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Separated married man want me to move in with him.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

8 March 2010 (F age 51-59 - Alright, I need a little help here. I've been dating this amazing guy for six months. We have discussed moving in together after my lease is up. I have another few months before I have to give notice as to not renewing and another couple after that before its actually time ... (350 words

Falling for middle aged men.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

8 March 2010 (M age 26-29 - (by the way I am a teenage boy)Ever since I was little I've been in love with guys (the same gender). It wasn't normal though. It was always guys in their middle ages (30-50) and a few select of them. I liked guys with beards, rugged features, pretty much I could only tell if I ... (347 words

His borrowing, and gambling are getting to me and yet he has given me money at times...so I feel guilty that I'm upset...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

8 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - I have been dating my current BF for about 18 months (we do not live together). A little over a week ago he borrowed money from me, telling me he would pay me back today. He brought it up twice over the weekend, saying he will have the money today. Guess what...today he tells ... (619 words

Intimidated by his ex girlfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

8 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I'll try to keep this short. Basically I started dating this new guy b/c of a blind date thru his dad. It's been going great so far, and he lives an hour away so I know nothing about his history except what he and his friends/family has told me. Anyways, he has had 2 gf's b... (316 words

His mom is always butting into our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

8 March 2010 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a while and his mom seems to always be butting into our relationship. In our first few months of dating, she already tried to break us up because she was jealous that there was a second woman in his life. (she didn't succeed.) I held a ... (157 words

Sex drive help needed

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

8 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - ok people, what im saying is i never go more than 3 days. MY QUESTION IS can you slow down a sex drive?I have a problem i need it every day. Is that normal? PS only with my fiance... (39 words

Is this lack of a father figure or something else???

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

8 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I'm 17 - 18 in a couple of months. It's taken me a lot of courage to start writing this, because I am very, very embarrassed about what I'm going to say and I feel like such an awful, twisted person. I have always had confidence issues, paranoia issues, feelings of ... (1577 words

Been with him for 10 years and want to get married...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

8 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - I need Help, I have been with My Boyfriend Almost Ten years, and I have hinted to Him For awhile that I want to Get married. He has a son that I just adore and He is know asking his dad why we are not married. I feel that it is Time for us to Get married and to show his son ... (226 words

I'm desperate to experience an orgasm...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

8 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - I am with my boyfriend 2 years and I am not able to let him make me cum. I get to a certain stage and then I push his hand away, I have tried at home myself but I'm just not able. I have never experienced the feeling of it before and really do want to. please help.... (58 words

I don't want to only talk to him at school...???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

8 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I don't get why he acts like he does! He talks to me while I try to ignore him or read! He never comments on anything I put on his facebook but if someone else does he comments! He knows that I like him and he never admits that he might like me! what should I do? He ignores me ... (107 words

He broke his promise to me...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

8 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Okay, some of this is going to sound bad. If you're going to judge the situation, please just dont. We ask for help, not judgement and criticism. I've been with my bf for about 6 months. He smokes weed, and used to do bars (xanex) I noticed that he is more agressive and me... (185 words

How do I stop thinking about my best friend's boyfriend???

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5129 days ago

8 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - i recently had sex with my best friend's boyfriend, they have been together for 10 years and have 3 children, we bumped into each other on a night out and a few friends came back to my house, everyone went around 5am and her boyfriend stayed to finish his drink, we have always ... (291 words

Do girls actually think this way about the penis size?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

8 March 2010 (M age 30-35 - I was talking with a girl (not a girlfriend) about relationships and stuff and when we were talking about the sexual aspect and stuff about how sex is an important part one, she brought up something about penis size. Well I, being the honest(lol) person that I am, told her w... (230 words

Eating disorder relationship...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

8 March 2010 (M age 51-59 - Hi guys, just wondering if any of you out there are in loving relationships with a partner who has an eating disorder and what are your experiences and sacrifices over a “normal” relationship? I am in a 6 month old relationship with a woman with anorexia nervosa, she has... (473 words

Would he be classed as a sort of pervert because he's too old for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5128 days ago

8 March 2010 (F age 26-29 - this 16 year old guy seems to like me and i like him i want to go further than friends though which is ok. but im 14 hes 16 and i dont know how my mum will react to it and would he be classed as a sort of pervert because he's too old for me?... (56 words

First relationship is a bit confusing and compicated!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

8 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Well, I'm in my first 'proper' relationship. I have been with my boyfriend for around 5 months now and we are both virgins. My boyfriend is a few years older than me and i was suprised when he told me he was a virgin and i have mixed feeling about this - i think it is nice... (364 words

Why does my boyfriend never invite me round to his house?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3018 days ago

8 March 2010 (F age 26-29 - Well, ive got this boyfriend who is absolutely amazing. He always looks out for me, he always puts me first, and its a very strong relationship. Were not pressuring each other, were not constantly arguing, and were not embarrassed about hiding anything. the only problem ... (130 words

What can I do to make him understand that this bitch is a psycho and that I am not the one in the wrong.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

8 March 2010 (M age - Hi, I'm after advice re my ex. I dumped her about a year ago but we stayed in touch and I thought we might get back together a few weeks ago but I changed my mind cos I met a woman at work I quite fancied. I was angry with my ex because I asked her to do me a favour and she ... (497 words

Is an orgasm worth all the hype???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

8 March 2010 (? age 36-40 - okay, I know this is a bit of a weird question, but its really bugging me!! anyway, I was wondering, if you haven't had an orgasm, do you think that its doable to comprehend what it feels like? Because, I'm 18 and my boyfriend and I haven't done anything but fingering and we... (122 words

I love him but I feel unloved in return...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

8 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i use to be very close. we used to see each other at least 3 times a week because the rest of the days he worked full time but now he's taken the whole week for work only left with 2 days off and now he doesnt want to spend them with me. instead he brings me ... (192 words

My friend's boyfriend came onto me... do I tell her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

8 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Help, my friend's boyfriend told me he fancies me and has tried to kiss me... Do I tell her? I know she is going to leave him soon as she is sick of him being immature and she likes another guy... Any help apreciated!!... (44 words

Who to choose... my mom or my girlfriend???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

8 March 2010 (M age 36-40 - Ok.. to start from the beginning.. my friend and his wife moved back to where i live.. they had a hard time getting along and end up seperating.. soon after i start to date his ex wife (not divorced but separated) and everything was fine except for the fact that my friend hated ... (400 words

What can I do to help my PMT???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

8 March 2010 (? age 36-40 - Hi, well, I think I know what's wrong with me but I'm not entirely sure :S Anyway, during my monthly cycle, towards the time when 'the painters' come (my cool little name for it :P) I get really quite depressed and anxious about stuff and I am completely disinterested wi... (148 words

Instead of joy in my relationship, all I feel is stress.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

8 March 2010 (M age 41-50 - Instead of joy in my relationship, all I feel is stress. I am constantly trying to reassure my girlfriend and stressing out because she won't take steps to get her life on some sort of path. I've tried and tried to encourage her, but she won't make any decisions. I can't do ... (340 words

I'm being needy and clingy, but is it really my fault? Help!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5133 days ago

8 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I'm in that common insecure situation here that every gal gets! So me n my boyfriend are together for 2 1/2 years now and its brilliant!, only not as brilliant as it was in the first year of togetherness!. So, we're studying in the same course-Architecture, same year same ... (688 words

I'm sick of being in the middle of him and his ex wife trying to stab at each other through their daughter...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5123 days ago

8 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - I'm married and my husband just doesn't seem to care about my feelings or needs. He is a little self absorbed and has entitlement issues. He is a blamer whenever I bring up an issue he turns it around and says I did that because you made me because you did this or you are ... (297 words

I'm worried I'm being deceitful...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

8 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - when i first met my current boyfriend, i told him i had had one sexual partner which was true. however before he and i became exclusive there was one more guy, but i didnt tell im about this because it was after we met and so im worried what he will think. now we are exclusive ... (88 words

I have feelings for my same sex friend!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

8 March 2010 (F age 26-29 - So i was in school the other day and my friend told me that she is bi (apparently she has not told anyone else). i myself am straight, and have known her since we were 3 (we are both 14 now). ever since she told me, i have had feelings for her, but i dont know why this is when ... (210 words

Is what we are doing wrong/unhealthy???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

8 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hello, Okay. I am a female and have a best friend (also female) that I am living with. We have been besties for 4ish years now, even through a period when we lived in different states. We have been through a lot together and always consider each other in our futures. We often... (316 words

Help! Why do I find it so difficult to have sex with my boyfriend???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5133 days ago

8 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years.. he loves me a lot and I love him too. but my problem is that we have been trying to have sex since 6 months but we could not have.(not every day of course) I am a virgin and he is very experienced. I like making out with him , I get ... (180 words

Fooling around, blow job gone wrong!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

8 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - so me and my boyfriend were just fooling around the other day and i was suckin him off and stuff. i blew on his penis around his wee/cum hole area. i think a small amount of air went in but i dunno. then i realised that dis could be really dangerous and he might die or get ... (69 words

Am I fooled by my girlfriend? Is she unfaithful?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

8 March 2010 (M age 36-40 - Hello Guys, I am in a great dilemma , I really need your advice and help. I was going around with a girl (i met through a frnd) for last 6 months. she was intense in the relationship with me and even asked me for marriage, she is extremely emotional. now past 1 month , we ... (412 words

What is he up to? Does he sound dodgy to you?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

8 March 2010 (F age - Help!! A man contacted me from a dating site that i am listed; we sent friendly email back and forth for about one week; this man never asked about me or my life be just talked about what he wants in a woman and he also disclosed that his prev wife was an alcoholic and die... (164 words

She asked me to dance... could this be the start of something big?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

8 March 2010 (M age 30-35 - Hello there. i need help. what do you think is the best thing to do in my situation. let me tell the story first. we were in the club last night with my friends celebrating my best friends birthday. we keep dancing and dancing. me and my brother decided to do a round up in the ... (300 words

Having trust issues after 8 months

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

8 March 2010 (M age 51-59 - I have been dating a woman for 8 months now and I still have trust issues. We have declared our love for one another and have both said that if there ever were a "soulmate", then we are it. We met on an online dating site this past summer and we both have been married with kid... (558 words

Help! Should I end it NOW???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

8 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for over 3 years. We've had pretty normal fights and we always make up. Lately I've been asking him where he sees it going and just like a guy he ignores me or says "yeah whatever you want". I know im young but I have seen a lot of people ... (272 words

Why did my ex call me???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

8 March 2010 (M age 36-40 - My ex broke up with me after 1.5 years of dating. But she started calling me after 4 months and sent me a msg -"we'll be together in the next birth for sure", I didn't answer her calls or reply to her msg. She kept calling for 3 days and then sent me a msg - "You've really ... (170 words

Sex drive help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

8 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - my other half is telling me my sex drive is too high and i need to find a way to slow it down. can anyone give me advice?... (28 words

Is it wrong that I do not want my mother to run my life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

8 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I am a 19 year old female who works a full time job and in college in business management. I have a boyfriend who is 24 whom i have known for five years. I currently live with my mother who had kicked me out at 17 because of an abusive relationship and being addicted to ... (202 words

Lying to parents to spend time with army boyfriend? Any advice?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

8 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hello... Well ive been going out with my boyfriend for about 6 months now...He is coming back from the army soon and i wanted to spend two days at his dads house with him when his dad is away.. just to have time to talk and stuff... But this would mean lying to my mum saying... (176 words

Sex with my friend's mum!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

8 March 2010 (M age 30-35 - i want to have sex with my frinds mom and she has a guy. how can i hook up with her? she is about 30-37 and i am 20. help!!!!! her boobs are so hot !! how can i stop this ? I dont want to do it but she looks at me like she wants it to!!! help!!!!!!... (61 words

My girl won't please me the way I want her to!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

8 March 2010 (M age 30-35 - Should I break up with my girl if she won't give me the pleasure I want? She's always making up excuses so as not to do what I want and, just for the record, I always give her whatever she wants, even without her having to ask me for it.... (50 words

He puts his ex and son ahead of me.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

8 March 2010 (F age 51-59 - I have been dating this guy for about 3 months. We really like each other a lot. He has a son with another woman and I know that I can't compete with that, but here's the problem. He says that he is tryin to get along with her so that he doesn't have to pay child support ... (210 words

OK, so will he make a move on me? Or should I? Or does he not fancy me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

8 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - He is slightly older than me and we have been meeting in our university campus between and after classes for like a month and a half. We constantly text each other in college to find out when we both are free so we can meet up. We went out on Valentines Day for a movie, coffee, ... (146 words

Do I have to tell the guy who gave me herpes that I now have it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

8 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - Do I have to tell the guy who I believe I got herpes 1 from that I have it? It's HSV-1 ; the kind that gives people cold sores on their mouth. Well mine is on the genitals - a "gift" from his oral sex. He is the first person - the only person I have had sexual contact w... (252 words

In love with my step-sister

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

8 March 2010 (M age 30-35 - Hello, ive got a problem .. i think im in love with my step sister, she isent my real sister she came to life with us whn she was 12 years old and i was 9 years old.. by that time we were just * friends * later when she was around 16 she went out to life with her real mom again ... (170 words

Trapped in the 'friend zone'

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

8 March 2010 (M age 26-29 - Alright guys, basically there is a girl in my year at school i really like and we are quite close mates. Anyway, someone hacked her email account and sent loads off ppl an email sayin we were goin out when we weren't. She said to one guy, "i'm definately not seeing him, he's ... (119 words

Why is he still checking dating sites?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

8 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - I've been seeing this guy for a month. He is an acquaintance of my best friend, and she set us up. I thought things were going great. He's asked me to hang out almost every single day, and I see him usually 4 or 5 times a week. I've met many of his friends on multiple ... (292 words

Did we have sex too soon? Have we ruined things before they even got started?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

8 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - I met this guy, we had met a few months ago and we hung out all night talking until 6am, there were other people around too but they had fallen asleep and we talked for another couple of hours before he went home to bed. I found him very interesting, intelligent and attracti... (459 words

Am I his foreplay - a warm up before getting a real girlfriend???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5133 days ago

8 March 2010 (F age 26-29 - The biggest flirt I have ever met, or does he generally has a 'thing' for me? There is this guy in my school, lets call him B. He is 2 years older than me-I'm 14 and he's 16. I made friends with him when I was around 13-I'm friends with someone he's friends with, so he came... (745 words

Regrets and no one to talk to

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5133 days ago

8 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - hiya everyone, im new to this. I have such a problem and im really worried to say anything. on friday night i got really drunk at a housey which my sister also attended. Me and my sister then had a foursome with two other guys. I feel awful, but it doesn't seem to have phased ... (72 words

Am I being unreasonable for feeling like he doesn't have my back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

8 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - I have been dating this guy for six months and he is a really great guy. He listens to me and tries to correct any problems that we have. The problem I am having is he caters to his family tremendously and he does not really look out for me. For example I had a court date at ... (180 words

I lost the love of my life; is it a mistake to marry her sister?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

8 March 2010 (M age - I just got engaged to my dead girlfriends sister. She was the love of my life and shaped who I have become. she was killed when I was in my early 20s and I am now 50 . I pined for her for over 25 years, wrote endless about her, had nightly dreams about her and began my... (101 words

All I want is to be his friend again... help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

8 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - well its a long story lol.. i met this guy, lives kinda far but thats not the problem.. he stayed overnight at my house an we partied had fun but after he went back home he never spoke to me again.. he told my friend he hates me.. an that im gross.. it hurt cause i have str... (336 words

Is he interested in MORE than friendship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

8 March 2010 (F age 51-59 - I know this question has been asked a million times, but I'm here to ask again. I am NOT a teenager, rather a 38 year old woman, trying to figure out if my best guy friend is interested in more than friendship. We text OFTEN, not daily, but often and over the past few weeks ... (157 words

Is this girl just playing hard to get or doesn't she like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

8 March 2010 (M age 30-35 - Hi, this is quite a complicated question but any advice would be greatly appreciated. To paint the picture, I'm known as a bit of a manwhore at work. Recently I started courting a girl from work quite successfully. I purposefully didn't kiss her on our first date as I ... (438 words

How can I connect with his friends better?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

8 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hey, I've been going out with my boyfriend, who I love to bits for the last 6 months. The only thing is he feels like (and I know he's probably right) I don't make the effort to hang with or get to know his friends! In the past few months this has started to put a strain ... (141 words

I'm looking to change my name and would appreciate some help and ideas from females only!..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

8 March 2010 (M age 36-40 - Ok, I know this isn't a relationship question, but i hope i can receive some help... My full name right now is Michael Joseph White, and I have been giving thought to changing my first name to Mikael as in (Mah-kel) and I'm just curious what you think. I am also open to ... (154 words

Torn between the army and having a baby...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

8 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - i'm 20 years old and im about to join the army. I have never thought about having a baby before. I always said i didnt want one. But for the past few months everyone seems to be getting pregnant around me and its making me want one myself. My mom wants another baby as well but ... (97 words

What should I do about my wife?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

8 March 2010 (M age 41-50 - I am planning to leave my wife, but I am really scared of her - not that she is gonna beat me up or anything. The other day we were having a argument and she punched me - I was too shocked, even so she has hit me before. And she blames me for "making" her hit me. She would sa... (178 words

How to get over a COLOSSAL breakup?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

8 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I really need advice on how to get over a COLOSSAL breakup. I am 21 years old, and I just broke up with my fiancee who I have been dating for 8 years. We started dating in high school, and our relationship all through high school and college was fantastic, like something out of ... (1326 words

How many young ladies out there (like me) are having a hard time finding a boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

8 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi guys, I guess I'm just feeling sorry for myself but I'm wondering how many young ladies out there are having a hard time finding a boyfriend? I am 20 this year and have never had a boyfriend, I feel like I'm a really slow developer. Every single guy I like, sees me as a fri... (133 words

I need some opinions with some confusing behavior from a ex girlfriend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

8 March 2010 (M age - I need some opinions with some confusing behavior from a ex girlfriend. We met nearly 12 months ago and there was an instant attraction for the both of us,we became friends quickly and entered into a relationship for 8 months and fell very much in love. We both have had pr... (268 words

My fiance's ex....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

8 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - I've got a problem which makes me cry every day. Couple of months ago I wanted to clean my boyfriend's mailbox he always complains about how many letters he has, but unfortunately i discovered emails from his ex. She said she still loves him and want to meet. I now they did, ... (368 words

How do I proceed with this new friendship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

8 March 2010 (F age 51-59 - I am very happily married (13 yrs. with 3 children) and committed to my husband. I met a (getting divorced) man a few weeks ago at the gym and we've recently become facebook friends. He seems to need and appreciate having a friend to talk to and I really like him as a person. ... (313 words

I need advice and please don't joke around.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

8 March 2010 (M age 30-35 - Ok, here is the situation. I’m 18, and currently working in IT as Server and Desktop support. I met this (most gorgeous, magnificent) woman at one of my sites. BUT she is 39 and has 2 kids! First is 11 second is 14. I’ve been through a divorce my self when I was younger and I ... (414 words

How do you keep a long distance relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

8 March 2010 (F age 26-29 - The guy that I have liked for over the past year a few months came down to where I live this weekend. He moved a few months ago, and we never really kept in tough, but we still had feelings for each other. As soon as we started hanging out, we hit it off. We ended up becomin... (127 words

I am not in love with him any more but am scared that it's my fault and my critical ways that I feel like this.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5132 days ago

8 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - I am 24 years old and have been with my boyfriend for 16 months. I have known him for many years because he was a goof friend of my ex partener (7 years). This is possibly the route of the problem as they do not speak any more only when I am not around. I moved in to my p... (467 words

We always said we'd remain friends but now he acts like I don't exist...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

8 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I was with my boyfriend for 2 years and it was good, then just before christmas 2009 he decides he doesn't care about me anymore and that we drifted apart. We drifted apart because it was me making all the effort to go to him and i got sick of doing this, even though i loved ... (105 words

Girlfriend went beserk

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

8 March 2010 (M age 36-40 - Exhausted and tired of being so stressed out. I came to China to teach English but have come close to running out of money. It looks like I might have to leave in the next 3 weeks if I can't secure work. There's still a good chance that I can get work as I've lined up a few ... (1577 words

Guys only use her for her body... how can I get through to her...?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

8 March 2010 (M age 26-29 - I am in 7th grade and I like really like this girl. She is really hot and has a georgous body. The only problem is that her boyfriends (she's had multiple in the time i've liked her) only date her for her body. Don't get me wrong, I love her body but her personality is what I ... (102 words

She says she wants a threesome. Fantasy or reality?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

8 March 2010 (M age 36-40 - Well, I don't have any clue where to begin on this.. I've never really been in this situation before and I apologize ahead of time for typos and my bad sentence structure and for the long speech. My girlfriend and I have dated for just over 2 years now and things were great th... (960 words

I'm (almost) straight and married but I've developed a crush on my female boss. What now?

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8 March 2010 (F age 51-59 - Over the last few months I've developed a crush on my boss. (we are both women, she's straight and married. i practically straight and married.) And, I'm finding myself really obessing about her. Can't stop thinking...it feels like it's all i think about. and, i really want ... (58 words

Edge of desire...

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8 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I'm 17 years old and have been dating the Same guy since my freshMan year. There is in doubt in my mind that i'm not in love with him... but about 8 months ago he broke up with me. I was heartbroken but I started talking to a boy that I liked. Well after a while I really ... (191 words

First-time sex turning out to be more difficult than expected.

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8 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I don't even want to attempt sex anymore because it always ends up being unsuccessful and horribly awkward. I don't know if it's that my hymen is just too thick or if it's because he's not forcing it in hard enough, but literally, it is physically impossible. Don't suggest ... (105 words

Why would he hide his real self from me in a serious relationship?

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8 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I'm dating this guy who I think doesn't outright lie, but does twist the truth. I'm the sort of person who likes the truth without any white lies. It's obvious he cares about me deeply, though, and his bull is usually designed to make him look better in my eyes, and about tiny ... (394 words

Bedroom tips?

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8 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend said to me today that I'm not experimental with sex and that we are confined to four postions. But he said he is happy with our sex life. Any tips for the bedroom?... (35 words

He rejected me...

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8 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - HI, i was recently got rejected by a man i like. He's 40 and i'm 25. I was hurt for sure, but i also know i have to let it go and move on. Because he's my roommate, i still have to face him every day so i told myself to act cool and pretended nothing has happened. I even tol... (175 words

She says we don't spend enough time together...

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8 March 2010 (M age 36-40 - I've been dating a girl for 11 months. We hangout usually tuesday night, 2 hrs, thursday for 5 hrs, sat after 6 and all day sunday if i dont work sundays. She says she needs to hangout with me at least 5 times a week or it wont work. When we do have the time to hangout she ... (203 words

I really like two girls and can't choose between them!

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8 March 2010 (M age 30-35 - Well I really don't know what to do. I kinda like two different girls, I say like because I'm not in love with either one of them and I don't believe in saying it until you mean it. Anyway we'll call the first one C, she's beautiful, she's funny, she's... well she's a lot of ... (337 words

We don't use a condom but he never comes inside me... so could I be pregnant?

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8 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i never use a condom when we have sex, but he never finishes inside me, but he has fingered me when he has seaman on his fingers. for the past week or so i have been feeling nauseated, my back has been hurting, i have cramps that feel like period cramps( my ... (81 words

I'm 17 and I've met a guy 15 years older than me on the internet...

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8 March 2010 (M age 30-35 - i am a 17 year old man and i met this guy on the internet nammed jeremy. we thought this would be a fun thing were we just got on cam and cum but instead we traded numbers and began to talk i like this guy we have showed our boddies off with pics and videos but now he is ... (113 words

I've got the opposite problem to most. So how can I come sooner?

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8 March 2010 (M age 30-35 - I know this is an odd problem, and most guys would ask why I'm complaining, but what can I do if I'm lasting way too long in bed? I'm not very sensitive down there to begin with, and wearing condoms only makes this worse. Whenever I get with my girlfriend, she will usually end ... (89 words

Boyfriend told me he needs to focus on himself and be alone... I'm so hurt.

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8 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - My bf and I have been together for over 1 year. Everything was great. We have done and experienced soo much together. He always told me he loved and cared for me. Last Wednesday he broke up with me.. he told me that at this stage in his life he needs to focus on himself and ... (440 words

I've met a guy online but he doesn't phone (because of the cost). Could he have other women on the go?

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8 March 2010 (F age - I met a man online. He has a great job and works in other countries alot. We have been emailing on and off for two months now. We h ave only spoken on the phone a few times because it is $4.00 a minute. We have been emailing alot recently and discussing getting together the ... (155 words

He's a control freak, a fault finder and has anger issues... Should I stay in the marriage for the sake of my son?

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8 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - I've been married for almost 5 years now. We rushed into things and got married right away. I've regretted it almost every day since. He's a control freak, a fault finder, and has some anger issues (but he doesn't hit me). He's never happy. Ever. I haven't been allowed to work ... (132 words

Kissing technique...

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8 March 2010 (M age 26-29 - Hey, I'm 13 and my girlfriend and I have been together for about a month. I've never had my first kiss before but she has. She says she's ready to make out with me, but I'm scared that I might not be good enough for her since I haven't had any experience at all. She wants to ... (93 words

Forty and really wanting a child

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8 March 2010 (F age 51-59 - I am 40 years old and it is killing me that I do not have kids. I really would like to have a child part of the problem is I don't even have a boyfriend or any prospects. I am totally single. What can I do?... (46 words

Why is he always telling me he's having problems with his girlfriend???

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8 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - This guy is my friend and he likes to flirt with me, but he has a girlfriend. People say they are having problems because his GF wants to leave him mainly because he lost his job and is full of debts. He says they are having problems for the same reasons. The thing is I always ... (133 words

Need help/advice on how to move on from my ex who hurt me so badly..

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8 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - Hi All, I have previously posted a question asking if I should stay with my ex who cheated on me and got a girl pregnant or if I should just move on. Its been such a hard struggle deciding which I should do even though in logic I know which option I should take. Im findin... (200 words

Attention guys: What do you like girls to do?

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8 March 2010 (? age 30-35 - Okay. So. I need advice about what exactly guys like girls to do. What's something really hot a girl's done in bed, on the phone, anything! Or you wish a girl would do? Anything! What's hot things to say, good places to touch, positions in bed, etc. Does tonguing balls real... (134 words

Torn between two brothers ...

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8 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - Before anyone judges me please understand my reasons for what i have done. Ive been with my boyfriend for 4 years, and the past 6 months, i've been sleeping with his younger brother who is the same age as me, 21. A little over a year ago i found out my boyfriend who is... (331 words

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