain abt me. . And finally has broken up with me. .should i move ahead with my life or do one or two ... (63 words

I've been offered to appear in an adult film. Any advice as to what goes on behind the scenes?

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27 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - I have been with my partner for 8 years and we have a solid relationship, in the past we have had threesomes with single men/woman and couples, it's never been something we do all of the time, just on the odd occasion, I have recently been offered to be in an adult film, I... (96 words

I had to say no to a date, now he wont respond

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27 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - So I recently met this guy, I wont say where, but from the internet looking for love kind of ordeal. It took him a few days to shoot me a text, he said he was busy with work. Okay, thats fine. So we started texting a lot for two days. He works, has a car, is National Gu... (380 words

Why do people say and do crazy and stupid things when they are hurt?

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27 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - I've read according to a study, that couples in new relationships have high levels of dopamine. Now,that's is the reason for doing ridiculous things while in a new relationship. But what about the other end of the spectrum, why do we do things that later seem ridiculous when we ... (167 words

Am I going to be the one when he gets over his ex?

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27 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Well i've known this person for about 2 months now. He talks to me alot, we have encounters and he makes me laugh while I make him smile. He always wants to know more about me, asks me questions about myself, and he thinks i'm smart. It's some kind of weird connection and I ... (128 words

I'm confused -- why isn't my b/f returning my texts?

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27 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - im 16....so me nd my boyfriend were friends before we were going out and really got along well. we have been going out for a few weeks. i cn tell hes nervous about our relationship but he doesnt want people to kno hes nervous. I see him at school everyday but ive gone on spring ... (202 words

Should I tell my husband about what happened when I was a child?

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27 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - Hi everyone when i was a little girl at the age 8/9 my big brother have sex with me i am not sure and can't remember what happen now the i am married and its in my mind. do u all think i should tell my husband about it. i feel so bad...what should i say to him what shou... (267 words

My bestfriend is mad at me

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27 March 2010 (F age 26-29 - my best friend is mad at me cause i like her ex boyfriend that broke up with her cause she cheated on him..... what sould i do?... (27 words

What can I do to make sure he cares?

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27 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I've been seeing this guy since January. And we really like each other, but we can'r officially be together until I'm 18. We both want to wait, but I just feel like sometimes he doesn't care. What can I do to make sure he cares?... (45 words

His mum says jump, he asks how high! How do I stop this ruining our marriage?

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27 March 2010 (F age - this is my second marriage been married for 17 years I have 2 grown son's they live on their own and my husband has a daughter that she's married, after 10 years of our marriage my husband's mother moves into U.S. from middleast, our life has been disrupted, my husband has 2 ... (209 words

Been together with a girl for over 3 years now we're broken up. She has no intention of getting back with me. Please help!

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27 March 2010 (M age 30-35 - *OP's own title* Me and my girlfriend have been together for 3 and a half years. For that length of time it felt as if we were the happiest couple alive. She always told me how I'm the most wonderful guy in the world and even better than the man of her dreams. Then it all came... (243 words

Can my boyfriend be jailed coz I am under age if my mum is ok with it???

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27 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - can my boyfriend go to jail if his older then me?but my mom is ok with it and she dosent press charges nonone can do anything to him if my mom is ok with it... (36 words

I am so worried my family will spoil my engagement party!

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27 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - i'm so worried about my engagement party becos of my family will spoil it. they wont argue with my fiancés family, no. they will argue amongst themselves, about petty things, and it will just ruin everything, cos they cant be around eachother. my mums side of the family ar... (148 words

All my friends have boyfriends, but not me. I feel so worthless!

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27 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I just never really liked a guy like him and we are best friends so I told him I like him he said he doesn't like me only as a friend. He said he likes my friend. I just feel not good enongh for anyone. All my friends have a bf but not me. Guys never are interested in me I just ... (64 words

How do I deal with the Lesbian Bed Death phenomena?

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27 March 2010 (F age 51-59 - I am a bisexual female with an extremely high sex drive. I have been in a lesbian relationship for the last several years with a woman who NEVER wants sex. I believe we are experiencing what I've heard referred to as Lesbian Bed Death. I've been doing some research and it is ... (182 words

I am the jealous type and his broken promises are depressing me.

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27 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Ok so this guy, Sebastian, we've been dating for 2 weeks, and we already have teh most amazing connection ever, but im his first relationship in 3 years, he's slept with alot of women, and im afraid that ehs going to cheat, i am the jealous type so when he talks about other ... (201 words

Once bitten, ..twice shy!

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27 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - Please hear me out... In February of this year, shortly (about 2 weeks) after meeting this really nice, awesome guy at work, I asked him out, he seemed taken aback, politely said he had other plans, and that was that. We continued our flirty banter, it progressed to hugs and... (429 words

He treats me like crap, so how do I get over being obsessed with him?

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27 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - i am completely obsessed about this guy who has the worst history, treats women like sh*t. i just want to forget him, but the more i try the more i fall for him. he has treated me awfully, (no physical damage) but has lead me on, completely used me for sex and (although na... (214 words

I found my dream girl, but I can't tell her my feelings. Help!

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27 March 2010 (M age 30-35 - Dear Friends, it's the first time i really feel i need help !, till now i was in control of my life. i thought i would not fall in love simply because this special girl in my dreams doesn't exist and i decided to lead a single life . however i recently fell in love ... (188 words

My friends grandpa is dying, what steps should she take?

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27 March 2010 (M age 41-50 - I have a friend whose Grandfather may be dying. Her Grandmother is in denial, and her Mother, who lives 10 blocks from him, won't even stop in to see him. He says he hasn't been to a doctor in twenty years and doesn't need to go now. My friend lives 3 hours away and she mad... (259 words

Fiancee lied about being a virgin, how can I let her down gently so she can find someone of the same mindset?

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27 March 2010 (M age 36-40 - Hai, il go straight to the point. My fiancee lied to me that she was a virgin, am 27 years and i kept my virginity she told me she slept with 10 guys and i dont i can marry her. How do i let her go gently so that she can find some else with her same mind set?... (59 words

I cheated and now she only wants to be friends. How can I change her mind?

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27 March 2010 (M age 36-40 - i recently have cheated on my girlfriend of almost 6yrs. We have been dating since we were 15 and now we our 22 about to graduate college. about a month ago i cheated with a 28 yr girl that had picked me up at a bar. at the time our relationship was really bad and there was a ... (384 words

My fiance wants to end our relationship, should I hang in there?

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27 March 2010 (F age - my fiance has just been disnosed with depression and now he says he wants to finish,but cant give me a reason,should i just except it or hang in there? ... (30 words

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