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writes:So I recently met this guy, I wont say where, but from the internet looking for love kind of ordeal.It took him a few days to shoot me a text, he said he was busy with work. Okay, thats fine.So we started texting a lot for two days. He works, has a car, is National Guard, close with family, all the good qualities. He seemed real genuine and no real baggage. A man of few words, but honestly, from all the hell I have been through with love, simple seems real nice to me right now.I made a comment about how I would hang out with him that evening if I could. Obviously not, I had school the next day and it was already getting late. He started getting excited about hanging out and even said he would drive to see me. While I do really want to get to know him and spend time together, make a companion, I was really caught off guard and not ready to meet him at my own place so soon. So I tried to make plans for another day and he said he works longer on thursdays and fridays so he doesnt work on the weekends and had family plans this weekend. I felt like he was really bummed out that I subtly turned him down and kind of got paranoid thinking he wanted just sex or something. (Ive been used, cheated on, and through a lot with past relationships). Although he seemed relaly understanding and nice about, I could tell he was disapointed.So thursday and today I have tried texting him a few times, saying hello how are you, hope your not mad, im sorry if i did something to make you stop talking to me... but he just hasnt responded!Yeah, there are plenty of fish in the sea and I could totally forget about him and move on. But whats the deal? Everything seemed fine and he was really nice and willing to take a chance, I feel kind of bad I wasn't being as open. =/ I really wanted to get to know him better... Maybe he is just busy?
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (27 March 2010):
 He could be busy or he has found another girl and lost interest . Time will tell.
No matter how busy he is ,I don't think he would just ignore and not reply your text. There is just something which is not right.
It is not difficult to reply a text. It wont take up much time to respond to your text if he is interested in you .
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