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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

 

Should I confront her and let destiny run its course?

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29 March 2010 (M age 51-59 - I'm in-love with my wife, she is my soul mate, the love of my life! We been married for 16 yrs and 13 yrs ago I caught her cheating on me, it broke my heart. She promise me that she would end the affair and begged me to stay I forgave her and took her back. A couple of ... (315 words

What do you think? Does my guy friend like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

29 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Does my guy friend like me? We were talking today and he said that he would vote no just to make me mad. He also blushed when I told him that he doesn’t know his own Horoscope. He always thinks he knows everything! When I prove him wrong he says you always try to find ... (90 words

How can I get my shy guy to loosen up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

29 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I'm "dating" a guy but he's sooooooooo shy!! He barely ever starts conversations etc... How can I tell him to loosen up? Would you be offended if someone told you to loosen up? Were off to see kick ass on Thursday so advice before then would be apreciated x... (49 words

I want to help him with his drug problem but I don't know how to... help!

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29 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi, i really need help! My boyfriend is a very honest person, he's shared a lot of information with me since we've got together. It's been hard to take it all in; his past etc. However, i'm willing to accept him as a person. I really like him and I want the relationship to ... (344 words

Help!!! How do I end this affair?

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29 March 2010 (M age 30-35 - I've just turned 21 and have been working at my job for about 18 months now. It started at last years work staff party. Everyone was dancing, drinking and partying, because i dont drink or smoke, i kept myself one side and chatted to anyone who sat at the our table. So i ... (625 words

I feel so jealous when my boyfriend looks at other girls!

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29 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - I feel so jealous when my boyfriend looks at other girls, we have 2 children together an we are both in our 20's. I no i dont have much confidence and low self esteem but i really need and want to change i feel so depressed and stupid all the time when i make comments like why ... (90 words

After the hymen is torn by girls masturbating or she loses her virginity, do her periods get heavier?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

29 March 2010 (F age 26-29 - After the hymen is torn by girls masturbating or she loses her virginity, do her periods get heavier? If then why? I really want to know,because i am curious,i have ask some of my best friends and they all don`t know! Thanks in advance aunts =]... (52 words

Still bleeding 3 days after losing my virginity!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5101 days ago

29 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - hellow there, the thing is im kinda confused right now. i lost my virginity 3 days ago , and im still bleeding right. i dont know how normal is this, and i dont know if the virgin blood could have got mixed with my period blood, because im EXTREMELY iregular, i mean... (147 words

Is he just being an idiot or does he really like me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

29 March 2010 (F age 26-29 - Umm.I really like this boy. He always fools around with me in my last class at school that we have together. He does things like blows me kisses and touches my butt or tells me im hot or like says if I wanna go to his crib with him and flirts and stuff like that. he is really ... (225 words

She doesn't feel that 'spark' for me, but doesn't want to break up

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

29 March 2010 (M age 36-40 - No spark in the relationship, doesn't want to break up. I met a girl about 3 months ago online, we hit it off and arranged an in real life date. This also went well, and we began seeing more and more of each other. It's been about 2 months since our first in person date, and... (593 words

I still have feelings for my womanizing ex boyfriend

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29 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - How do i cope with this. Im totally confused about my feeling for my ex. Do i still love him? Dont i? I spent 3 yrs of my life chasing this man it wasnt really a proper relationship but i was besotted with him! We were on off all the time i wanted more than just the odd wken... (383 words

My married best friend is in love with me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5101 days ago

29 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - My best friend and I have been inseperable for the last 13 years. He has just recently gotten married. since then I have distanced myself, do to the fact that all women are not as comfortable with their other half having a female for a best friend. We both just recently... (133 words

Thank you, Dear Cupid!

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29 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - [Moderator note: Thank you for the compliment! We're very glad we've been able to help you.] p /> This is not a question but I would like to say that I find dear cupid the best thing that has happend to me because when I have a question I just ask and people are always help.... (139 words

I don't know how to cook and need some tips

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29 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Ok I know this doesn't have anything to do with sex,relationship or love but I have to ask sombody...... well im 21 years old and I have a two year old and im preg.... I live with my boyfriend and my two year old. Well we always eat out, because I don't know how to cook I k... (240 words

Do you think my ex will get the message to leave me alone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5101 days ago

29 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - hello all, if you send a msg to a guy that goes this way: "sorry i am very busy to pick up your calls. I am just around anyway, but it doesn't mean we must keep in touch. hope its fine with you, take care." what would you think he will understand it as? I sent this to... (113 words

My boyfriend says I'm a waste of time!

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29 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - My and my boyfriend have been together for about 19 months now, i love him to bits, we have been through so much together. We have broken up and made up so many times but we always laugh them off and we have a special connection. Were like best friends most of the time but.. ... (252 words

I love my boyfriend but I miss being single

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29 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Before I started to date my boyfriend in December I use to have a drinking problem. I was drunk almost every weekend. I didn't let it go as far as drinking during the week, though it did take a big part on my grades at school. During my drinking spree, which went on for... (329 words

My boyfriend is falling for me way too fast after losing his virginity

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

29 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hello everyone, well this is my problem. I been with my boyfriend for about 3 months going on 4 and I'm his first everything. In the beginning I knew he was falling for me and he was falling fast. But now that I took his virginity I know that he is in love. He always wants ... (205 words

Why is a nasty ex still on my mind?

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29 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - why do i still think of him? over a year ago ex bf lied about sleepin wit me to his buddies. i found put through a good friend. i spoke to him online about it then cut off all contact. i didnt sleep wit him but i snuck him over to my house and we made out n fooled around b... (187 words

Do you think I just took things the wrong way???

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29 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - hi hope you can help theres this man that i have liked for a while and out of nowhere he asked to be my friend on facebook he then sent me a message asking how i was n where i work , we were sending each other messages for a few days running then he asked for my number , ... (265 words

The sister is trying to keep us apart...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

29 March 2010 (F age - I have linked with a guy I have fancies for over a year on facebook. He hinted he wanted to linkkk. There is mutual attraction between us. Whenever I see him his sister tries to keep us apart. She likes me and keeps saying I will do for him but she is friends with my ... (114 words

I feel like I am raising a daughter rather than loving someone I hope to marry.

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29 March 2010 (M age 36-40 - She is 18 and I am 24. Right now I feel like I am raising a daughter rather than loving someone I hope to marry. She even said herself see feels like we are room mates than a couple. That being said I really don't know what to do. I have to teach her how to cook, clean, man... (166 words

Appreciation of my girlfriend/relationship.... does it sound like a good idea??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

29 March 2010 (M age 30-35 - Hey people, So me and my girlfriend just got back together after a month and week of being split up and I have to say times are definitely great. We are back to ourselves and most importantly, back together. But I've started thinking and I am thinking about writing a small bo... (130 words

I want him to kiss me badly!!! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5102 days ago

29 March 2010 (F age 26-29 - So i have liked this guy since grade 5 (Im grade 9 now) hes in grade 10! he goes to the big high school and i go to the little christian school! i realized on a trip to the mountains to go snowboarding i fell in love with him. On the 10 minute lift he put his arm around m... (411 words

I don't want kids at our wedding, my fiance does... how can we resolve this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4935 days ago

29 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - Hi, I'm getting married next year and me and my fiancé keep disagreeing over 1 particular issue - having children at our wedding. Now I'm sure i'm going to get a lot of "hate" responses but I'm not trying to be nasty. I don't want children there during the day, at the chur... (260 words

Isn't it up to the man to ask the woman out to dinner?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

29 March 2010 (F age - I met a man online and had a date last night. I almost cancelled, because I thought I would not like him. Anyway, we met up and laughed all night. We talked and talked, held hands amd it was a blast. He walked me to my car and kissed me goodnight.. He texed me to make sure I ... (165 words

Is it right that I should go back out with him?

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29 March 2010 (F age 26-29 - heyy, i broke up with my boyfriend about a month ago because i was all stressed and i didn't want that to effect anything .. we both stayed friends i text him this morning whilst he was on holiday to just ask how he was then he text back saying "I still like you and you are ... (111 words

Help with periods...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5087 days ago

29 March 2010 (F age 26-29 - hey my problem is that when i menstruate i get a really heavey period and i first got my period 3 years ago and im way too embarrased to talk to my mam about it, i want to know if there's any way to help it slow or cope better? please help. ... (93 words

I think I have lesbian tendencies...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

29 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hey guys, I've got a (few) question(s)... well, i think I'm lesbian, I'm okay with that, (i think because I'm attracted to girls like all the time, and on occasion a guy, but id never be with him), but i don't know how to meet girls. I'm shy sometimes, and that's my main iss... (85 words

Dating advice required!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

29 March 2010 (M age 36-40 - hi everyone im a 25 year old dental student with only a few months left to qualify. recently joined a few dating websites and have been on a fair few dates in the last 5 months. i have also been set up by a few female friends who i work with. my problem is i dont seem to get p... (270 words

Dreaming the same dream about my ex but I HAVE a boyfriend! Why do I keep dreaming about my ex?

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29 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hey im 19 years old and have recently got with a new partner that ive fallen for pretty hard, he's an amazing guy and totally opposite to my ex. Me and my ex boyfriend were together for 1 year and 7 months, and i think we should of ended the relationship after about 6/7 ... (571 words

I really thought he liked me... as it turns out he was just comforting me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5103 days ago

29 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - This is about a guy and i'd really appreciate your help. Well i was at a party on saturday night and me and my best friend fell out and i ended up crying. After about half an hour i calmed down and things were sorted out so we went back to having fun with everyone. There was... (327 words

I don't want to go abroad when my parents move... Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5103 days ago

29 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I really want to stay in the country I am, but my parents are forcing me to go to Australia, which I don't want to. They want me to go in July. How can I stop this? I don't want to go abroad!!... (43 words

Help please! Does anyone have any advice on how to let go of things?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5103 days ago

29 March 2010 (M age 36-40 - Does anyone have any advice on how to let go of things? its been almost a month and a half since things went bad with a girl i was dating for a little while.. i did everything i thought was right made sure i wasn't over bearing... really crossed the t's and dotted the I's..... (229 words

He ended it with me... but he still loves me!!! What gives?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

29 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - My partner and i have only been together for a short period of time (10 months) hes 25, im 21. We had a rough patch after 6 months but worked through it and since then things have been brilliant.. Then he turns up saturday and tells me he cant do it anymore and finishes it? And ... (192 words

Still waiting...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5103 days ago

29 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I've come back from University for my easter holiday and I expect to see my boyfriend a lot in the next three weeks, because it's my birthday too! But I haven't even seen him since last Thursday when I came back. He was bored last night and I expected him maybe to ask me round... (180 words

He loves me but doesn't believe me...!!!

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29 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - hi, I have a bf and I've been in a relationship with him for about one year! He is so sweet and caring. I love him a lot and he loves me a lot too but he always doesn't believe girls..!! We both are studying in different countries and we are maintaining a long distance ... (214 words

Although I'm dating him he just doesn't seem interested...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5103 days ago

29 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - I have been dating a guy for 2 months that i met through mutual friends. he has never been great at calling or texting just to say 'hi'. he has a demanding job which he is unhappy in and he says is affecting his sleep, making him stressed etc. My problem is, despite us now ... (133 words

Evidence of a possible affair from years ago, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

29 March 2010 (F age - Hello Agony Aunts Please can you give me some advice. To cut a long story short, I am recovering from finding out that my husband was having an affair - this was over two years ago [2008] and we did the counselling thing. And to date things have been going better. Am sl... (346 words

Should I break up with him and become single seeing as I'm starting Uni soon?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5103 days ago

29 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend, C, under a year and half (which isn't too long term in regards to previous relationships I've had) but whilst we've been together I've been on and off attracted to other guys and have even had a few affairs with other guys. But my problem is, I ... (332 words

One minute he wants me, the next he blows me out for his mates!

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29 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Ok when you read this you may think this guys a player but in fact hes not. He's a bit weird with how he deals with things but hes a nice guy, a good person, never had a gf, funny, slightly big headed but yano its all why i love him. its just recently when we've been out t... (305 words

My boyfriend won't come to my graduation... because I'm going to a BBQ!

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29 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend is mad because next weekend i have a BBQ to go to (that he was invited to, just refuses to) The BBQ is on sunday, i said i can go over his place on friday, stay the night and saturday then i will go home to the BBQ on sunday which would be a total of me doin... (244 words

How to stop bipolar boyfriend drinking and smoking weed?

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29 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - Hello, can someone please offer some good advice... My bf has not been well for the past year or so of our 4 year relationship. It has recently come to light that he sufferes from bipolar disorder. I knew he suffered depression, but never imagined it could be this. I ha... (286 words

Help with hot and cold confusion...???

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29 March 2010 (M age 36-40 - Hi, I have a confusing GF She's playing hot and cold at the moment. It really bugs me, perhaps I am putting too much thought into it as well, anyway here goes: recently my gf has started telling me that I've become harder to talk to, she thinks I am the one to blame, ye... (704 words

What is stopping my boyfriend having sex with me???

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29 March 2010 (? age 36-40 - Hello everyone, My partner and I have been together for three years now and he has still not had sex with me. I am a virgin and he has had a lot of past experiences. However, a year ago I felt ready to have sex so I let him know only for him not to do anything. He made ... (280 words

Why is he telling me he's still in London when I know for a FACT he's not???

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29 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Ok whats with this guy I do kinda like him but hes driving me mad met this guy 3 months ago he likes he drink and sometimes smokes weed. Anyway started talking after a period of not then past couple of days hes being really quiet again well since thursday. He told me he... (176 words

Why am I so shy in front of his family?

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29 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - I have been with my man for a year, I'm 18 years old and he is 24. We love each other more than anything in this world and get on great, we spend all our time together and hardly ever argue. Thing is I have met his mum loads of times now since we been together, she is really ... (221 words

I had no blood or pain when I had sex for the first time, has anyone else been the same as me?

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29 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - This is something very personal that's been bugging me for years so I'm just going to ask it. When I first had sex at 18 I was looking forward to the "traditional experience" - blood, a little pain, you know. However, I was quite let down. There was literally no blood - none.... (357 words

Will he take me back after it has been a few years?

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29 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - A few years ago I was with this guy. We were so in love and attached to each other. We were both each other's first and we were together almost 2 years. He went away for a bit and the distance tore us apart, when he got back he decided that we should go back to just dating. I ... (230 words

How can I get out of this mindset and gain more confidence?

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29 March 2010 (M age 41-50 - I'm male and in relation with another guy for past 2 years. By looks, am average looking, but decent looking. cannot say am ugly. I never felt inferior about my looks, because i have lot more valuable qualities. Good job and good finance status keeps me away from inferi... (257 words

Love confusion......

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29 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I met this really nice guy at school a while back I really like him but i was concerned about our age difference which is only a year, (im older) the other problem is he's a smoker, and he seems to flirt with a lot of girls. He says he likes me, but i think he just wants to... (182 words

I think I should break things off but I'm just not sure how to.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

29 March 2010 (M age 30-35 - So I have some major relationship problems. Firstly, we live in different states, 2000 miles a part. We have known each other for over a year now. I've met her a fair amount of times. And I'm going to keep this story sparse, but we argue all the time over the phone, and she's ... (277 words

Can I be forgiven for cheating? Do I deserve a chance to prove myself?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5100 days ago

29 March 2010 (M age 36-40 - This is what happened, i was with my now ex "Ladge" on and off for 2 years. We split and decided to become friends as we got on so well. We never loved each other but as she had a kid and enjoyed doing sports together we tried to keep a friendship going (Ladge wanted more ... (844 words

I'm going to lose my virginity but my boyfriend is really big and I am worried!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

29 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I read from one post before that a girl having very horrible experience when she lost virginity to her bf who having a 9" penis and felt like vagina split into two. I worry I will face the same situation as my bf slightly more than 8.5" and thick in around. We he hurt me bad ... (93 words

Should I keep in contact with my teacher, and if so, what can I write in this letter?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

29 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I am in year 12 and graduating from school this year. There is a teacher who taught me english in year 7 and 8. I admire the way he teaches and he is my favorite teacher. He has not taught me ever since but over the years we would talk to each other very often... (163 words

Some help with the 'no contact' rule after a break up

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

29 March 2010 (M age 30-35 - OK my girlfriend dumped me 3 weeks ago now. We've been going out for 3 years and she's very dear to me. For the first week I was doing nothing but trying to remain in contact with her and making the mistake of begging and pleading with her but with no success. The second week I ... (367 words

Met someone while broken up with boyfriend. Boyfriend is trying to work things out with me, but can't stop thinking about new guy...

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29 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 years. We never had any major problems but my boyfriend surprised me by saying he doesn't know if he loves me anymore and wanted to take a break to get his head together. In the meantime, I met someone (a relative of a friend) and... (198 words

My wife was cheating with her cousin!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

29 March 2010 (M age 41-50 - My wife cheated on me with her cousin. They had sex multiple times and she was staying at his house. This was all while she was on vacation visiting her family. She just started getting to know them all including her father. He ran out on her mother when she was born. She acted ... (616 words

Who do I choose, my husband or my lover?

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29 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I'm married but start loving to anish my boyfriend.My husband also love me but i never like his attitude and arguments ? I can't divorced with my husband because our family not permitted this they try to solve the problem between me and my husband but there is no problem.what i ... (79 words

I'm disappointed he didn't trust me enough to tell me he's gay. He knows I look at facebook!

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29 March 2010 (F age 51-59 - I have a male friend since 2007 with whom I have had some nice times. I really liked him but despite his kisses and sharing a bed sometimes, no sex ever. Of course, the thought that he could be gay crossed my mind, but each time I saw him I dismissed it. So imagine how I felt ... (321 words

He promised it would never happen again... and now the emails have started again!

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29 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - I have been married for a couple of years and have a beautiful son. Over the last 6 mths or so, I found my husbands email account open and he was asking his ex for nude photos etc and emails about their past relationship. My husband is away alot, she lives close by. She is... (90 words

I don't understand why do I still think about my ex and have feelings for him?

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29 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - I can't seem to get over my ex and don't know if I should try talking to my ex again. We broke up nine months ago and I still have feelings for him. He broke up with me and said it was because he was going to ruin my life. Its a little complicated why he left and I am still not ... (322 words

I'm madly in love with my best friend's boyfriend!

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29 March 2010 (F age 51-59 - [Mod note: I think the age range given by the poster is incorrect. Poster, please verify your age.] I'm stuck, I'm madly in love with my best friends bf. This is what happened; so me and him had a thing while they were going out and we made out alot and hungout alot and I know... (133 words

Dumped, badly, and now worried about heartbreak again!

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29 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - Ok so here's the deal. I have just got out of a serious relationship well lets just say the dirt bag left me on the day of my grandma's funeral harsh huh ! there was no warning or anything he just said that morning as I was getting ready to leave, I love you and want to marry ... (411 words

He's going to tell me to take down the facebook picture!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

29 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - my boyfriend starts fights over my face book dp! there is absolutely NOTHING slutty or anything about the picture i put up, it was actually a picture where i was in the background and i thought i looked good so i put it up as my dp.. now he is angry at me! my friends say i lo... (164 words

Why did she and her mother pick him over me? He's a manwhore!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

29 March 2010 (M age 30-35 - Alright one of my best friends decided to this weekend take me out for some fun and introduce me to some new people and a few new girls in hopes of boosting my social life and just helping me move past a few bad weeks. We had an awesome time. I met two girls that im interested ... (804 words

Help this stressed out hubby whose wife was sending naughty texts to another man!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

29 March 2010 (M age 41-50 - A few months ago I started suspecting my wife was sending naughty messages to one of the truck drivers that delivers to her work. I asked her about it and she said it was just a friend and they talk about their day and nothing more then that. We were going through a really ... (268 words

He says he's not sexually attracted to me because of my job!

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29 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Im not sure what to do i have been with my boyfriend for almost 6 years and he tells me loves me but he isnt sure that he is sexually attracted to me anymore because of my job (Escort) he and i have sex on occasions but for the part he just goes online and jacks off, it doesnt ... (115 words

Is he in love with me but afraid to let me know?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5085 days ago

29 March 2010 (M age 30-35 - [Mod note: please follow up by adding the link to your previous question] Ok, guys almost a year ago I posted a question about this guy that I met and he was straight. Well, its been about 7 months since ive talked to him and I recently contacted him, I asked him how thin... (216 words

He wants me to let him go...

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29 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - we been together for almost close to 4 years now, my bf and me have an off and on relationship. we broke up many times and back together. for this past months, we been in a rocky life. we fought and we were then ok after patching up things. and usually i am the one making a ... (585 words

How long to wait before I have sex with him?

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29 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - i had this bf for 2yrs and he left me for someone else a yr ago.now he start talking to me again.we are going to see eachother again in april when he comes back from washington.We have never had sex before but now i want to.if we start going out again how long should i wait to ... (61 words

She loves me, I'm her best friend, but she's not "in love"! I'm floored.

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29 March 2010 (M age 41-50 - I have been blindsided by my (or should I say former) girlfriend of 7 months. I thought that we had the best relationship. To me, she was "the one". I was sure of it. I was planning on marrying her after I graduated. We connected so well, and we frequently were complimented how ... (487 words

Time apart or is she stringing me along?

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29 March 2010 (M - Okay here is the situation, she wants a temporary time apart but still want us to be friends until we work out our personal problems and get back together as a couple. But every time I turn around she is asking me for favors, calling, text me all the time, and she wants me to ... (159 words

I'm always the "other woman"

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29 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - i am relatively young, and still have a long way to go in my life, but for the most part i am extremely mature for my age. Although i have had alot of life experience, i have never had a real boyfriend.This isnt to say that i dont have experience with guys, it simply means that ... (578 words

Tired of masturbating and watching porn...

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29 March 2010 (M age - I really need help...I am tired of doing this..I masturbate everyday 2-3 times..and I watch porn for masturbation...almost everyday...I hate it but to masturbate I watch it...I wanna stop doing it and watching porn...How should I stop it? Please help me or provide me the ... (48 words

I need him back! I felt pressure and lied to him...

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29 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - hello im alex, my boyfriend was looking through my phone and saw a picture of an old guy in my saved recieved pictures. he asked why i saved it and i said that my pictures automatically save, he knew that they dont though. he hates lying but i felt pressured and lied. i love ... (138 words

Should I wait until her boyfriend leaves to tell her how I feel?

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29 March 2010 (M age 30-35 - Ohk this will be a bit long but i could really use some advice.... Back in the day i was really good friends with a girl, and i fell in love with her. I just acted like her friend though and didnt want to push our relationship any farther than friends because i wasnt sure if i ... (495 words

He loves another girl! But I can't leave him!

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29 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I am loving my cousin brother and he is also in love with me.for the past one and half years, we enjoyed as like other lovers. Trust me, he truly loved me. But now he says that he is loving another girl. I couldnt leave him. what can i do?... (50 words

My life has become a huge complicated relationship problem.

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29 March 2010 (F age 26-29 - i have a new problem, i still love my teacher and she still loves me but i have told her about my 'only friends' (student/teacher) policy because i know the consequences of pursuing a relationship. well now my friend ab has a crush on me and i am attracted to her,my other ... (241 words

My boyfriend wants to have sex, I don't...but he keeps threatening me

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29 March 2010 (F age 26-29 - um my boyfriend keeps talking about sex and that he wants to um "do it" soon but im not ready and i dont want to do it with him but he keeps threatening me and has rased his hand to me. i dont know what else to do!... (49 words

Why are my sisters being so hostile towards my boyfriend?

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29 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - My sister, I guess you could say, has been kind of hostile towards my boyfriend. She says "he's fat" or "he's ugly." She also claims that he's too old for me (I don't think a three year age difference is much; I'm 18, he's 21). She's also constantly trying to sabotage our ... (125 words

How can we tell my parents about our relationship? Is this a bad idea?

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29 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I'm a 16 year old girl and I have fallen for a 20 year old male. He is everything I have looked for in a boy. Just everything about him is just something I dream about. My parents told me they will put him in jail. I told them to give him a chance and they said no. Well, we are ... (85 words

How can I meet new girls? The ones I like all have boyfriends!

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29 March 2010 (M age 30-35 - My ex and I have been broken up for a couple months now. She broke up with me and I was/still am heart broken. I feel like the only way I'll be able to completely get over her is if I start dating other girls. A little background: I'm in school and have a decent social li... (377 words

I didn't say no, but I was pushing him away and then I passed out. Was it rape?

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29 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Last night i went to a small party of about 20 people. We played beer pong and all of us got really really hammered. My friend put me to bed and another male friend ended up sleeping in the same bed as me. At first we just talked and we cuddled, but I didnt want to hook up with ... (184 words

I'm curious...what do people think about the whole "friends with benefits" idea?

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29 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Just curious as to what people think of the whole "friends with benefits" idea. I mean, what defines a relationship as that and do you think it's bad or trashy? I feel like I'm in that situation right now with my best friend. We used to date and neither of us has met anyone ... (104 words

How can I learn to be less emotional?

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29 March 2010 (? age 30-35 - Okay I'm a very, VERY emotional person, I always have been and I'm very sensitive. I've had at least 3 people say I'm the most sensitive person they've met. Anyway.. it's actually really annoying and I have a boyfriend who I love alot. I was always a sensitive person... (336 words

Should I be concerned about his dodgy, alcohol-related past?

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29 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - I've been seeing this guy for a month.We're not exclusive but we see and talk to each other almost every day. He's incredibly sweet, loving and not a flake (which seems hard to find in SD), however there r some things that bother me - he doesnt have a car (cause of previo... (261 words

Getting mixed signals from a colleague. Should I try harder or give her space?

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29 March 2010 (M age 51-59 - Recently I asked out a co-worker. We had for several months talked and I always made her laugh. A beautiful woman. I'm 45 and she is 44 and divorced. She mentioned she rarely let people into her life in a serious way. She gives me the feeling something has happened that ma... (337 words

I gave my guy friend some relationship advice and now my boyfriend thinks I'm cheating on him

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29 March 2010 (F age 26-29 - ok i really love this guy and hes my boyfriend but then a couple of days ago i talked to another guy and he told me about his relationship problems and gave him advice and he is only a friend that i gave advice to and my boyfriend doesn't believe any of it. he thinks that im ... (169 words

Is he just friendly or does he fancy me?

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29 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - So, I am basically a starbucks addict. Anyway, there's this guy who works there, I spoke to him maybe once, when I was with a friend (he was joking around with us, saying my grandparents loved me more cause they gave me more money). Anyways, I was there the other day, and when... (137 words

Should I get back together with the ex I love but don't trust?

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29 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - Hi All, I've been dealing with this decision for some time now.. sometimes I feel I've made up my mind, then I come undone and feel confused again. I was with my ex for 3 years, we had a break as I felt he needed time to sort out his issues. During this time he slept wi... (644 words

Torn...do I take her back?

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29 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I have broken up with my gf of nearly a year and a half recently. I'm really struggling to cope even thought I finished with her. I felt stuck in a rut and didnt know what else to do. She was always angry and moody with me and i felt so tense when i was around her. But at the ... (169 words

Secret affair with a married straight man

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29 March 2010 (M age 36-40 - Hey I've known this str8 dude for 10 years now. As kid we've done things together. Sexually and even as adults. There's been a few time I had pay him but it still happened. Now he knows I love him and I know he uses that to his advantage. He has an on and off again girlfriend ... (106 words

Each time it happens he says that he's sorry! Now he's done it again!

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29 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - so my boyfriend has hurt me in the past in terms of flirting with women, he tells them that he wants to be with them, calls them baby, asks them if he can come over, wants to get stuff for them and more, (never had sex with them though that i know)! each time it happens he says ... (221 words

Can people change?

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29 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - My husband had a 3 year affair with his niece who was 15 when it started. He was 30. He says she initiated it and that he was to far in to get out, he said she threatened him with suicide if he left her. He was raped by family members as a young child..the affair is now in the ... (95 words

It's as though he can treat me however he wants because he knows I'll stay!

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29 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Im stuck in a relationship rut and I dont know whether to end it, ask for a break or try and make it work. for some time now ive felt that my boyfriend doesnt put any effort into the relationship. there are many reasons why i think this: 1.hes only affectionate when i... (283 words

Feeling guilt over leaving!

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29 March 2010 (F age 51-59 - I have been with my loving partner for three years now. The problem is i still have this guilt that i cannot seem to get over. I was married for eighteen years and my ex husband was a good provider, he was verbally abusive towards me, not interested in me physically. I would ... (433 words

She thinks it's okay to flirt with other guys in front of me!

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29 March 2010 (M age 30-35 - I've been dating a girl for about four months now. I've met her parents, and we're going abroad for a holiday next week. Things are great when we are together, except for one thing: she neither loves me (she 'likes me a lot'), nor does she consider me her boyfriend. When her ... (275 words

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