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Is he not texting me first anymore because he wants to see if I'm interested enough to start the conversation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5145 days ago

16 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - A few weeks ago, I went away to visit a friend and I met a guy. He lives about an hour and a half away from me, but we hit it off really well. We ended up just walking around and talking for the whole time I was there, and it was awesome. There were no awkward pauses and we had ... (514 words

I love her and want to forgive her for cheating

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16 March 2010 (M age 30-35 - Well my ? to everyone is.. i have a girlfriend that ive been with for about 10 months.. and she had cheated on me in the begining of are relationship and soon stoped when she relised we had something seriose.. but she has told me she is sorry and doesnt want me to leave her.. ... (132 words

Love my boyfriend by have feelings for my friend

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16 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - i have a boyfriend and we have been in this relatonship for almost a year now. but i cheated in him once and i never told him anything about it. i think that he suspect it but im not sure. but now i have a friend who i have gotten really close to. its more than a friendship. ... (134 words

Is he just playing mind games?

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16 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Ok here goes… I have been dating the owner of the company that I work for, but it has all become so complicated!!! It started just over a year ago when we were both in different relationships. He would be texting constantly, showering me with gifts, offeri... (265 words

Been single for a year -- what do guys look for?

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16 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I've been single for a year, I haven't even had the tiniset bit of attention from the opposite sex. It's really getting me down to the point that I cry and m moody all the time, all my friends have boyfriends i'm the only one without now. Help, What do guys look for in girls?... (55 words

She's perfect, but is going with a friend

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16 March 2010 (M age 51-59 - I'm about to win the award for most rediculous post ever. So the most perfect girl of my dreams walked through my front door. Problem is she had a boyfriend who is friends with my friend. He's a really nice guy. Yet, I could not have ordered a more dreamy dream girl than ... (213 words

My dad's abusive and out of control

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16 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I'm going to try and keep this as short as possible. I'm 17 now and have grown up with a a terrible relationship with my dad. He has never been a 'dad' to me and as I've got older, we have drifted more and more apart. He hasn't worked for 12 years, he sits around the house... (646 words

Should I leave the door open and keep talking and keep in touch while I continue to date and hang out with my friends?

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16 March 2010 (F - First off--i have been dating and trying to meet someone and also keeping busy but it still doesn't change my feelings for my ex. my ex and i were together for over 3 years and broke up over a year ago but noone did anything so wrong..no cheating or anything..just a... (1150 words

B/f is secure but I don't love him; other guy now wants me

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16 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - I have a boyfriend of 5 yrs whom I live with, I also have a friend that I met around the same time. I chose my boyfriend because of the stability he provides me with, but honestly I don't love him. If he did not take care of me I would not be with him. I have slept with the ... (103 words

My ex texted wanting another chance

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16 March 2010 (? age 30-35 - Well to make a long story short I have been on and off with a guy for about 2 years and he is in college he has done me wrong before and made plenty of mistakes so I ended it and was plannin on endin it for good... Well I started liking someone new and then my ex textes Me ... (155 words

Can't climax in missionary

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16 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - hi i am 24.my problem is whenever i do sex in normal position i am not satisfied.my boyfriend is able to arouse me but while fucking i lose intrest and don't know wht to do. but when i am on top i know how to reach orgasm so i satisfy myself. i love him but i prefer... (98 words

Should I keep the dog I'm allergic to or risk losing my boyfriend?

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16 March 2010 (F age - I am in a moral dilema but it is affecting my health and I don't know the best way to handle this. I have been in a relationship for some time now and three years ago I acquired a dog through some emotional blackmail from my daughters and my boyfriend. I have an extremel... (351 words

After how many dates is it ok to have sex?

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16 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - So I met this guy (We'll call him Mike) in September. It took us a while to finally get together, but in January we went on our first date. In February, Mike and I went on two dates (the second of which, we kissed for the first time and ultimately made out for a while on his ... (209 words

Will allowing my wife to sleep with other men get her through her mid life crisis?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

16 March 2010 (M age 51-59 - My wife has came to me with the idea that she wants to sleep with other men. She is madly in love with me and our sex life is incredible. She has been chatting online with other men and has lined up her first "dude" for this Friday night. She is always open with me and shares ... (285 words

Men: What would you prefer for a first anniversary gift?

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16 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Males; which would you prefer for a one year anniversary present? A celtic love knot bracelet like this one: http://www.patagoniagifts.com/product.php?productid=17796 An ID bracelet with an infinity sign on the outside and a small meaningful message on the inside... (70 words

Will the soreness after dry humping pass?

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16 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - Me and my new boyfriend were getting a bit heated a couple of days ago, and we ended up dry humping with him on top, the thing is he is quite strong and muscular and he was quite forceful and rough (one of the reasons we haven't had sex yet) but I am really sore - from my ... (63 words

Should I get an abortion of let my boyfriend think the baby is his?

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16 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - I am in a relationship and I have been messing with a old flame. He is also in a relationship and has a new baby. I found out I am pregnant by him (my old flame). I have had sex with my "boyfriend" so he will think he is the father when I prepare to tell him im pregnant... (83 words

He knew I liked her, why did he take her?

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16 March 2010 (M age 30-35 - Well, today I found out that a so called "loyal friend" went behind my back and asked a girl out I liked. He knew fine well I liked her and it wasn't her who asked him out. He also lied that his ex finished him. What can I do about it? Would telling her he's a liar work?... (58 words

3 years have gone past since our break up and I still can't move on...

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16 March 2010 (M age 41-50 - my girlfriend and i split up about 3 and half years ago. we were engaged and living together. i havent moved on yet but she has had a few casual boyfriends and one serious one she lives with and is expecting his baby, i think they been together 2 years. i still love her and ... (86 words

I'm sick and tired of being bullied and being a little person in the dark who gets pushed around by life.

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16 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - I really, really need help. I'm so scared that there is something profoundly and irreversibly wrong with me. I'm very fearful for my future because of some experiences that I've had in the past few days. I'm afraid that I'm destined to be a failure in life. I'm so afraid t... (1306 words

Is it worth apologizing and clarifying things, or is he clearly not interested and should I just move on?

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16 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I hooked up with a friend recently and I want to keep doing something no-strings-attached, but he's sending mixed signals. He's always seemed interested, but for most of the time we knew each other I had feelings for other men and basically ignored his advances. He's known for ... (275 words

His behavior is making me unsure of myself.

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16 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - So there's this guy that I've known for about a year. We dated for a short time last year, but he ended the thing, because he claimed he had feelings for other girls. We had a good time when we dated, cuddled etc. Nothing sexual, though I felt his boner at times (but he didn't ... (586 words

Could someone from the past make him change his mind about me?

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16 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hey there im almost 15 and my boyfriend already is. Everything is great i love him very much and i think he does me to and everything is just wonderful. The only thing that bugs me is that his ex sent him a flair on facebook. It said i miss you and there was a rose on it. To me ... (154 words

I feel as if no guy likes me or wants to be with me...

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16 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Part A. I Dated this guy for a year and a half, and he was everything I had ever dreamed of in a boy my whole life. I lost my virginity to him and truly loved him. Although since I am young no good things ever last and eventually the relationship went sour and I became preoccup... (469 words

How can I help them both if they keep shutting me out?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

16 March 2010 (F age 51-59 - My 18 year old daughter has been dating her boyfriend Ryan for 3 years. He is a family friend and we have known him since he was just a child. Last year he got mixed in with the wrong crowd and got involved with drugs. He started skipping school and did a lot of very stupid ... (390 words

I don't have feelings for this guy but he's totally obsessed with me! Help!

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16 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Ok so there's this guy i met about a year ago over myspace and my friend cesar knew him too, the guy who i met online lived out of town but he was like completely obsessed with me so him and my friend made plans for him to come down to try to hook us up. But the thing is I ... (205 words

Help! How long is too long to wait for my ex who is currently living with a woman he is unhappy with???

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16 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - How long is too long to wait for my ex who is currently living with a woman he is unhappy with and clearly in love with me?????????? So my ex and I remain very close friends after dating for over a year and agreeing that we had a great relationship but, not at the right ti... (999 words

Is he prolonging picking his stuff up? Does he want me back?

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16 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 months. It has been rough. But he always said he loved me. And I truly love him. We broke up, and he was not calling me. I found out I was pregnant. I told him, and we eventually got back together. I later, got in a fight with him ... (193 words

How long do anti sickness pills stay in the system?

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16 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - Hi, not sure if anyone can help. I have some buccastem anti sickness pills, 3mg. I need to find out how long they stay in the system for. I briefly remember Reading the leaflet saying it was 12 hours but can't remember and have lost it. I went online but can't find the ... (64 words

How can I stop this abuse on my friend when I live so far away???

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16 March 2010 (? age 41-50 - I don't know what to do.. I'm in love with a girl long distance (700 miles apart) and she is in so much trouble.. She is being abused by this guy.. She keeps making excuses for him. I ask her plain as day, has he hit you and she says yes, but he is not a woman beate... (249 words

Is he giving off obvious signals that he likes me that I just can't see or do you think that he actually likes my friend still?

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16 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi I have already posted this question but I am doing it again, because I think that you should know some other points. :) So one of my best friends went out with this guy I like but then they broke up after 4 days. They are still really close friends though, for example I ... (203 words

How do I become more sexual towards my boyfriend who I'm still attracted to?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5148 days ago

16 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for about 16 months and we don't have sex very often anymore. We waited to have sex at first and when we did finally do it, it hurt me physically but i still enjoyed it because i was so in love with him. after about a month of sex it got really good ... (271 words

He doesn't like my friends...

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16 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - hi I'm 18 years old and have been with my Boyfriend for almost a year now, We get on well, have a laugh together, the thing that ruins it all is that he dont like a lot of my mates, the reason he doesnt like them is because some said i was too good for him and he found out, and... (454 words

Why is he so cold towards me or am I just paranoid???

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16 March 2010 (M age 30-35 - I have a problem with my bf. Actually, he is not my bf, just, we've been dating, flirting with him for 2 months and we both are accustomed to each other. He lives far far away from me and it's like a "long distance realtionship". We send "good morning" text messages to each ... (180 words

Could I have diabetes???

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16 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - This has got nothing to do with sex or relationships or anything I just want some opinions on my problem. For the past 3 months or so I have been suffering with chest pains and my skin is so dry and really itchy. I've gained quite a bit of weight and I am getting hungry a... (133 words

Why can't he just tell me things and be open with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5148 days ago

16 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - I love my boyfriend very much, he has done a lot for me and been there for me when no one else has. We have been together for almost a year. He lives about 45 min away at school and has a lot on his plate. When he's gone it hurts because i only get to speak to him for 5-15 ... (999 words

What do I have to pack in my hospital bag for myself and baby?

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16 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I've seen loads of lists on what to pack in a hospital bag but it seems like loads of stuff. What are the main things I need to pack for during and after labour?... (34 words

All of a sudden he tells me he needs to break up because he can't be in a relationship right now...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

16 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - Hi everybody, i have just broken up with my bf of a year. And i am very upset, we were so good together and we were very much in love. You could say it was a whirlwind of a year - we became serious vey quckly and both of us fell deeply in love. I am a realistic logial person so ... (316 words

Please comment about what I have done, is it really bad? Do I not deserve her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5148 days ago

16 March 2010 (M age 36-40 - Me and my girlfred are very close, we are like best friends and I love her, i would do antyhing for her and do not want to see her get hurt. I have made three mistakes with my girlfreind. The first time before we got together I told my girlfreind I wasnt a virgin but I was, ... (271 words

Suddenly secretive...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

16 March 2010 (F age 51-59 - My girlfriend is suddenly claiming that I don't give her enough space and seems secretive about her email should I be worried? I on the other hand have always been an open book, i don't care who is behind me as I write email or anything else. She has changed a lot since her ... (120 words

I want to make my dream come true please help me, its been years

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16 March 2010 (F age 26-29 - Please i need help. i have a competition soon at school and i can find what to do. I'm in a competition called " Sabis Stars " and my project in oil painting is about bullying but i cannot find any source for that and i really need it because it is my dream to win a cup and me... (156 words

Love separated for way too long

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5144 days ago

16 March 2010 (F age 51-59 - Ok. I am a 42 year old female who is married to a wonderful man and we have 3 beautiful kids and a granddaughter. I have been married for 20 years now. When I was back in high school, I dated a guy of a different race, he is black, I am white. My parents found out and ... (236 words

He says there is something missing...

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16 March 2010 (F age - 3 months ago this guy asked me out at a party, hes 55, sweet and kind, we went for coffee twice then to the cinema on 3 consequtive saturdays, I told him from the beginning I wanted to take it slowly and I was so determined to stick to this and not jump in to bed with him, that ... (200 words

He refuses to admit he is still talking to this other woman, should I just leave?

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16 March 2010 (F age 51-59 - Boyfriend texts a another woman and wont stop. I have been seeing him for 2 years. Quite early on in the relationship my phone broke and I put my chip in his phone (in his presence) just to check my messages. I saw many explicit text between him and another woman. I asked ... (194 words

Our sex life is a real problem for me, he likes it when I give him oral sex but he wont return the favour!

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16 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - Good day, Me and my husband has been know each other since grade 6 where we were dating. We have been in a serious relationship for 13year now and is married for 3 year now we have a 1year old boy. My question is that for plus minus 7year now i struggle with our bed ro... (188 words

I really need some help with my insecurities and depression, what steps can I take?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

16 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - I'm 26 and am in a relationship with a lovely guy, aged 27, and have been for almost 18 months. I suffer with severe depression and anxiety. I'm on anti depressants, (Sertraline), and I'm receiving counselling. I've been quite open over my feelings with my boyfriend, and he's ... (352 words

Is this some sort of pre-natal depression?

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16 March 2010 (F - I really need some help with my problem as I feel like Im cracking up! Basically, Im 26 and 7 months pregnant. Before I fell pregnant, I had always been kind of shy but I had lots of friends and was always going out and doing things. But now, I would say for about the past 4-5 ... (348 words

Will he be missing me as much as I am missing him?

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16 March 2010 (F age 51-59 - hello,i need to explain what happened before you can help me!..i work on a militry base behind a bar and i love my job,last sept my dream guy walked into the bar and started to chat..to shorten this tale a little..he was posted in for 8 weeks and for 8 weeks every night apart ... (240 words

Is my new guy a sex addict?

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16 March 2010 (F age - How horny is too horny? I am getting to know a guy through calls and emails for almost three months. We are going to meet. He seems to be sexually charged which can be attractive. However, he seems to be thinking of sex 90 percent of the time. The last man I was with had ED ... (75 words

Years later and things have changed, I've changed...but she doesn't trust me because of what happened before...

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16 March 2010 (M age 41-50 - Hi, I have a major issue…… Firstly a little background info. I’m 31 years old and live in Australia. From the ages of 19 to 24 I lived in Europe and other parts of the world. During my two years living in the mediterranean, I was 21 at the time, I met a girl from Canada, we had ... (1367 words

If she didn't want to talk to me, why did she give me her number?

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16 March 2010 (M age 30-35 - ...so this girl at my school i like somewhat gives me her number..so i wait about 3 to 4 days..and i send her a text saying is she there....she reply who is this..i say it was me...after about 9 min i get no reply so i send her another asking did she remember she gave me her ... (100 words

My ex called me up after many months, and now I don't know what to do

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16 March 2010 (M age 30-35 - Well...my ex called me up after i sent her a text saying i just wanted to say hi...but before she never really answered my calls then she just stopped..but now she called out of many months...and i am still deeply in love with her..but i don't want to mess it up and get her to ... (112 words

I can only reach orgasm with my boyfriend during intercourse. Is this normal?

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16 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - is this normal, i can only reach orgasm during intercourse, but no matter how hard i try i can never reach orgasm when my boyfriend gives me oral and with his hands, but if im alone and i masturbate myself i can reach it easily. why is this?... (48 words

When a man winks at you, does it mean anything?

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16 March 2010 (F - When a man winks at you does it actually mean anything. There is a guy I know of who I gave positive feedback to. He has looked at me a few times and he always asks me how I am. Twice he has touched my arm the second one he physically had to come round from where he was sto... (135 words

Are my husband's lies a cause for alarm?

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16 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - Why does my husband lie to me so much? Sometimes it is about important things, in which case he usually tells the truth after words. Sometimes, though, I lies about other general less important things. IE: Once he made the comment that, “Oh, well everyone likes girls in ... (166 words

Pregnancy test came back negative, but do these symptoms suggest I am actually pregnant?

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16 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - Hi im 22yrs married housewife, im confused please help me, i missed period and it was to be on 1st march last it was on 1st feb and sometimes im having pain near my utreus, and i feel like sometime unconciousness and stomach become hard and on 8th march i had done hcg test but... (67 words

How can I get rid of the sting from my burn?

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16 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - i burnt my hand on hot oil about half an hour ago i have been running it under cold water ever since i have now stopped this the swelling has gone down a lot but it is still stinging will it swell up again what can i do to get rid of the sting?... (54 words

Am I being cruel by refusing to have anything to do with my brother until he sorts himself out?

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16 March 2010 (M age 30-35 - Me and my brother have gone through a lot. Over the course of 4-5 years i've had to defend my mother from him hitting her, myself from him stabbing me etc. He was on drugs (Meth/Ecstasy etc.) for over 3 years and it basically sucked all my parents money and emotional stability ... (183 words

I am unable to acheive an orgasm through intercouse, any suggestions?

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16 March 2010 (F - I'm 23 years old and i lost my viginity when i was 19. Since then i havent been able to have an orgasm through intercourse. i can organsm through oral sex and masturbation but it seems no matter what i do i just can achieve an orgasm through sex. i have tried loads of things l... (132 words

I want a male opinion; what would you do if you were in his position?

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16 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Me and my partner have been together for 1 year. We started off as best friends before we became official, so we are like soul mates as they all say. we were very much in love, we had a unique bond and very different to other couples. when we fell in love, we both changed ... (552 words

He said he was falling in love with me but now he is back with his ex!

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16 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi everybody I really need your opinion on this situation. I met a guy in November and things moved pretty quickly. He came round to mine nearly every night and we both (well at least i thought) had quite strong feelings. He said that he was really close to falling in love ... (271 words

I have developed feelings for my 14 year old student, how do I forget about this and get over him?

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16 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - I am a teacher. First of all, I would like to state that I am 27 and have *never* had a crush on anyone younger than me! I also know that what I'm about to write makes me a pedophile, so I am asking you not to call me names; I deserve them all. Thank you from the bottom o... (493 words

My best friend is in love with me, but I fancy his mate.

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16 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - My best friend has just told me that he's been in love with me for the past 4 years. I don't feel the same way, which I've told him and he seems to have taken it okay. Problem is though, I like one of his friends (and have done for over the past year) but I don't know how to ... (68 words

I'm worried that if we have a threesome it might ruin what we have

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16 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hello, recently my boyfriend of 2 years told me that he was thinking about a threesome, but only for special occasions like my birthdays. He says he loves the thought of me being pleasured.He wants another man instead of a woman. He wants someone he can trust that isn't around ... (209 words

He broke up with me because of my past but we still have feelings for each other, should I be hopeful that we will get back together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5128 days ago

16 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - I recently broke up with my bf of 1 and a half years. It was a painful breakup because we both love each other a lot. My bf suddenly asked me to leave him because he said he realised he will never be happy with me. I had couple of bfs before and he said he couldn't accept the ... (131 words

How do I get my boyfriend to last longer during sex?

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16 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - so my boyfriend and i have been together for a year and we have sex once or twice a day since we moved in together 9 monthes ago. he doesn't last longer than 10 minutes we have tried almost everything we even took a few days off and it lasted like a minute when we had sex again ... (131 words

How can I make her 'want' to have sex with me, instead of only doing it because I want it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5148 days ago

16 March 2010 (M age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship for 1 year, and things have been going really well. The only thing that we fight about is sex. She is not a sexual person, she told me this. We started off dating having sex frequently, but then stopped for 5 months, and now recently we started ... (117 words

Is my boyfriend lying?

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16 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Is my boyfriend lying? i told my bf from day 1 if you look at porn its ok, just tell me? ad he said the whole time NO he kept this up for 2 years, then he was on his iphone, history came up of a pornstar and he said "no way it wasnt me, it was a guy from school" so i ... (236 words

Is my husband cheating or am I overreacting?

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16 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - My husband and i been married for a little over 2 months... this past weekend i stayed home and he went to south carolina for some game thing.... we started fighting saturday bout little things... well we made up sunday when he got home... i decided to snoop of coarse when you ... (395 words

I don't know if he likes me! Help please?

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16 March 2010 (F age 26-29 - I really really like this boy, and I think he likes me too. I don't know if he does, so thats why I am getting advice. Like we do talk, we go to the same church. But he never comes to me and says hi. I mainly think he doesn't cause he is always with his friends. But he did ask ... (130 words

He broke up with me and says he just wants to be friends, but is sending mixed signals.

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16 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - I was dating a man for 3 months, we both are separated with children and things progressed fast. Both said "I love yous" and began talking about future plans, etc. Both know we were perfect for one another. The separation with his wife was becoming nasty, with her ... (380 words

True love or just an infatuation?

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16 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Is it possible to fall in love with a person you've never met? I've met this man online a year ago, we corresponded through email for 3 months, with 2 - 3 emails a day. Then we starting calling each other once a day or each other day and it always lasted at least 3 hrs ... (120 words

Should I feel guilty for cheating on my husband?

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16 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - I have been with my husband for 4 years but it seems like more. His job keeps him away from home for days at a time. I understand that He needs to provide for our children and don't get me wrong i dont want him to be all over me but i do need quality time with him. He loves ... (173 words

How do I control my emotions?

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16 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Ok im very very depressed and stressed. all i do is cry all the time and lash out on my man. how do i control my emotions? im going through a rough time and i really only have one person in my life and thats who i seem to be lashing out on all the time. please help me how do i ... (68 words

How can his feelings for me just disappear so quickly? Did I mean nothing to him?

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16 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - [PLEASE HELP ME,I'VE GOT ISSUES] Does he still love me, and is just trying to get me jealous? Or did his feelings for me cease? At the beginning, I didn't know him, and had no feelings for him whatsoever. But then realized I fell for him instantly. Since I was positiv... (975 words

Do you think he may like me more than a best buddy?

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16 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - hey there! okay, so I started going to this college, and that was last october. The first day I met this guy, lets call him Joey. Joey and I became fast friends, and I got a little crush on him. well time went by and we got closer and closer...as friends. We have considered ... (539 words

How long after you conceieve does it normally take for your period to stop?

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16 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - If I had sex a week before my period started and hypothetically got pregnant, would I still have my period the nest week? I'm not sure that I'm actually pregnant I just wondered how long it normally takes after you have sex for your period to stop if you do get pregnant... (53 words

Why does sex hurt in some positions but not others?

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16 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - Hello me and my boyfriend and I away for school so im not really sexual till he comes in town. So my question is when he was here and we had sex he had me on the sofa with me leaning back and my butt a little off the sofa and when he went in it didnt hurt, but when i layed on ... (77 words

My paranoia is getting to be too much

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16 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi there, So here's my situation, I'm somewhat of a worrier, I don't exactly know why or where this has come from. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for over a year now and things are wonderful, he treats me amazing, he tells me daily how much I mean to him. My family t... (242 words

Why does it hurt so much to be in a relationship with a man I truly love?

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16 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - What is wrong with me? I'm scared of this person that I have become and I want to say that I'm suffering from depression. However, I'm not sure if it's that or just me...being so "in love" with my boyfriend. Does it seem like an obession? Over-clingyness? I need some honest ... (649 words

Past or present?

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16 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - My first love and i decided to break up when he went off to college (seeing as i am a senior in highschool). We stayed single throughout this year apart. And we had made a plan to get back together when i go up to the same state school as he is at when i graduate highschool. t... (250 words

I realize it's early but shouldn't he be texting me more often? I'm not sure if he is serious about me

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16 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - So, I'm a little confused about a guy I have been dating. We've only been on 3 dates and I know it's still VERY early in the dating stages but I can't help but wonder what his intentions are. For instance--he is a great guy, VERY gentlemanly and takes a genuine interest in what ... (379 words

When I slept with him I had no idea he had a pregnant girlfriend! Why is this my fault?

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16 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Ok so about two months ago i had sex with this guy who already had a girlfriend and she's pregnant. I was the one who asked him to have sex with me but i had no idea he had a girlfriend especially a pregnant one. but anyways when we did it we got walked in on and i guess ... (123 words

The guy I like is ignoring me and I don't know what I have done!

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16 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I don't know what I done for him to keep ignoring me. I don't see him at school a lot but he send me a message on facebook saying "your so beautiful" and I replyed saying thank you. Then we started flirting...Then I check on his facebook and he says "I'm so in love with ... (175 words

I want to be more than friends with him, but my parents would not approve because of his age

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16 March 2010 (F age 26-29 - im in sixth grade and im in a good relationship....but there is another guy in 9th who i feel is more mature and better to talk to my parents dont approve and it would have to be secret. he had feelings towards me but when i said no he lost interest now were best friends but i ... (64 words

I'm a mess (gay, straight, virgin, everything)

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16 March 2010 (M age 41-50 - I am a total mess and at this point I'm question all my feelings, goals and sexuality. I am 30, very handsome, a virgin. I am physically attracted to very good looking guys and for the last few years I had excepted that I'm gay. The problem is, I can talk to hundreds of guys ... (763 words

Dealing with my boyfriend's Hepatitis C.....

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16 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - My b/f of 5 years was recently diagnosed with Hepatitis C and will begin treatment shortly for the virus. Then today when we obtained copies of his medical file I realized he was diagnosed in May 2005 which was 2 months before we had sex for the first time and became involved. ... (208 words

I know he is interested in me but why is he still on the dating site?

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16 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - I met a guy through a dating website and we have been talking for almost two months. We have seen each other several times and have kissed. He calls me at least twice a day and text. When we are together we plan our next meeting. The problem: I am no longer on the dating ... (98 words

Should I keep doing what I'm doing or make myself less available?

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16 March 2010 (M age 41-50 - My question is simple. Although my "getting back with ex is a little better along then most I have read, I am still not out the woods yet. My ex broke up with me 1 month ago, I did all the wrong things in the first week but then manned up and did not talk to her. She still ... (294 words

We have an open relationship, yet I think he is hiding an attraction to another person.

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16 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I have an open relationship with a guy. We both have an understanding that we can date other people and that we have no need to lie to one another because...well its an open relationship. I wouldn't even call it a relationship because we are not really in one. We are just ... (156 words

What should I do about my mother in-law? I cant keep living like this!

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16 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - I don't know from where I start ,I am tired of the situation I am living in.and I do not know what I should do ,I need help,I want to make a mature and a right decision. Before I get married,I was in different country ,and my husband was living with his mother(he moved to her h... (652 words

I feel humilated coz my ex is telling everyone we had sex in a park!

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16 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I was dating a guy, and I broke up with him on account of the fact that he cheated on me with one of my friends. When I broke up with him , I stopped talking to him for a while but we became friends again after some time. So later we met up at a park, and got talking,... (712 words

I don't want to be kicked out of church, but I don't want to have to tell the leader about my sexual activity either!

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16 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Okay - first off - not a virgin and was not an active church go-er. However since being sexual active and regreting it ... i feel i need church in my life and if that be the case, i have to confess to my church leader (namely cos evidence of that sexual activity is gonna show ... (268 words

Does my boss like me?

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16 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - I'm 22 and work in retail. recently, i started a new job and i really fancy my boss. we get on very well and it felt like we clicked as soon as we met. he always used to compliment my work and attitude towards customers, more than other staff and i used to catch him lookin... (312 words

He has a girlfriend but his behaviour confuses me!

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16 March 2010 (F age 26-29 - So, I have this guy friend. We're really, really close. I mean, we tell each other everything. And I really like him. He confuses me though. Like, he's wanting to hug me or touch me constantly. But, he also has a girlfriend. He wants me to meet her really badly, and often wants ... (165 words

So happy one minute - arguing the next!

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16 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - Right..I have been 'seeing' (a term which I hate) a guy for over a year now and when were happy, we are so happy, but when its bad...its so bad! He cant 'commit' properly, whcih I understand as in the past, I have had a few problems which have effected us and I'm dealing with ... (94 words

I want to let go of the man I am having an affair with, but I am obsessed with him.

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16 March 2010 (F age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, Iam a married women for 3 years and we have a good relationship, i love my husband and care for him, but i meet i man 1 year ago and fell inlove with him. we been keeping our relationship very secret and he also had a gf for so many years, but we cannot be togeth... (173 words

My ex is now going out with my best friend.

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16 March 2010 (F age 26-29 - I went out with a guy for a month or so and because of silly reasons we broke up, he is now going out with my bestfriend and i have recently realised i still love him and have very strong feelings for him. i cry myself to sleep everynight and i dont know what to do ??? any help ... (60 words

Is there any special meaning when a guy posts love song lyrics as a status online?

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16 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hello, I was wondering, is there any special meaning when a guy posts love song lyrics as a status on Facebook/MSN?... (21 words

I was starting to think it was going somewhere again, but now I have not heard from him!

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16 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - I'm 29. I was with this guy "Justin" for almost 5 years. I am still in love with him. We remained friends. Mainly via internet and phone..After 2 years of being broken up. I only seen him twice. Once helping me move, another time hanging out with our kids (no kids together). ... (368 words

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