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writes:I am an average size guy and my wife is large down below after having our child and since I have noticed that she has become frustrated as I am not satisfying her,We have toys and have fun but she has asked if she could sleep with a black man to try it out,I am ok with it as I want her to be satisfied,does anyone else have this sort of arrangement? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2010): seriously? First of all there are showers and growers. Some men stay the same size whether hard or soft, and others become larger when erect. Color has NOTHING to do with it. Thats crazy.
Perhaps your wife just wants an excuse to cheat in the open.
She needs to do something about her issue. This is not your fault, and you should not be suffering due to her.. anatomy.
Buy one of those penis girth enhancers that goes over your shaft, and tell her to flex those muscles. You cant do all the work!
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reader, Annkp +, writes (30 March 2010):
I think she is being selfish how would she feel if u said u want sex with some one who is tighter. You really need to think about this b4 u let her have sex with another man u may feel jealous after and may feel u are not able to carry on with the relationship. What kind of role models are u and ur wife being for ur child.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2010): u want her to be satisfied??? dats dumb. if u love your wife how can u find it acceptable to allow her to have sex with another man? i mean i know there are freaks out there but geeze, daz d only option you can come up wit? wat kind of example the two of u want to set for ur child?
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reader, Brunel  +, writes (27 March 2010):
You are not the only one 'married lady' whatever the colour it is the thought of being OK about it?
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reader, QuirkLady  +, writes (27 March 2010):
 Kegels, man, kegels.
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reader, Withnail700 +, writes (27 March 2010):
 This kind of sexual behaviour can lead to some very dark places, please don't go there. I think your wife needs some moral guidance.
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reader, lilacfox +, writes (27 March 2010):
 Agree with "marriedlady" - either this isn't a real post or you two do not have any information and no knowledge of where to find any.
Has she not heard of pelvic floor exercises? If not, then being satisfied in this area is going to be the least of her problems :S
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2010): i dont believe this post is real. And what would skin color have to do with anything. Size is not synonymous with skin color. Absurd and silly.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2010): Maybe the solution to your situation would be for your wife to consider toning up her pelvic floor muscles (there are several devices on the market to help with this) so that she does not need to sleep with someone she considers may have a larger and more satisfying penis. I find your post pretty vulgar (that is, if it is for real). Why does your wife assume the colour of someone's skin will dictate the size of their penis? Its a stereotype racist comment. What sort of husband allows his wife to sleep with another man because of size? If your wife would rather do that, than continue receiving pleasure from you through a variety of means then maybe she is in fact trying to tell you she wants to move on. Having said that, if you are genuinely happy to sit by while another guy makes your wife happy then maybe it is you that needs to move on - it depends. Either way, once you 'cheat' knowingly or otherwise, in a marriage there is no going back from it. Its most likely if she likes the sex better elsewhere you will be surplus to requirements. Good luck with your marriage.
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reader, weparley +, writes (27 March 2010):
You really want to do that? They say once you go Black you never go back
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