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writes:i have known this guy for a few weeks now, i have met with him only once and fell imidietly attracted to him... we spent the night together and i didnt sleep with him... after 3weeks i herd from him again wanting to catch up, so we did and had an awesome nite (well i thought it was) i stayed with him again and this time had sex. it was amazing and i thought we connected really well... i was hoping to hear from him but left it 2days before i msging him. i snt him a casual msg "hey how did things go with you dad" cause he was meeting up with him and he was nervis about an incedent that accured.. no reply... did he just use me for a good time? this guy is doing my head in! how can i make him fall for me as much as i have for him? he is one of them too cool for skool guys but dam! plus we have so much incommon.. do i play cool and not chase him or do i call him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2010): He's not interested. First off you are chasing him and you can't make any guy fall in love with you.
Having sex with a man who has not asked you for a relationship is just that sex, it will not make a guy have strong feelings for you or even fall in love, in fact he may feel he has got what he wanted from you and now doesn't respect you. Some men are like that, a lot of them actually.
If you really want to be in a love relationship it is always best to wait to become sexually intimate and I am talking months, not days or a couple of weeks. Remember that you are the prize and he needs to prove himself to you before you invest too much of yourself.
Leave this too cool for school boy alone.....he ain't all that.
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reader, Tasmanian devil  +, writes (27 March 2010):
 There maybe a possibility he thought of it as a 1 night stand thing but you could try just calling him like unwind said. But play it cool and keep it casual he might not have such a high opinion of you as you do of him and you don't want to look to clingy.
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reader, Ne'cee +, writes (27 March 2010):
 Well this sounds common with men and even with some women. Men usually only want what they cant have. So if you want his attention, I'll tell you like my dad told me. Always look your best when he sees you and make sure you are always smiling. When he sees you are not worried about him and moved on with your life, then he'll most likely chase you. But dont be clingy or seem attached you are actually pushing him away. And dont give it up any more any time soon. Make him wait for it. He's been a bad boy. Hope this helps
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reader, needadvice101  +, writes (27 March 2010):
 you should try and get together again but keep your options open and dont contact him for about a week because that might get him wondering about you! if it doesnt then hes just a jerk and it has nothing to do with you its really just him being selfish! i hope things work out and dont worry!!
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reader, unwind +, writes (27 March 2010):
Sounds like this is a recipe for disaster. But, if you want to hang out with him, I would just call. Just know that the call might go straight to voicemail. Not sure if you want to leave a message, but I don't think it will hurt. It might drive you nuts if he doesn't get back to you.
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