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Reluctant girlfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

12 March 2010 (M age 26-29 - I have a problem, my gf and i have been going out for 2 months now but she shows no sign of "loving" me, she wont hold hands cos she says her hands get to sweaty and she dont like it , we cant kiss because she says she never liked kissing the only thing she does is hug and say ... (121 words

Yellowish discharge???

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12 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Heres the thing this is a bit awkward..... I just finished my last period about 3-4 days ago. But there seems to be a yellowish discharge and I'm not sure whether I should go and see my doctor.... It's quite heavy. I've never had this problem before...... Any advice would be ... (54 words

He's hurt me so much and I don't even think he realises it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5119 days ago

12 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - Hi, I've been with my partner for 4 and a half years now, engaged for 2 years. We are both managers in the hospitality and leisure industry, so work consumes all of our lives, 24/7. We actually live above the place we work, so it literally is full on. Working together and bei... (582 words

I hate being gay..help!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

12 March 2010 (M age 26-29 - I'm gay and hate it.i just cant handle it. It makes me desperate.in my town everyone hates gays . It is complicated cause i also love girls and not satisfied of being gay. If someone know it my life will be miserable and i hate being gay cause my friends hate gays and no one ... (78 words

I could care less for my biological Mom...is this wrong?

This question has 36 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

12 March 2010 (? age 30-35 - Im 19 years and about to graduate high school. My life couldn't be better, even though it's not perfect. I was adopted by my grandparents when I was a baby, after my biological mother had me at the age of 16 but couldn't take care of me. My grandparents are who I call mom and ... (380 words

Should I forgive her and get over it this..or am I upset for a good reason here?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

12 March 2010 (M age 30-35 - I've only known my best friend for nearly 2 years, but we instantly had an amazing connection and got on so well. My trouble is, for my bday my friend blew me off and didnt get me so much as a card. Her bday is comming around and deep down I want to be a dickhead and whe... (156 words

How do I show this girl, that I want a second chance?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

12 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - ok so i decided to set up an account and see if i could get some advice because i really dont know what to do. i was with my girlfriend for nearly 3 years and we had some really really great times.we broke up 7 weeks ago. the ting was i was very selfish and its only now th... (443 words

How do I deal with workplace cliques? Need help please!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

12 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - by my work colleagues? Im a quiet person i have been on night shift for nearly 2 years but now due a management decision I must go back to day shift,i am a bit annoyed but accept this, I will work as required, i like my job! I am nice to my work colleagues, never nasty,... (481 words

I want to stay a virgin until marriage but what's the use!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

12 March 2010 (M age 36-40 - I would really like to stay a virgin until I'm married but it doesn't seem like there are any virgin girls left so whats the point? The whole chastity thing really doesn't work unless both people are in on it. It's all just really irritating 22 years of chastity for nothing.:( ... (73 words

I'm frustrated because during sex, he lasts a few minutes...is this normal?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

12 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - my boyfriend can hardly ever last long during sex and its getting really frustrating! today he finished in literally less than 2 minutes and we'd hardly gotten into it. is this like a medical problem or normal? i thought he would be able to control it at least to some extent. ... (143 words

He's ignoring me a bit so should I just stop trying to communicate with this guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

12 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - There's a guy in the USAF who have been friend of mine for 3 years now. We have always been keeping in touch since we met in person. He had said he enjoys our friendship and communications and that it's good when he hears from me. Well, he's in Iraq right now, We are frie... (226 words

Am I being too over protective or am I just being jealous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4921 days ago

12 March 2010 (M age 30-35 - I am in love with my girlfriend and she loves me too. We have been dating for 8 months. She went to costa rica a month ago for internship. She will stay there for 3 months and we really miss each other. We chat almost everyday on internet and talk on the phone too. We get al... (430 words

How do I make my husband's birthday a special one?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5119 days ago

12 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - hey everyone i really do need some help!!!! my husband Bday is very soon and i wanna do something for him that he'll never think off!!!! u see we've a baby so i cant take him out for dinner and so on.....so we'll just have to spend it all together home and just the 2 of us...MY ... (102 words

My cousin touches me! Help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

12 March 2010 (F age 26-29 - Ok, my older cousin used to touch me all the time. I was 10 years old and he was 13. I didn't know what masterbating was and why he did it, but he used to be my best friend when i was 10. So we used to sit together in the same chair because it was a rocking chair - nothing ... (245 words

I'm worried that I am gay!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

12 March 2010 (M age 26-29 - please help me cos i am very worried about this i am 13 i a am worried that i am gay because i get erections thinking about girls but i get that excited feeling every time i see a man and every time i masturbate it takes me a while to get arouse when i think about girls please ... (60 words

Can I ever really accept he cheated?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

12 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - So, I'm 19. I've been with my boyfriend for nearly a year and a half. He's 22. A month before our 1 year anniversary he cheated on me. I only found this out 2 months later, from the girl he'd cheated on me with. We broke up when I found out, I was devastated, I really ... (224 words

What does this look mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

12 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hey, could you help me?? Well I like this guy and today I saw him and said hi, he looked at me like right in the eye before remembering to say hi back and I smiled and so did he. About 10 minutes later I saw him walking down the stairs in our building, as he opened the door ... (150 words

Should I be mad at my wife?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

12 March 2010 (M age 41-50 - I dont know what im doing any more i was married for 8 years and we split up a few months ago dec 22 2009 i have my own place im self employed im ok for the time being i just feel alone i have 2 girls 2 and 5 thay live with me cuz every time she takes the kids a baby sitter is ... (416 words

Why am I jealous of this negative attention, my best friend gets from the guys??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

12 March 2010 (F age 26-29 - One of my best friends is really short and pretty. I view myself as just an average (but my friends are helping me get over my self-esteem issues). She has mostly guy friends and that makes me sort of jealous because they're also always with her. But sometimes it makes me ... (137 words

Do I wait for him to break up with me or..should I dump him first?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

12 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - I'm not sure what to do about my boyfriend and I'm really stuck! First off, I'm 15 weeks pregnant and in a strange relationship with my boyfriend. He works out of town for periods of time. He's been gone since the middle of Jan. In that time, it's been very rough. He w... (890 words

Feeling horribly unloveable...what can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

12 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - i feel completely unloveable...all my relationshops have ended horribly, and virtually no-one shows me any interest. I'm 19 and 5 ft 8 ...size 16 -18 and slightly alternative.... all i can conclude is that im fat and ugly ....please help... (40 words

Should I end this 8 month marriage?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

12 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - Hi, I think its time to end our marriage. I have been married for about 8 months now and everything seems to be falling apart and my love for my husband diminishing. I feel like he is a chronic liar and does not treat me the way I want. Im now depressed from the emotiona... (519 words

How should I do this..tell him I like him or let him read the clues??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

12 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - dear cupid, or whoever? i really really really like this boy and i dont know if he likes me - he texts me constantley and we always chat to eachother. but do you think i should tell him? or should i let him pick up the hints? - please reply, i need help!... (59 words

My guy friend and boyfriend both compete for my attentions! How do I handle this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

12 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - OK, I'm having a problem between my boyfriend and my best friend. They used to be quite good friends with each other before I got together with him... We all met at the same time at uni. But since I've started going out with him, my friend doesn't seem to want to spend mu... (231 words

I hate the naked girly pics on his computer! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

12 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - All the time I find pics of half naked girls on my boyfriends computer, and I tell him I don't like it and it just keeps making me feel sad and bad about myself, what else should I do to make myself feel better?... (44 words

Our home life is fantastic but our sex life never improved despite trying everything, what can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

12 March 2010 (M age 41-50 - I'm 30 and I have been with my 25 year old girlfriend for 2 years. The sex has never been good for me at all, my partner orgasms 2/3 times when we do have sex and she is very easy to please. I can orgasm but its difficult and I have to be very horny. We are now down to having ... (552 words

If I left my husband would it affect my Greencard?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

12 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - Hello,I have a problem with my husband.everytime we fight , he tell me to live his house.We are married for 2 years, and our marrige relationship is bad.I think he has someone else.What I should do , if I would live him ? It can affect my greencard ? I can't live with him ... (88 words

I don't think I love him anymore but I don't want to hurt him. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

12 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I am 18 and have a baby girl, i have been with my boyfriend for almost 7 years!! I thought he was forever but i was playing truth or dare at a friends birthday party nd i was asked if A nother asked me to cheat on him would i and i said no.. but i think i would. I dont think i ... (77 words

How can I show her that things have changed and that it will work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

12 March 2010 (M age 36-40 - I need some advice! I met a girl about 3.5 years ago. We moved very fast but loved each other very much, about 9 months into our relationship she became pregnant. Our relationship was good but we became to fight more and more. We became distant for a few months after our ... (427 words

I cant take it anymore but I don't know how to leave!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

12 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - I have two boys in a relationship before this one. When I met my current boyfriend he was so nice to them and had a great job, and for once I felt like I didn't have to be in charge of EVERYTHING. Now, two years later we have a daughter together, and he is completely different. ... (157 words

My husband's behaviour towards me infront of my son is really distressing me, what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

12 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - Hi I really need some help regarding my husband's behviour towards me in front of our son. It is really distressing me and upsetting me and I don't know whether to stay or leave or what on earth to do. Sometimes he makes me feel as though I am mad or something and he even ... (428 words

He got married last April but has added me on Facebook again! What is he playing at?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

12 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - last year my ex fiance contacted me via facebook stating he wanted to be friends-there was a lot of bad history so i was happy to clear the air. then he started doing weird stuff like only contacting me early in the morning etc and showing off his wedding and new house so i ... (141 words

My boyfriend and friend have admitted wanting to have sex with each other. Am I over reacting to their attraction?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

12 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Basically, my boyfriend wants to sleep with one of my very good friends. I wouldn't mind if that was it, because she is extremely beautiful, annoyingly so actually.. but it's the fact that he said that as soon as he saw her, he made a mental note to himself that he Had to sleep ... (197 words

I feel like I am being smothered by my fiancee!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

12 March 2010 (F age 51-59 - I have been with my boyfriend for just 2 months, he is 40. We both have children from previous relationships (he has one, and I have 3) but neither of us have ever been married. We dated very briefly last year but things didn't work out because I was getting over my ex ... (298 words

How to behave with a sucessful and controling guy u just met?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

12 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - *OP's own title* Am dating a nice guy but he never tld me he's bussinessman he like to control woman.... He wants to have kids now.... I really like him...am only 20 n live with my dad .... I'd like to know how to keep him happy n wat 2 do to keep him happy ? ... (57 words

He says he prefers me over the porn any day, but I still feel like I am competing with it.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

12 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - Okay, I know there are a lot of questions on this topic already, but I still need help. My fiance watches porn, a lot. I don't know how much, because he never wants to talk about it, but I know it's very frequently. He said as much to me at one point, and he has an entire ex... (384 words

I think my boyfriend loves my sister!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5107 days ago

12 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - *OP's own title* i have been with my partner for a year now, its my first serious relationship, and im his first love. we get on great, have a fun together, always cuddling and kissing, however there is one problem, i dont know if its just me, but he and my older sister get alon... (361 words

How can I get my boyfriend to show affection without me asking him to?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

12 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I always have to ask my boyfriend for hugs and kisses cuz he won't do it on his own, and it gets anoying, any advice?... (25 words

I'm afraid I have hurt his feelings and his manhood- though isn't that better than lying there and faking it?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

12 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have a fantastic relationship, we've been together almost 2 years and I genuinely couldn't be happier. My problem actually came just last night, when we were about to make love, and before I had a chance to blink, he was inside me- very little foreplay,... (264 words

My mom is very condescending about my relationship with my boyfriend. Is she being mean or do I need to lighten up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

12 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - So my mom is very condescending about my relationship with my boyfriend. I’m 20, he’s 22, we’ve been dating for 10 months and we’re both virgins. My mom and I are pretty close, but we have more of a friend relationship than a mother/daughter relationship. We have a great tim... (466 words

How can I tell him I want foreplay without making it sound like I am saying he does not know how to please a woman?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

12 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - My current BF is my first serious relationship. I was a virgin before I met him and he wasn't. His experience though consisted of two short term GF's (2-3 months each) and two one night stands. Even though I didn't enter this relationship with a lot of sexual experience I hav... (199 words

I need help with my thoughts of sadness and jealously over the life my partner shared with his ex.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

12 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - Hello everyone, I really need help dealing with my thoughts. I am in a stable long term relationship and have been for almost 3 years. Everything is going okay- we talked about marriage and we live together. However, my partner has had one significant relationship before ... (324 words

Is he being totally insensitive by visiting my hometown without me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4864 days ago

12 March 2010 (F age 51-59 - *OP's own title* My ex and I are in frequent communication. We are trying the friend thing although he knows I am very much in love with him. He has very strong feelings for me too but not necessarily romantic love. I don't know. This is my question. He's European and we live... (165 words

Stuck for First Date Ideas.. help!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

12 March 2010 (F age 26-29 - *OP's own title* Right! I really need your help on this one :/ This boy and me have been talking recently. We've been getting to know each other really well. He doesn't go to the same school as me, but shares the same school bus. He seems really interested most of t... (418 words

What relatives are my boyfriend and I on the family tree?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

12 March 2010 (F age - if my grandmother and my boyfriends grandmother are first cousins, what relation are we?... (14 words

He found out I have a boyfriend and wants to move on. How can I make him believe I would not go back if I left my partner?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

12 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Ive been feeling like this for the past couple of months and i need some advice. ive been dating this guy for almost 3 1/2 yrs. And right now its all going downhill but he doesnt know....... he thinks everything is okay and normal. Anyways when i used to work there was this g... (218 words

I don't like the feeling of being second best to his deceased wife.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

12 March 2010 (F age - I've been dating a widower for over 2 years now. He rarely tells me that he love me unless he's had a few. He takes lovely cards to his wife's grave for birthdays and christmas and this is the type of things he writes ....happy birthday sweetheart, they say time is a great ... (112 words

My girlfriends periods only last two days! Is there something wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

12 March 2010 (M age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I were talking recently and she told me that her periods only last 2 days and are always light. Does this mean she is less fertile or could have problems conceiving? She is 32. I have never heard of girls having such short, light periods. She did have an ... (68 words

Should I walk away if he is not over his ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5120 days ago

12 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I just started dating this guy. It has been a month now. I went to his flat last night and we went on his laptop. On there straight away is a picture of his ex on his display picture! and also he had folders of pictures of her. When I confronted him about it he deleted all the ... (99 words

My ex cheated on me now I have an STD! Should I warn the girl he cheated with?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

12 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend cheated on me and and after I found out I went to the Dr. Now I have an STD!! this was a 2 year relationship and I know who it is he cheated on me with. I don't know her personally but she works by my house, should I warn her? I found her name and number I just ... (81 words

How can I get him away from his ex girl friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

12 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - i have been going steady with a guy younger then me for the past 3 months.and he is one year younger thenme.forme age doesnt matters.i truly love him.he is 16 and i m 17..but i guess that his ex girlhas interfered in our relationship for the past one month.but his words and ... (161 words

How can I approach her and strike up a conversation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5120 days ago

12 March 2010 (M age 36-40 - There is a really cute girl i see every Wednesday when i go to the gym at my university she works at the front desk and just swipes my ID when i enter. she always smiles at me and seems really sweet, can anyone suggest ways in which to strike up a conversation with her. our ... (76 words

Why do guys watch porn when they have girlfriends?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

12 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for more than two years now. He is turning 21 while I am 18. We have a 5 month old son together. When we first started going out, i never really took notice of whether or not he watched porn, but when I bought a laptop and internet I notic... (1725 words

How do I revive a sex life with no spark?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5120 days ago

12 March 2010 (M age 30-35 - hi im 18 and have been dating my gf for almost 4 years now, our sex life has pretty much dissapiered. how do i get her to make love to me again?... (32 words

She makes me so happy at times in my miserable life, but her controlling ways are starting to drive me insane. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

12 March 2010 (M age 30-35 - Hey, I've been with my girlfriend for a long time, nearly a year. It was awesome at first, even though it is a long distance relationship. Recently though, she has gotten more controlling. I am in a Deathcore band with a dew of my friends who I am gonna stay with when I turn ... (258 words

She is way out of my league, ... what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

12 March 2010 (M age 26-29 - *OP's own title* I met this girl about 2 weeks ago and she was like wow. A girl that is like my dream girl but after talking to her I noticed that she is way out of my league. Should I just ignore this or should I just quit right now. She doesn't seem like shes interested in m... (69 words

I thought it would be true love for ever, but now I am not so sure.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

12 March 2010 (M age 30-35 - Ok so i have been with my current girlfriend for a combined total for almost four years now, im 18 and a senior in highschool and we meet a little bit before freshman year. my gf and i have had some very rough times and have only once split up and started a new relationship but ... (140 words

First time sex hurt so much we could not go through with it and now I am afraid to try again. How can we overcome this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

12 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - So i recently tried to have sex for the first time, and it didn't work out at all. I was ready and willing, my boyfriend and i were foreplayin like for hours, and actually i wasnt nervous at all, the problem was that my vaginal opening was too small to allow my boyfriend to ... (179 words

He cheated, I cried, he apologized ...but I could hear him giggling on the phone!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

12 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - me and him had relationship for 3months.. we met at church. he had a affair with another girl from same school. immediately i broke out with him through text message. he said sorry,let's talk about this,clingy for few days first i tried to ignored all of these but end up... (160 words

Should I forgive him like a good Christian for cheating on me, or tell him to hit the road?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

12 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I just got a boyfriend not even a month ago. He was sweet, respectful, nice, and never pushed me on anything. It was the night of my 19th birthday when I got a text message from my boyfriend's ex. She claims that I should be careful and that my boyfriend cheats. I started ... (243 words

He wanted to know what makes him different to other guys I have dated, but did not seem to like the answer.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

12 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I am so confused right now. I was having a discussion with my boyfriend about "what makes him different from other guys I've dated". I told him that I was going to be 100% honest, and when he asked the question, I said that he was nicer then my last ex I had. He then asked, "is ... (90 words

Are there any men who don't only want sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

12 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Are there any men that don't only want sex? My boyfriend told me that every guy on the campus(at our college) is driven mainly by sex. Honestly, it's a little disgusting to me...And I guess I'm just losing a little bit of faith in "good" guys if they are all really after one ... (86 words

She often doubts my love for her and thinks I am going to leave her everytime we fight. Is his normal behavior?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

12 March 2010 (M age 41-50 - I have been with my girlfriend for over 9 months now and we get along well usually. I really love her and she loves me too but there is one problem. Every once in a while, she doubts my love for her. She sometimes gets mad at me for some reason and starts casting doubts on our ... (252 words

Desperate for a normal life !

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

12 March 2010 (M age 36-40 - *OP's own title* Hi everyone, its so much on my mind so my thread is gonna be abit messy because i want to get all the things in once sentence so bear with me :). Ok so.. im 19 years old male, 20 this summer and still a virgin. It started off i guess by me worrying way to m... (620 words

My boyfriend is mean to me in public! I don't know what to do

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

12 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriends really nice to me when were alone but in public he tends to argue and be mean to me a lot , like at school. I don't know what to do.. A asshole in public is embarasing ... (39 words

I'm dating a guy 20 years older... he has erectile difficulties and an overactive sex drive!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4808 days ago

12 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - Please I need help! I am a confident atrctive young female I have been dating an older man for almost a year he is 20 years my elder and I love him dearley however we have problems he has both erectile difficulties and an over active sex drive I am starting to resent the strain ... (764 words

I'm infatuated with this girl but she is bi. How do I deal with this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

12 March 2010 (M age 26-29 - Ok i'm in a real bind here. The girl i love is bi. How do i deal with this exactly? I mean i'm completely infatuated with her, not in a bad way. Honestly, how am i supposed to deal with this? I just don't know how this will work if our relationship goes anywhere. i.e. marriage.... (56 words

We're back together now, but I'm finding it difficult to trust. How can I let things go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

12 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Ever since my boyfriend broke up with me the first time I've been having trust issues with him but were back together. Any advice on how to let things go? ... (30 words

I sometimes believe I am over him, but then I think about him and know I'm not...will he ever come back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5120 days ago

12 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - This guy and I have been together for a while and I really love him. We weren't exactly "together" but he was always saying we'd be in a relationship and he treated me right. I don't know how to deal with my emotions now, I'm trying so hard to just fight it, and tell myself ... (187 words

My nineteen year old lover wants me to leave my husband for him! I'm so confused on what to do...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5115 days ago

12 March 2010 (F age - I've done something really bad, but it happens every Saturday night, I'm a fifty year old lady and I'm married. I've had sex with an nineteen year old and he loves it and wants me to leave my husband and live with him, I do enjoy his sex but I have a husband who is lovely, I ... (92 words

Is a good girl fiction or reality?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

12 March 2010 (M age 30-35 - It all started back in high school. My girlfriend left me for a rich man. I was very upset. Next my girlfriend left me when I went to the cadet corps. She just did not want to even try to wait for me. I understand it, wait for two years is not easy.When I graduated from the ... (242 words

How to deal with a forced break up?

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How do you know if a boy likes you?

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My crush on my teacher who doesn't see my good qualities, is keeping me from dating guys that do...how do I get over this crush?

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12 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I have had a crush on my teacher for a year or so, and every day I look for an excuse to stay in his classroom. It's odd because some days we seem to have interesting discussions, and other days we just do our own work. From time to time I see him stare at me, but I guess it is ... (180 words

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12 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Dear Cupid: My fiance has cut back on viewing porn (well, as far as I know). Now every night, all he wants is me to tell him of my past sexual experiences. He says he'd rather jack off to that instead of viewing porn. Does this sound like somebody who is a "sex addict"?... (222 words

My teacher treats me different and its embarrassing me...does anyone have any tips?

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12 March 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hi. I have an enormous crush on my teacher. Yeah I know this is completely normal, but he's... I'll just say he's in his early fifties. I have never heard of anyone liking someone nearly forty years older than themselves... I feel so awkward and disgusting! He even admits h... (260 words

What does his hug mean?

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All the kissing and no call yet.

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12 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I'm 19 years old and so is he, I've known this boy for almost 2 years, he lived in my halls of residence in my first year at uni, we never really got close but were aquaintances, but I always fancied him a little bit. A few nights ago I was out with some friends and we saw him ... (136 words

Do I leave my new life behind for her?

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We talk all the time but she makes excuses not to see me.

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I'm worried about her symptoms, guidance anyone?

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Losing my sex drive at 52! Help

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