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writes:i been together with my boyfriend for about 6 months ...i love him with all my heart ...he was my first and the only guy i been with ...like 2 weeks ago i went to the doctor and got a check up...she called me yesterday and told me i tested positive for an std...i havent had any symptoms whatsoever...so i was obviously shocked...im also pregnant now...so this is just driving me krazy...im so worried and feeling so stressed out...idk what to think anymore...is it possible that my bf cheated or could he have it before we met?and will my baby be alright?
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (6 April 2010):
 Chlamydia can be easily treated and cured with antibiotics.
If what you said is true,it is possible that you got it from him.
There is a possibility that he was treated and cured of the STD without your knowledge.
reference;-
http://www.cdc.gov/std/Chlamydia/STDFact-Chlamydia.htm
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionso he went to the doctor ...he tested negative ...we assumed it was incorrect soo we went to another doctor he tested again and once again...he was negative !!!!
im soo konfused i have not cheated on him ...
we have always had unprotected sex 4 about half a yr now
and if i do have it shudnt he have it too ...
now we are having problems he obviosly thinks i was unfaithful ...nd i wasnt ...
i dont want these to end our relationship ...
could my results have been mistakenly positive ...or what may had happend here ??????????????????????
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthe std is chlamydia ...soo it is possible he had it b4 we did it ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2010): It can hurt the baby pending on what kind of std it is. I would go your doctor as well as doing your own rescearch. I think you should ask your boyfriend about this STD. If its something like Chlamydia, then its possible that he didn't even know he had it. Even if he has something like Herpes some people never know they have it because they never have an out break. They are know as "carriers" and they are able to carry the desease and pass it but they themselves never have the symptoms. So I insist you ask your doctor and read up on it.
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (28 March 2010):
I would suggest that you read more online and be more informed about STD's and how it affects the unborn child.
You could Google it online and one of the links I found is pasted below . You could also ask your doctor on your next visit .
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http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/297551/how_stds_can_affect_your_pregnancy.html?cat=52
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (28 March 2010):
 For goodness sake, don't ask us, ask your doctor!
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reader, Illithid +, writes (27 March 2010):
 It depends on which STD you have. If you're already talking to your doctor about this, please ask about the risk to your baby, the best steps to reduce that risk, proper care for your own health, and how you can prevent spreading the STD in the future if you ever leave your boyfriend (even if you don't, it's good to know).
As for where he got it from: It could be from before he was with you, or from cheating on you, or from needles or contact with blood if he either does drugs or works at a hospital or otherwise comes in contact with bodily fluids. The only way to know is to ask him.
There's nothing I can tell you for sure based on what you told me. Ask your doctor and your boyfriend.
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