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Nearly raped, but my friends no longer believe it

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18 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - The friends who do know about me being almost raped are now saying they don't believe me or i'm being a wuss about it becasue i'm too scared to file charges. after it happened i started having nightmares, so i told someone and that ended up at the police department. I told them ... (303 words

I'd rather keep him as a friend ...

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18 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - It was a week before his sister's wedding when my boyfriend told me we needed to work on the talking portion of our relationship. I said alright, and began working really hard to fix that part of it. It then became clear that I was going to be the only one working on it. He ... (192 words

How do I change?

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18 March 2010 (? age 30-35 - Hi,iam 17 years old and have been daeling with a lot,now iam ready for change.iam sexually active but after sitting down and thinking about it i asked myself 1 question (what have i really gained from having sex?)my answer was a lot of heartache,pain,and lieing to my mother.i ... (112 words

He finds reasons to talk to me. Does he like me or not?

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18 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I like this boy I've known for a few years but just recently become friends with. We have 2 classes together, but we really only talk in the 2nd class. In the first class, he sits with a group a people I'm not friends with and I sit on the other side of the room with my ... (157 words

Will sperm stick to your teeth and if so how do you get rid of it?

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18 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Will sperm stick to your teeth? and if it does how do i get rid of it?... (17 words

Husband walks out while we are on vacation. Should I put the effort in to stay with him?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

18 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - Hi, I am a 32 y/o woman who has been in a relationship for the past 6 years and I am totally confused as to whether I should leave my fiance or or not. I really need some help with this. My fiance can be quite controlling and aggresive towards me, for example today, we are on... (188 words

Sister came on to me...drunk. What should I say to her?

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18 March 2010 (M age 30-35 - She'd been to a party and came home really drunk and she grabbed me and started kissing me. She then said I was her baby brother and that she should show me how to fun with a girl. She then tried to pull my shirt off and I had to wrestle with her to stop and she kept saying how ... (118 words

The pill has made my cycle irregular.

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18 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I am on the pill at the moment, but a while ago I had my period, then 19 days later I had another one, then a few days after that it started again, it has now been a month since then and I am on the 7 placebos for my period but I haven't come on yet? is this normal? and am I ... (91 words

What does his behavior mean? He sounded excited to see me.

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18 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I dumped my ex cos i realized that he was just using me for sex cos every time we were together he'd insist on having sex Even if i wasnt in the mood. he was really aggressive and i didnt feel loved so i told him it was over. we are still friends but havent been together is... (209 words

Why is my dad doing this?? should I continue to live at home

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18 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I am starting uni september next year and my brother who's away at uni says i should stay at home and attend uni.. that i would be able to buy a car and drive there because he stays on campus at uni and university life is very expensive. but my dad insists I go live on campu... (163 words

Is the saying true... once a cheater ALWAYS a cheater?

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18 March 2010 (M age 36-40 - I would like to ask the best way to handle my current situation. I just found out that my girlfriend had about 10 or more secret relationships before and while we were together (3 years). Whenever I asked her she said No or she said that guy is disgusting, ugly, no way and... (376 words

I'm annoyed that he couldn't be honest and give me a straight answer!

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18 March 2010 (M age 30-35 - I'm gay and I love one of my best friends and I told them a couple of months ago. They made it clear that they aren't, but they said that they respected the fact that I'm gay. I feel awkward when ever I pass him in the halls at school and I tryed to get together with him ... (333 words

Negative? Could it still be Positive?

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18 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - I was just wondering is it possible to have a negative pregnancy test and yet infact b pregnant. I have heard it is but yet I havnt heard of anyone this actually happening to so I would to hear from people who this had happened to. I am only three days late took a test today ... (70 words

How do I stop my dad changing my brother into someone who disrespects and abuses women?

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18 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Our parents are divorced and my brother (14) visits our dad for twice a month. I don't see him but he is having a negative effect on my brother. He is becoming really sexist and says things like men should give women a "good slap" if they disobey them. (this is what my dad used ... (135 words

Her father has caused us all these problems!

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18 March 2010 (M - Hi I need help. My fiancé and I have been having problems, because from what I have witnessed her father won't let her live her own life as he is a control freak and a bully. Over a year ago he threw me out of my fiancée house after he threatened to kill me and ever since then ... (391 words

He wants it all the time but it hurts!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

18 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - Advise please...... Know this guy for 3 years as distant friends, hes sweet funny and a workaholic, stood up twice by him in past due to work then after some convos on msn we met up with a bunch of his mates for a night out (was soo good) his friends are great and he was... (276 words

How can I stop fancying my cousin???

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18 March 2010 (F age 26-29 - hi i recently met my cousin who i haven't seen since i was about 5 years old, i'm now 15 (he's 16) and i quite fancy him even though we haven't had any contact between this we've done pretty much everything with our lives the same. we have the same tastes in music and ... (239 words

He fell asleep on me during sex. Should I have said what I did?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

18 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - Me and this guy started out like 5 months ago... we are both very busy people, and just get to see each other after 12pm or on weekends, since he works at morning and I work on evenings. He sometimes picks me up from work and we go est something. Last night he really wanted to ... (303 words

Another threesome story... should I do it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

18 March 2010 (F age 51-59 - Help my boyfriend asked me if I would be willing to have a threesome. I am not attracted to women, but I would do anything to stay with him. We have a 6 year old son together, and he is the love of my life. I offerd to turn a blind eye and let him have a threesome with two ... (94 words

Help! Psycho Single Father Is After Me!!!!

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18 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - I have an ex boyfriend who has 4 kids, he cheated on me and had 3 more. I left. I have a new boyfriend, and my ex refuses to move on. He uses his 2 oldest kids to tell lies on me, writes to my boyfriend and my family, he even calls the cops and files restraining orders. What ... (76 words

I got too serious and now he's mad with me.

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18 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - well i started talking to this guy 4 days back he said he started liking me i dont know whether he was flirting or he was serious even i like him i met him yesterday we both have our exams so we decided to think about dating after exams but i ruined everything i went too ... (111 words

Will my husband still love me if I have the 3-some he wants?

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18 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - Good day to everyone!!! I do hope that you can help me. My problem is my husband and I have been married for 5 years. Well my husband always wanted to have a 3ssome... the thing is we love each other so much and he said he will never cheat on me or anything like that but it ... (158 words

Married but have been seeing someone else for 8 years and I just can't let her go...

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18 March 2010 (M age 41-50 - I am married, happily married with a baby, i know.. i know it is very easy to say if you are so happily married why do you cheat? I met this wonderful girl, that is gonna make any guy very happy one day, we have been together for 8 years and are madly in love i know i need to ... (96 words

Is this friendship?

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18 March 2010 (M age 30-35 - Hi, I used to talk to my friend, but now he is not talking to me any longer.We were friends because when we go out he tells me if I am going and I tell him that I am going and he tells that's ok...if you coming....beacuse when we go out in a group,we were the most that we ... (723 words

My mum and dad are breaking up and I'm in shock!

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18 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I'm 21 years old, and despite my age, the news today that my mum is leaving my dad (after 34 years) is really hurting me. My mum said that she can't take any more and she deserves better - and that she waited until I was old enough for it not to affect me, but it is affecting ... (159 words

Indecisive and confused long distance boyfriend

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18 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 months. The first 2 months were very intense because we were so excited to have found each other and also we were living in the same city (he was here for work). Then he had to go back home, and since then we have been talking on the ... (309 words

I've been having a small lump above my eyebrow for ages, what could it be?

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18 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Heys. I've had this little lump about the size of a sand grain under the skin just above my eyebrow for years. It doesn't hurt or bother me at all but I'm just wondering what it is. It's been in the same place for ages and you cant see it but you can feel it if you touch. What ... (62 words

I'm angry with myself for liking him when he seems more interested in my friend.

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18 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I fancy one of the boys in my year and it seems that he may fancy me too. But obviously, there's a problem. Everyone teases him that he fancies one of my friends. They're very close. She has a boyfriend and claims that he's like a brother. He's also good friends with her bf. ... (216 words

How could he honestly say that he didnt love me, it just doesn't make sense.

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18 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - Almost 2 years ago, i contacted an old school friend. We chatted on line and hit it off straight away. We ended up swapping numbers and used to text and talk constantly during the day. We both have long term partners so this as often difficult but his relationship was not so ... (344 words

Help!!! Is he REALLY over his ex???

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18 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - My bf had trouble getting over his ex and it wasnt easy for me. He told me recently that he still loved her for the first year we were together not that i hadnt already guessed it was somethin like that! He seemed ok now though and a few months ago we got engaged. But at the ... (149 words

Should I dump my non christian boyfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

18 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hey, im 19 and turning 20 late this year. I'm a christian i love God so so so much, i have a bf and i love so as well the thing is every time im with him i feel gulty like im commiting a sin. I realy dont know what to do, we've know each other for 3 years but only started ... (85 words

Everything in my life seems to be going wrong, and it's all my fault.

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18 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I need advice. Everything in my life seems to be going wrong, and it's all my fault. Firstly, my student loan wasn't taken care of properly, and lots of mistakes were made(their fault, not mine) resulting in me not getting it... My mum has been having to pay my rent while I was ... (248 words

Is she going off me???

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18 March 2010 (M age 26-29 - I have more problems that's making me feel like my Gf wants to split up with me, one second when she's happy when im with her and her friends are around but when its just me and her she looks really depressed , also when i say i love her before i go home she used to say it back ... (120 words

Friendship issues..I need help with. Advice?

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18 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - (Mod note: 2 questions on this page from same OP) 1) my friend has been dealing with the face she has polycycstic ovaries for a few years now her main priority in life is to have children she thinks because i am younger than her (21) that time is running out for her and she ... (553 words

Are we dating? Going out? Seeing each other? Help?

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18 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - We are both exchange students in a strange country. He is slightly older than me and we have been meeting in our university campus between and after classes for like two. We constantly text each other in college to find out when we both are free so we can meet up. We went out ... (339 words

Concerns about my husband...any advice?

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18 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - (Mod note: Two questions from this OP) 1)Hi, The other day my husband was talking about life insurance and about our house. Then I started thinking the other day about my husband and my future together. He is much older than me and we have no kids, he has two grown kids ... (401 words

Is this guy playing both of us?

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18 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - I am currently living in europe and a few months ago a guy that is from my hometown added me on fb.. I had never met him though.. we went to the same high school for only a year before he moved somewhere else.. he lives in kuwait now.. anyways we started talking online and now ... (428 words

How long is too long...before I ejaculate?

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18 March 2010 (M age 36-40 - How long is to long to hold your ejaculation? Like i will masturbate for about an hour or so without ejaculating. I will just stop before it gets close and wait a few and then get back to it. is that okay to do. Or should i not wait that long to ejaculate? ... (53 words

How do I stop my brother becoming violent like our dad?

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18 March 2010 (F age 26-29 - My dad hit me and my brother when we were very young. When he was angry because we had been talking too loudly or because we disagreed with him. My brother (13) has punched me twice in the last week just because he was annoyed, this is exactly what our dad used to do to us. ... (134 words

I desire my cousin. How do I approach her on this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5115 days ago

18 March 2010 (M age 30-35 - I am a 21 year old and my cousin is 20 and we are very close. She is my best friend and we have grown up together. When we were little we would bathe together and always hang out and once we got old enough we started to play the doctor game where we would show each other ... (287 words

Has anyone ever taken their ex back? Did it work out?

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18 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - I honestly have never even thought about taking an ex back. But this one knows he made mistakes as did I. We want to try again. What was your experience like? I'm looking for positive encouragement. I analyze on the negative outcomes enough so I want to hear the brighter ... (58 words

Need advice on concerns about this new dating relationship!

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18 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - Hi i had known my boyfriend for 3 years now but we have only been together for 1 month. I think he genuinely likes me because of the way he talks to me so sweet and with so much love in his voice, but still not sure if he's on games. How would I know? I could see myself in ... (208 words

Glamour modeling advice?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

18 March 2010 (F age 26-29 - hello Does anyone on here no anything about glamour modeling - this is my dream and I want to make it does anyone no any quick ways to tone up - mainly my stomach and bum and thighs. Also does anyone no what size you have to be to be a glamour model like weight ? Als... (141 words

My work colleague is self-centered and tough to work with! Advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

18 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - Hi all, I need to have a moan about my colleague. She's only been with the company 7 months and in that time she has already applied for a senior role- which she didn't get, thankgod! She is really argumentative amd cause alot of problems. Our manager has had words with her and ... (192 words

I feel the need to constantly text him because I want him back! What should I do?

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18 March 2010 (F age 51-59 - Please help,i moved in with my boyfriend 6 months ago and he is the love of my life,Im 39 hes 42.We have both been married and are both divorced.I met him a year ago and for the first time in my life i knew id met the man i wanted to spend my life with.He asked me to move in ... (320 words

Contraception and what would suit me best?

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18 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi All, Ok, so being at Uni, life has moved pretty fast, and I've found myself falling for an amazing guy, we've been together for a few weeks. We've been sleeping together and I'm currently on the pill. We are both clear of STIs, so that's not a issue (we both got checked... (190 words

Things just aren't working out between us any more...

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18 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - hi, my name is Farnaaz and i am 19 turning 20 in Ocotber. i have been dating for 3 years and we got engaged on the 20 Februay 2010. throughout our relationship he has hurt me, lied to me and im convinced cheated even though that hasnt surfaced. i have changed dramatically into ... (217 words

How do I tell my ex about my new boyfriend without hurting his feelings?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

18 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I've got a great boyfriend thats there for me all the time and i can talk to him about any thing. I've even told him that i still stay in contact with my ex what he's fine with that as he knows nothing will happen. My ex on the other hand dont know that ive got a new boyfriend ... (90 words

My boyfriend has changed, what should I do?

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18 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I've recently got a new boyfriend, everything was going great before he went into his army training we saw each other quite a bit, hold hands hug and kiss loads it was really good. But he recently came out of his army training as he was medicaly discharged and things have ... (174 words

Girlfriend has had a lot of partners and one night stands

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18 March 2010 (M age 51-59 - Hi Ive been with my Girlfriend over a year now, things are good between us and i love her lots. But im struggling to deal with her past sexually. I know from chatting that at 41 shes had 'about' 27 partners, maybee half a dozen of them being one night stands. She said... (195 words

Why am I sexually attracted to people twice my age???

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18 March 2010 (F age 26-29 - ok so here it is i got a new music teacher in year nine who i fell head over heals for but he left at the end of year nine and then his replacement came in and im in love with this man who is "about" 27 and ive just not long turned 15 but i dream about him i think about him all ... (225 words

Should I go and meet her or is she just playing games?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

18 March 2010 (M age 30-35 - I met this girl online, maybe 2 weeks ago, she is 18 and she seems like the perfect girl for me but she lives in cali and i live in north carolina. We talk every day, she told me she loved me and she wants to be with me etc. I dont know if she really means that or if she is ... (95 words

(Specially for the MEN) Why should he act like that?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

18 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - So there's a guy who liked me.. Then after a year of not getting any prospective respond from me, he maintained to have a new relationship and now he's just got a girlfriend. What i really don't understand is.. Whenever he saw me he seems sooo nervous and maybe afraid (ju... (123 words

Do you still like your crush while you have already got a new partner??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

18 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - Guys, Do you do it too? You have a crush on someone but he/she keep ignoring you. Then you maintain a romantic relationship with someone. After publishing your relationship, you avoid your crush. You can't do eye contact one day, but you still want her/his attention th... (89 words

Why is he avoiding me after the kiss?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

18 March 2010 (F age 26-29 - The guy I like kissed me he is one grade higher than me and i kinda felt it coming. I like him a lot but the thing is that he has stopped all the usual. All that happened on a Friday the next week he stopped walking me home and instead of walking himself home he stayed at his ... (444 words

Stupid drunken one night stand decisions!

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18 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - Okay i had a one night stand last night with this guy i met in a bar. I was really drunk, he was really sweet and we made out for a while before heading back to my place. We had sex, twice, both times without a condom and before he pulled out each time he came a little in... (201 words

My soft erections???

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18 March 2010 (M age 30-35 - When me and my girl are kissing I get turned on really easily but for some reason the erection I get it soft and when she does stuff to it I ejaculate near enough as soon as she touches it. I don't know why my erection is soft and whether this has anything to do with why I ej... (91 words

Is it more of a health factor or is there a limit on being slim?

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18 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - Is it possible to be too skinny? Could it be a turn off? With being thin I am really flexible. Also, even if I feel fat I do not talk about it all the time and let my husband look at me. I just understand, because everyone always says, “You can never be too rich or too thin.” ... (74 words

My guy does not know how deep my friendship is with this other guy and I feel as if I'm cheating.

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18 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship with a guy for 5 years and we have not had many problems. However we had certain differences in our taste and outlook that did show badly sometimes but despite it all we made it work out and we are planning to get married next year. I've never ... (286 words

Problems with alcohol in school...

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18 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hello, my boyfriend used to have a problem with alcohol in high school. He would drink all the time. He says he was depressed in high school because his father passed away and he had to transfer to a new school. He doesn't drink nearly as much now, but when he does get drunk, ... (182 words

Is my partner bored with me?

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18 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hello my name is Reyna and I am just so tired of my boyfriend making me feel like I am just a toy to him cus he treats me like a toy. He makes me feel so bad and he only treats me right when i straighten my hair when my hair is curly. He doesn't even look at me but when i have ... (112 words

Why is my boyfriend masturbating to these?

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18 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - About a couple weeks ago I was on my boyfriend's computer and I found his porn folder.(He has all my pictures in a separate folder) I'm not against porn or anything, I was just curious to what he likes. When I was searching through the pictures and videos I found some of his ex ... (679 words

She has asked if she can have "meaningless sex" with my brother!!!

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18 March 2010 (M age 41-50 - Hello. I am 32 and have been involved with a 22 year old woman who's marriage has been pretty bad. We have grown close to each other and she tells me she wants to be in an open relationship with me. We have only been physical a few times and Im ok with the fact she wants to ... (154 words

Too much damage done?

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18 March 2010 (M age 30-35 - I am 21 year old male. Always been shy and have somewhat low self esteem. I have only been with (sexual intercourse, that is) two women, one being my current girlfriend. My girlfriend has been with at least ELEVEN. As if that isn't bad enough one more says they slept ... (324 words

I'm just afraid if I screw this up I'm going to lose her...

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18 March 2010 (M age 30-35 - I started talking to a girl i knew my senior year in high school and had a class and sat by her all year and we got really close. She was one of the few people i honestly missed from high school who i didn't get to see afterward. I always liked her as more then a friend but i ... (961 words

I feel like I have lost the most important part of my life, my future with her, which was once so certain...

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18 March 2010 (M age 30-35 - My now ex-girlfriend and I broke up after an amazing 3 year relationship, our first real relationship for both of us. She broke up with me because she wanted to experience the world and be single now, so that she didn't have doubts about settling down with me in the future. It ... (368 words

I am VERY WORRIED about this brother's behaviour with the child and want to be around to see what is happening.

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18 March 2010 (F age - I am worried about my boyfriend's two-year old boy. We are in a slightly unusual situation where my boyfriend partly lives with his brother on the farm where they grew up. It's a working life and there is a fine line between work life and home life. Five nights a week we go ... (1611 words

I value your opinions here... Does he want more?

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18 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - I have known my dear friend "Larry" for over 10 years and we have a great relationship. We are both single and using this time to grow closer to God. Lately, I'll send him a simple "good morning" or "how was your day" text message and he responds "get out of my head". He goes ... (196 words

After sex pain?

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18 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - i just wanted to ask... when does the sore pain of "after sex" go away? The thing is that I was forced by mu bf and this soreness/burn feeling just wont go away and i was wondering maybe if there's something wrong.. maybe b/c i was a virgin? i dont want to go into details of ... (69 words

Men, Please help me feel better about my boyfriend's past!

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18 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been dating a few months but have already fallen in love. We're both 21. Recently we made the mistake of discussing each other's pasts. I'm a virgin, but he has been with one girl 2 years ago. He questioned losing it to her, but she pressured him an... (183 words

How can I keep the conversation going with him so that eventually he can be mine!

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18 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - So I've always been pretty shy when it comes to guys.. I wish I could overcome this.. There's this boy I've known for about 4 years and I've had a crush on him for about a month now, maybe longer.. We text everyday whether its a lot or just a little and we hung out a few times ... (207 words

It seems he doesn't want to have sex with me and is so distant... what's going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

18 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I don't know what to do. Im 21 years old my bf is 39 I been with him for almost 3 years and we live 2gether im 3 months preg... and sometimes it feels like we don't have nothing 2 talk about and he is still married I asked him 2 end the marriage and he said that when he gets ... (192 words

I have a boyfriend and I need to tell him something but I'm scared.

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18 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - Hi I have a boyfriend and I need to tell him something but I'm scared. A couple years ago I had a fling with an older man. I almost had sex because his penis was almost inside of me but I pulled away and didnt go through with it. Should I consider this as having had sex? I ... (84 words

Advice please to get over my boss!

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18 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - okay, this is awful. i've posted my "issue" previously some many months ago. but i can't seem to get over it. i wrote previously that i had developed certain feelings for my boss, which had gone beyond just boss and subordinate. he's married, and with kids, and when i first... (385 words

How high are my chances of getting pregnant?

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18 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I am 18 years old i have had an eating disorder for about 2 years and my period is scarce, mostly not there at all.... i have been more so bulimic then anorexic in the last 6 months or so and i actually got my period for the first time in a long time, about a year? (or just a ... (169 words

I feel insecure about his promiscuous past...

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18 March 2010 (M age 36-40 - I’m gay and have been going out with my boyfriend for six months now. We met online and everything seems to be going well – we recently returned from a lovely holiday and have even talked about moving in together. I do genuinely care for him and I think he feels the same way. ... (288 words

Why doesn't he believe me when I say we CAN do this???

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18 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Okay so me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 2 years now. I go to college but my scholarships cover my tuition. my bf *harvey* works full time at a local glass company. I work part-time at a preschool. I've laid out a budget. We can buy a house and get married but my ... (100 words

My boyfriend has a promiscuous past and is still checking his online sex profile! How do I confront him?

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18 March 2010 (M age 36-40 - I’m gay and have been going out with my boyfriend for six months now. We met online and everything seems to be going well – we recently returned from a lovely holiday and have even talked about moving in together. I do genuinely care for him and I think he feels the same way. ... (288 words

Why No Wallow?

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18 March 2010 (F age 26-29 - my boyfriend just broke up with me through facebook yesterday morning at 1-2am, five days into spring break, and we havent seen each other since the thursday before. everyone else saw it coming, i even had my suspicions, but i planned a lot for the upcoming weeks. i've only ... (101 words

Will I ever have issues with food?

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18 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I have had three eating disorder in the last two years, and I wonder whether I will ever be able to be in a long relationship without the eating disorders interfering. Will it bother him that I have issues with food? ... (41 words

My boyfriend never reaches climax during oral sex, only intercourse. Any suggestions?

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18 March 2010 (F age 51-59 - My boyfriend never and I mean NEVER cums when I give him a BJ. I have went over 25 minutes and he never cums. I told him I want him to cum and he does not. Is this his own self control, or am i doing something wrong. His penis remains erect very erect during this time, but he ... (75 words

Is it possible he may like me?

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18 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Okay, so him and I are juniors in high school, and neither of us has ever been in a relationship (of any kind). We have known who the other person is since the beginning of high school, but we've never really spoken to each other. I find him repeatedly glancing at me, a... (271 words

Help! Should I leave the door open and keep talking to him but date like I have been doing in the meantime?

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18 March 2010 (F - First off--i have been dating and trying to meet someone and also keeping busy but it still doesn't change my feelings for my ex. my ex and i were together for over 3 years and broke up over a year ago but noone did anything so wrong.. no cheating or anything.. just ... (1007 words

I am in college again and I have noticed younger students can understand quicker, how can I catch up with them?

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18 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - I've been unemployed and or underemployed for a long time. I have diagnosed myself with a light clinical depression. I know I have it because I had been diagnosed before and because I have studied psychology enough to know. I'm trying to stay positive as I'm a Christian. I ... (238 words

She always rushes out the door at the end of class, why is this?

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18 March 2010 (M age 30-35 - Hey, I'm looking for advice. There's a girl in my class that sits next to me who I've been talking to since the start of the semester several weeks ago. She's really sweet, and very pretty. We always talk, and occasionally the professor will assign us group work and we'll work ... (105 words

Should I stay for the sake of my son and miss out on an opportunity to be married and happy?

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18 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - my boyfriend is 53 and I 21 have been together for 2 years and we have a son together, he is a very mean person, he never shows me any affection and and when i try to confont him about it he says wait and see which is funny because its been this long. there are a lot of other ... (154 words

Should I stay in a sour relationship with a much older man for the sake of my son?

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18 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - my boyfriend is 53 and I 21 have been together for 2 years and we have a son together he is a very mean person, he never shows me any affection and and when i try to confont him about it he says wait and see. which is funny because its been this long. their are a lot of other ... (154 words

My ex wants to talk, I don't. How do I gently tell him no?

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18 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - Hi, My exboyfriend contacted me last week (through email) and asked me to get together personally so we can talk. We broke up three years ago. Then I would've been very interested in talking to him, not now. There were things about the past I wish I could make clear to hi... (135 words

Love struck...

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18 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Well there's this guy chad i was talking to in January, we texed, messaged, and chatted all the time on myspace. We went to the movies with friends, and kissed every chance we had alone together. At his place in his room, and even at the venue, plus we kissed after school at my ... (475 words

Three months later and she still won't introduce me to her family.

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18 March 2010 (M age 41-50 - My girlfriend is 19 I'm 30! That has been going for 3 months. Her family knows me, 3 close friends of her know about her and me but she won't tell her family about her and me, she won't let me meet her other friends! She says she don't want to be judged and rejected. Am I right ... (79 words

I'm 14 and pregnant and want to keep the baby

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18 March 2010 (F age 26-29 - hi my name is desiree and i stress every day its so much drama that go on in my life i been through alot and im having a baby and i no im kinda young but i think i can handle it because i carry myself as a young ladie dont get into no more drama and i dont fight!!!! but it so ... (137 words

I guess this means he doesn't want me at all?

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18 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I think i know the answer to this but i;d just like your outlook. I have a mate(i hope)who ive always been in love with. Seriously im not joking its got to much now and its killing me each and every day :'( Its just stuff has happened in the past, people thought we like... (317 words

Would I be imposing if I went to the funeral?

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18 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - I've been with my BF for about 7 months. I've met his family and we're quite serious. I met his grandmother last week and I've just found out that she died yesterday. My BF told me about her funeral and then said 'you're welcome to come.' Was this an invite to go or wa... (110 words

Will he be satisfied with a handjob?

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18 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - He has been extra special to me, and I've enjoyed my fun, but now I want to give my boyfriend a handjob, what is the best way? to make it fun for us? we are virgins and are slowing working our way to be The One, for each other. Will he be satisfied with a handjob? is he going... (73 words

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