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writes:Should I contact my ex girl friend?i was with her fo a year it was long distance and we were both dealing with some stuff at the time. I had a prolem with addiction that she didnt know aout and as she was dealing with her own stuff at the time it was hard to tell her. We split last year and i worked on my issues, and have quit mt addiction and am in so much better place. While we were together i was quite cold, and didnt get that close to her, but when i got clean and got my feeling back i regretted it so bad and did sent her a letter to apologise. We worked for the same company and i had to be in contact every day for the first six months split which was so hard. We had minimal contact and the last time we spoke we had a fall out as she was trying to make a point to me about other people finding her attractive and i said that wasnt fair to do and she went off at me, i left that job and moved to another department and we haven't been in contact since and that was six months ago. I still miss her and have got my life back in so many ways but feel that i want to be part of her life again, i know that a year split is a long time to still feel this way, but my head was so messed up getting my addiction sorted that it was so much to deal with.i dont expect any sympathy as i did make the mistakes and shouldnt of acted that way, but the feeling inside wont go away.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (5 April 2010):
 There is no law that forbids you from try again. If you love her, contact her and see if she will give you another chance.
If you don't try , you will never know. Give your best shot and it is better that you have tried falling in love with her again than regret for not trying.
Good luck to you .
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2010): well you should be careful when contacting her. Do so as if shes an old friend you havent talked to in a while. also dont bring up any negative emotions.
be happy and always smiling, she will feel far more comfortable and willing to reconcile.
check out: www.exgirlfriendbackadvice.com
if you want more tips.
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