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He used to be so passionate! Why is he resisting me now?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

5 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - I was wondering if you could help. I have been seeing my other half for 5 months, but it is recently i have noticed he dosent kiss me the same anymore. Its like he always pulls away first and does not use tongues anymore and there is no passion. I try and start things moving ... (68 words

How to get over feelings of attraction?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5127 days ago

5 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - A couple weeks ago I started to have a crush on this guy at my school. I tried to ignore it because I am not looking to date him at all. I'm attracted to him and I don't like it. Despite this I tried to see if I could be friends with him. On Valentines day I was giving out ... (386 words

Military ruined the perfect relationship.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

5 March 2010 (M age 36-40 - I just broke up with the woman of my dreams, and I desperately want her back. Now to understand this problem,you need to understand the nature of my enlistment, and the circumstances of me meeting up with this wonderfull girl. I come from a family with a long military hist... (1135 words

Suspicious boyfriend may be gay.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

5 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - Is my boyfriend gay? He doesn't like to really do anything with me he rather hang out with the guys. We have sex maybe once a week because most of the time when he comes he tired and goes to sleep. I asked him once and he got very defensive saying if I think that we should ... (106 words

Is non intercourse swinging a norm?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

5 March 2010 (M age 41-50 - My girl friend age 33 says lots of people our age 33-40 engage in same room sexual fun where friends get together and party and swap with each other for foreplay and fun with toys but not sexual intercourse. Is this happening as she says ...everyone is doing it? I can see it is ... (109 words

What does he mean by hanging out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

5 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - i asked my ex boyfriend if he sees us being together in the future and i meant me being his girl and he said yes hanging out. So what does that mean?... (32 words

On and off and missing him, even his flaws.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

5 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - me and my man been off and on for 3 years. both at fault but i know i treated him like crap and then did the same things again when he came home. its been 2 months and its the longest we have been apart. i got in touch as i need support as i have a court hearing over a dispute ... (156 words

Are STD tests normally so expensive?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

5 March 2010 (? age 41-50 - Ok, I just recently visited my girl, and while there one thing led to another and we got reckless. I ended up having unprotected sex with her, and I haven't ever had a blood test for STD's. So that is weighing on my mind bad. I would never be able to forgive myself ... (197 words

I'm scared that I'll lose him completely before we work this out

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

5 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - i split up with my partner when i was 7 months pregnant. a few months later he met someone else, we always got on really well. after nearly 2 years he split up with her and i wanted him back. he stayed up over christmas an we ended up sleeping together, i wanted to give our ... (188 words

Vivid images of her past won't go away.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

5 March 2010 (M age 41-50 - im aware how unoriginal this question is but it would b nice 2 reassure im not the only 1 out there and 2 hear any similar situations or opposite sex opinions (advice)as long as their not the usual "past is the past let it go" answer... i SO regretfully got my 23 yr old ... (225 words

I don't want to love him anymore and he doesn't want to love me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

5 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I've been with this guy for exactly 1 year and 6 months today. I'm crazy about him. But that’s the problem. I don’t want to love him any more and he doesn’t want to love me. We've got into random fights our entire relationship, and about a year ago we started getting ... (642 words

Help!!! How can I move on with my life???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

5 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - So I have recently gone through a very traumatic breakup. I was with this guy for 2 years. We planned on getting married and had our kids names picked out. We were so much in love or so I thought. He left me on January 15th because he liked another girl. I am so devastated I ... (186 words

Is the friend the reason our relationship crumbled???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

5 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - i went out with my boyfriend for 5 months it was brilliant for the first month and everything was going really well until i met his friend, his friend started ringing me every night and i stupidly ended up talking to his friend rather then my boyfriend, do you think this is a ... (158 words

He's having an emotional affair with this girl... help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

5 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have had a very rocky relationship but i thought it was getting better, 4 months after we started dating he cheated on me... because it was so early in the relationship i forgave him... now... a year and two months later he says the same girl and him are just ... (197 words

Why is he blowing hot and cold? Anyone ever experienced this before?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

5 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I met a guy in a club a few weeks ago, we had been eyeing each other up all night and eventually got chatting. At the end of the night he walked me to my taxi, asked for my phone number and said he would be in touch the next day. I thought it was too good to be true because he ... (261 words

Husband thinks I'm cheating on him but I'm not!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5123 days ago

5 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - I recently got a new job and my husband was very excited for me. i am a broker for a shipping, trucking company and in the office it is just me and an older un attractive guy that is my boss. My husband came to my work to have me sign some papers and the door was locked, when ... (186 words

He's kicked me out! Is it REALLY over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

5 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - I have been married for almost 10 years, we struggled with isssues of him abusing me and going to prison to my alcohol and drug use. In Jan of this year we ended up fighting and he kicked me out. I went to rehab only to come out and he was seeing another woman. He wont talk to ... (95 words

He always wants to brush his teeth and use a mouthwash after oral sex!!!!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

5 March 2010 (F age 51-59 - My boyf of 18 months has always wanted to brush his teeth or use mouthwash after performing oral sex on me. I have never been with a man who does this and I always come away feeling very offended and undesirable. Why does he do this..... help!!!! Keep in mind no other men ... (72 words

How can someone who wants to marry you turn around and find someone else immediately?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

5 March 2010 (M age 36-40 - How can someone who wants to marry you turn around and find someone else immediately? It's been two months after almost three years. I'm still hurting and she started dating someone else almost immediately. ... (35 words

Why does my ex stiffen up every time he sees me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

5 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Ok so i saw my ex today we usually only see each other passing by on the road i live in kind of a small town i guess theres basically the same roads to get from one side of town to the other. But today was weird were rite next to each other at a stop light. It was totally a... (331 words

Depressed every after 2 weeks, I seriously want to get out of this situation...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

5 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - hi everyone. I know I have to forget my ex as he is not good for me. However, try as I might... i really still cannot forget this lucky asshole. Most days I am okay and I tell myself, "to hell with him, he can get lost forever". But still I have this episodes of depression co... (153 words

Completely Lost...

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

5 March 2010 (M age 51-59 - 5 1/2 years ago, I met a woman. At the time I was married for 10 years, with two children. I thought I had a happy marriage, but since then, I'm not sure. My new relationship started off harmless, she was married too. As time went on, things became more involved. I quickly ... (199 words

Boyfriend watches porn but not in mood for me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

5 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - ok, I have read some of the same posts but would like to also share my dilemma and could use advice and support. My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months, lived together for 4.5 months. 3 months ago,I rolled over in bed and caught him viewing porn and masturba... (693 words

Why won't my boyfriend work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

5 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been dating two months but have known each other four years. He got laid off from work an now doesnt have a job and says he has been looking for one but i dont see it. I try to encourage him to get out there and find one.but he doesnt seem to take my ... (111 words

My husband's family is driving me nuts!!! Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

5 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - I am very confused what to do about my situation and need some advice! I've been married for 3 yrs. in August and we have been together 5 yrs in August. I have been having issues with my in-laws since our bachelor and ette party...let me break it down...I invited my mother ... (587 words

Dumped and still don't know what to do!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

5 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - So he dumped me on Monday (over something pretty small). The problem is that he seriously lacks communication and instead of talking out problems and issues, he just runs away. I want him back!!! I've been doing pretty good with the no contact thing, because although I miss him ... (357 words

My friend envies anyone around her that has a child or gets pregnant how do I stop her from feeling sorry for herself?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

5 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - my friend has pcos(doesnt have periods so chances of her getting pregnant are slim) she gets jealous of anyone who has a child or if she finds out someone is pregnant she goes on self destruct feeling sorry for herself. She's recently found out that her sister is pregna... (202 words

Is she stringing me along...?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

5 March 2010 (M age 51-59 - Hello All, I have been in an almost two-year relationship with a married woman. Things are wonderful when we are together and that is 5-10 times a month and we talk every day. She is 16 years younger than her husband and tells me they have nothing in common. She tells me she... (153 words

How do I deal with these bad boys?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

5 March 2010 (F age 26-29 - at school normally im seen as the good girl. im the quiet one. the clever one. the one that never does anything bad. never been drunk. dont have sex. saying that.....never had a boyfriend.... my problem is, i've fallen hard for a bad boy. i have told him but he's taken so for ... (87 words

Is this relationship worth fighting for dispite his issues? I feel life he's my other half.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

5 March 2010 (F age 51-59 - Hi Aunts and Uncles. I'm looking for help about my relationship. I've been with my partner for 7.5 years now and I really love him. I have never loved anyone as much as him and I feel as though he is my other half, an anchor and I feel so happy when I see him. The thing ... (371 words

Could I be pregnant, even though the test said I wasn't and I've been bleeding?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5127 days ago

5 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - i had sex on the 1st and 4th of feb and my period is about 28 days cycle. i had my period on 13 jan, after this sex i was waiting for my period which should be coming on 11 of feb. but it does not come, also i felt it is coming my breast is sore and tender, swelling at some ... (158 words

I'm worried about the 15 year age gap. I'm scared he'll leave me when I age before he does.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5127 days ago

5 March 2010 (M age 51-59 - Dear Cupid: I am 40 years old and homossexual. In the past I have been in 2 relationships for 5 and 6 years respectively. Now I have been with a partner 15 years younger for nearly a year. We get along very well as we have the same interests in music, movies, places to go, ... (220 words

I want to gain weight. but don't know how. I'm tired of being so skinny.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

5 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - I know this is not the type of question 2 ask,,,but i really need your help....i need your advice on what pill to take to make me gain weight...am just sick and tired of being so skinny!!!... (37 words

What are some precautions I should take when starting a friendship with an older man?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

5 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - OK,So I was on the bus and I heard two guys speak about America,one was like 30ish and the other was an old man,around 70.They didn't know each other,they were just conversating.Since I have a passion for America,I kindly interrupted them and asked the old man if he has lived ... (334 words

Should I back off and let him try to sort it out with his ex of 7 years?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5127 days ago

5 March 2010 (F age 51-59 - Hi. I have a question re ex girlfriends. If a guy has been with a woman for 7 years and they broke up because of differences but still care for each other and could still sort out their issues and the ex really misses him, needs him and wants to sort stuff out but the guy is ... (120 words

This crush on my boss...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

5 March 2010 (M age 36-40 - I have a crush on my boss. She's around my age, and as far as I know, she's not currently in a relationship. She has a lot of the same interests as I do, and she seems like a really nice person. She's also not that high up on the management ladder to where it would be a problem ... (142 words

Help!!! I don't know what to do about him any more... any ideas?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

5 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - We met about 2 years ago i was 17 and he was 25, we dated 4 over a year, we loved each other a lot, we broke up about 6 months ago he said he wasnt happy with me but we was still hanging out and having sex, he wanted 2 be friends even though i didnt want to, i agreed and now ... (243 words

Help!!! Is this the beginning of the end for us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5127 days ago

5 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - well, iv been with my boyfriend for about two and a half years. lately, hes just started his first full time job, and im so pleased for him, but he claims its the reason he keeps 'forgetting' things, as he has 'a lot on his mind'. for example, on saturday, we arranged for him ... (268 words

Do I have any chance or am I just another "good friend?"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5127 days ago

5 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - basically there is this guy that i've been interested in for about a month. and well, my problem is: i don't know if the things he does is just of pure kindness as a friend or not! (like... does he only think of me as a friend or is there a chance he might like me?) making th... (428 words

Abusers... are you willing to be honest here???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

5 March 2010 (F age - Are their any abusers willing to tell the truth about why they want to hurt people they claim to love, and are their any abusers or batterers who want to stop but don't know where to get help, or if you have recieved help anywhere did it help you. ... (49 words

Penis panic!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

5 March 2010 (M age 30-35 - Hi, i am an 18 year old lad and i am a bit worried about what i have seen on my penis. When i pull my forskin back there are little red dots on my bell end and ive never had this before so am just wondering if there is anything wrong? I dont sleep around but i have been seeing ... (102 words

Would starting a relationship with someone help me get over my crush?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

5 March 2010 (M age 41-50 - I'm in a rut. I'm completely infatuated with a close friend who is currently in a relationship. I have difficulty getting her out of my mind. We email and talk all the time and I would like to find out if there is more there, but I don't want to risk the friendship either. ... (208 words

Always on the outside and lonely...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

5 March 2010 (F age - I seem to be a failure in everything I do try. I realise it cant be everyone else's fault all the time it has to be me, I dont know where I go wrong. I was brought up in children's homes with no family, my marriage failed, every time I joined a job becasue I was looking for ... (287 words

Is it too late... or should I tell him how I REALLY feel???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

5 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - I have this guy friend, we was dating when we was in high school but somehow we lost touch with each other but now we have been talking for about 4 years, he had a girlfriend and i was still with my boyfriend but now I'm single we have been seeing each other, he told me that he ... (155 words

Why doesn't he make his move???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

5 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I don't know whether its in my head, does he see me as a friend or more? I'm going crazy! If you look at my previous post he didnt end his online message with a x you'll get the jist of it. http://www.dea... (483 words

I can't believe that no one remembers my birthday

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

5 March 2010 (F age 51-59 - So I'll be 45 in two days. My kids are grown, and I've been dating this guy for 2 years. He has 3 kids; 13, 15, 21. I am currently staying with him until I close on my house (he wanted me to live with him, but the house is too small and I just can't. I bought a house 2 miles ... (332 words

Her boyfriend keeps beating her up! How can I make her see sense?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

5 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - hey guyz. i hav a friend whose boyfriend is always beating her up. he always turns aggressive when asked about his suspicious behaviour and ends up beating her. it breaks my heart to see her like that, probably coz i have been developing feelings for her lately. the thing is ... (100 words

He hates me now!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5127 days ago

5 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - He hates me now... hmm...? To keep it short... my ex hates me because he thinks he's the one who broke it off, not me. i wanted to talk to him about this and asked him for dinners but he asked me to "wait till he's free". we haven't been talking for 3 weeks now and i cant l... (136 words

I can't look at my boyfriend when I give him a blow job!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

5 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I can't seem to look at my boyfriend while I'm giving him head! Like he looks at me when he's giving me oral and I find it sexy but I feel wierd if I look at him like we have been dating two years and I have never looked at him when I give him head. Can I do anything to help ... (64 words

What actually is a rebound? Am I his rebound?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

5 March 2010 (F age 51-59 - Hi Guys, I'm confused re 'rebound'. I've been dating this guy for about 6 weeks and I'm wondering if I am his rebound? What is the proper definition of a rebound? He was with his ex properly for 5 years then that last couple of years they were 'on/off' and even all of last ... (568 words

I'm having trouble accepting the way he treats women because of his culture, is it true all men from the middle east are like this?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

5 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Ok, my boyfriend is Kurdish. I love him so much but ive got the biggest problem with some of his attitudes, mainly about women but about other things as well. It's not just him, all his friends also have these attitudes, I'm told frequently that women are stupid, everybod... (255 words

Why do I only like older women?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

5 March 2010 (M age 30-35 - Basically,what the title says. I'm 21,and seem to only be interested in older women.I don't know why this is. I have found younger girls attractive,but they just don't "do it for me" like older women do.I dont know how to explain it. I have no idea why I am this way. ... (84 words

Crush.....on a woman?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

5 March 2010 (F age 26-29 - I'm a teenage girl, who is completely straight. Anyone who knows me in real life knows I always have some crazy infatuation with one of our cute guy teachers. However, I joined drama club, and have developed this weird crush for our female choreographer. She's young, and so ... (121 words

How do I talk to him about this when we only see each other every 3 to 4 weeks when that time should be special and stress free?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

5 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - so im re posting this question because no one answered.. my boyfriend never calls me or texts me. We are in a L.D.R and we have been friends for many years and he has always been this way not just with me but with other friends as well but i thought that if we became a couple h... (297 words

Would you consider a joke about pregnancy to be a deal-breaker?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

5 March 2010 (M age 36-40 - Would you consider a joke about pregnancy to be a deal-breaker? my Gf and my friend both decided it would be a good idea to play a prank on me, which i found really hurtful and distasteful. i was out last night and on the way home she was texting me that i shouldnt spend... (506 words

Do we have a future or am I just a girlfriend to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

5 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - I am 34yo, I have been divorced for almost 2 years. I have been dating this man for almost 4 months. He too has been divorced for almost 2 years. We get along great, he spends every spare second with me. I recently lost my job and he is completely supporting me. He stays the ... (457 words

Is this behaviour normal? My boyfriend is starting to sound a little crazy

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

5 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - i am in a committed relationship.its going to be 8 months,well my bf really loves me a lot,no doubt in that.its a ldr. umm...sometimes my bf sounds crazy,i mean just for fun he will abuse me,make fun of me,will call me a fool!when i say why is he doing that...he says i really ... (278 words

Is my penis too small to have sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

5 March 2010 (M age 26-29 - hey me and my girlfriend have planned to have sex next weekend but my penis is only 5.5 inches long what should i do ... (24 words

I don't think he has the time for me, or maybe he just doesn't want to make the time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5128 days ago

5 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - I met this nice sweet guy we went on our first date and it was nice. He says he works a lot and they switch up his shifts. Sense our first date I haven't really heard from him. So I text him asking him what's the problem and he says his been working. I told him I work two jobs ... (127 words

He stares at me in class but nothing else, and I have a huge crush on him!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

5 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - so here s the story there s a guy in my college wel he stares at me and even i have a crush on him but i dont know how to approach him i dont want him to think that i m a flirt he just stares at me nothing more then that what do i do?i really want to talk to this guy...somebody ... (69 words

My bf is addicted to shemale porn!

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5 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - What do I do or think about my bf of a year watching and jerking off to shemale porn. I've found saved porn websites with videos of tranies and stuff. I confronted him and he said it was a bad habbit but he's not gay and I my wants to be with me. He said he would stop and ... (159 words

My boyfriend wants a roommate who is a girl.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

5 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have had our ups and downs in our relationship. But we have gotten back together and this time it just felt like everything was right, like it was really going to work and the timing before was just off. Well, until tonight. He has been talking about ge... (504 words

Could she still want me? I want her.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

5 March 2010 (M age 36-40 - So I me and my girl broke ulna few weeks ago we were not at the I love you stage I did love her just never said it. We've tried staying friends and it's working but the problem is I still want to be with her. I think she fills the same just cant tell. Little more in to it we've ... (271 words

I'm more interested in the new guy than the guy I am seeing.

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5 March 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hi, i have a problem at the moment, my friend from school hooked me up with one of his friends he met in tutor, and we met on chinese new year festival, he was really good looking and i really liked him , the first day we met we already held hands and hugged. duri... (239 words

Why are parents happy when a son loses his virginity, but not the daughter?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

5 March 2010 (F age 26-29 - why when a son lose his virginity, the parents are so happy and proud? But when a daughter lose her virginity, the parents are so upset and mad?... (28 words

Is this too much to take on when my friend's death is so fresh in my mind?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5128 days ago

5 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - So I had asked for advice before when I was trying to deal with survivors guilt over the loss of my friend and just so everyone knows right off the bat, it has gotten better. So I hacve set up a team (Mary's Hope) for the local Walk To Defeat ALS in my area, in her memory. B... (158 words

I ejaculated in her face and now she is ignoring me.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

5 March 2010 (M age 30-35 - Well it all started when my freind suggested we hav sex ill admit it was great but it all went wrong when she went to finish me off she sucked me then told me to cum in her mouth i couldnt hold it long enough and ejaculated that hard i ended up geting her alover the face she ... (98 words

I'm still a virgin and waiting for the 'right guy'. But does he even exist?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4849 days ago

5 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hey guys how are you doing? I do not really have a serious problem but it is sometimes socially inconvenient. I am an 18year old girl, I am kind of attractive (guys have told me so in various ways), I am a sophomore in college and I am still a virgin. I never thought about sex ... (338 words

I am not as experienced as my girlfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5128 days ago

5 March 2010 (M age 26-29 - Okay so . Ive just started going out with this amazeing girl ! And she has had many relationships before me and is way more experianced than I and i was just looking for some advice on how to not look stupid . Like i havent even kissed any body and she has ! .. Thanks !! .... (58 words

How do you talk dirty?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

5 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - How do you talk dirty? I've never understood this for some reason. Like what kind of things do guys want to hear? What if you're just talking over the phone? What kind of things does one say? I ask because I have a semi-long distance relationship thing going on and when we talk ... (68 words

I can't figure out of I really like him or not!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5127 days ago

5 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I'm having trouble deciding on whether or not I truly like this guy or not. But first let me give you some background. There's this super shy guy in a couple of my classes, however recently in the past couple months he has started to talk to me more and more. Now we talk ever... (330 words

Should I tell her we have the same ex boyfriend and I had sex with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5127 days ago

5 March 2010 (F age 26-29 - so recently my ex boyfriend(i broke up with him because he was cocky)asked me to find him a girlfriend do to the fact im bisexual and i have good taste of course me and my ex have had sex(only 1 time)i think he asked me to find him a girl to get me mad which it did in my mind i ... (213 words

Is he attracted to me or just trying to flirt?

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5 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - when i was 12,i was having a very gud frnd.but i got transferred and lost contact.but now i m 16 and somehow he searched me on orkut and asked my phone no.i gave and i was happy to be in contact with him again.but his behavoiur has changed..i mean he msgs me the whole day!i ... (194 words

I broke up with my boyfriend thinking he would want me back, now I don't know what to do!

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5 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi everyone i need advice i broke up with my boyfriend thinking it would make him see wat he had once it was gone but he didnt chase after me we barely talk now he says he misses me after i tell him i miss him but i cant stop thinking about him he took my virginity so i feel a ... (102 words

She thinks of me like a brother but I don't want to regret not telling her I like her.

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5 March 2010 (M age 26-29 - Ok I've been friends with this girl for about 2 years know and I have been very attracted to her but our families know eAch other ( witch is awkward) and I went over to her house was expecting a little sumtin sumtin but nada ?nothing happend I was dissapointed but it's fine ... (136 words

I'm moving back in with him but my mother hates him!

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5 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - hello I'm 27 yrs old I've been living with my mother and step father since last year reason being i lost my job because i was pregnant. i was engaged to my daughter's father who was living with a room mate at the time. we were saving to move in together but it all went towards ... (410 words

I got my period but it was really heavy and just for one day. Could I be pregnant?

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5 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - alright so me and my now ex boyfriend had sex between the day i was most fertile and ovulation and the day that i was just fertile since then ive been showing early signs of pregnancy..i got my period but it was a day early and wasnt a real period it was heavy for a day and now ... (67 words

Should I start a fight with the player or just keep quiet?

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5 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - Hi, I basically got played by a guy I had met a few times. The third time I was out with a load of guys and he didn’t seem to like it and was acting a bit jealous and possessive. He thought it was strange for a girl to be out with a group of guys. He starting being r... (576 words

I told him I wasn't a virgin and he seemed different.

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5 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - I met this guy a year ago, just friendly acquaintances, the last month or so we have been hanging out, big time flirting! Texting, touching hands hugging but no kissing. Well an hour ago we had the longest texting session ever! Ugh my bill!!! Anyway he asked if I was a virgin... (174 words

After 5 years, when do you give up or keep working?

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5 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together 5years. During these 5years we have broken up twice, for at the most 2months, but we never saw other people. Our main problem and pretty much only problem is my jealousy! He has put up with a lot from me over the years, he's been more than ... (437 words

I don't want to dump him but I can't stand being ignored anymore!

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5 March 2010 (F age 26-29 - okay, im only 15 and ive been dating my bf for about 7 months ( he dumped me for like 3 weeks and we got back together. ). when we are by ourselves, he's the funniest guy ever, but lately, that not the case. he comes to my house once a week and its usually for under 30 min. he ... (152 words

I'm tired of dating his kids...

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5 March 2010 (? age - so.... been dating this guy for 8+ years. He has 3 kids, they are now in their early 20s and one is turning 18 this year. I've spent countless weekends sitting at his house with the kids and watching tv, playing board games, going to baseball games, etc., etc. Finally now they ... (349 words

I haven't talked to a girl since I was 9 and I don't know what to talk about!

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5 March 2010 (M age 30-35 - im 16 There is a girl i like really much and i believe she likes me to because we have been passing down low hints and today i believe we are starting to really like each other but the thing is i don't know how to talk to girl i havent had a girlfriend since i was 9 and i don't ... (97 words

How can I make him act less awkward towards me?

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5 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I have known this guy since jr. high. We are completely different, I am very outgoing and he is extremely shy and awkward. I would have never had interest in him ever, and I am sure that he would have never had interest in me. But sometime randomly, we both just began talking a ... (182 words

Our priest is acting very creepy.

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5 March 2010 (F age 26-29 - I am a 14 year old girl in eighth grade. I go to a Catholic school, and my priest is an absolute creep. He is the type of guy that if u saw just walking down the street you would notice something sketchy about him. Lets call him Fr. B. He has this really cute dog and he comes ... (339 words

My best friend keeps insulting my boyfriend.

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5 March 2010 (F age 26-29 - I am 13 years old.I have been going out with this guy for almost 3 months now.I really like him and things have been going pretty good lately.The only problem is that my best friend in the whole world absolutely hates him!It didn't bother me so much at first because she barely ... (268 words

What causes a person to leave their partner unexpectedly?

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5 March 2010 (M age 41-50 - What causes people who have been in long relationships to just all of the sudden become uninterested? not speaking of abusive or any off type relationships, but people who just have general problems, but seem allright, then one day one of them just up and splits without ... (160 words

Should I give my boyfriend a hand job, if so then how?

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5 March 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hey so I'm 14, and my boyfriend and I have been going out for like around a month. We've gone to third, but I havent given him a hannjob or a bj. Andd my friend keeps telling me that i should give him a handjob, but I've never given one before and I wouldnt really know what... (86 words

I found 'brutalized anal' pornography in my boyfriend's computer history!

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5 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - While using my boyfriends computer the other day, a history item popped up in his search engine as I was trying to type, it was some of his porn viewing history. I don't have a problem with porn but what came up was a search for 'brutalized anal'. This has me really thinkin... (100 words

My father says he will disown me if I date a black man!

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5 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - My dad said he'll disown me if I ever bring a black guy home(I'm white and don't live with my mom). I'm attracted to guys of all races, and I find myself being attracted to black guys, more than white guys. Until I knew where my dad stands on the topic, it never concerned me.. ... (154 words

My boyfriend moved out. Do you think he will try to come back?

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5 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, The other night, my boyfriend packed his stuff and left. He said we were finished for good and that he doesn't love me anymore. I don't know what to think, because he has done this one other time before, in which he came running back to me saying that he loves me... (244 words

I'm in love with my best friend. Does he really love me or is he just stringing me along?

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5 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - A while ago something happened which I never thought would happen to me...I fell in love with my best friend. I spent a while wondering whether I should tell him or not and one day I did. Finding out that he felt the same way was the happiest moment of my life...it was ... (271 words

Why do I keep thinking about my coach?

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5 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - It’s almost been a year now that I first met my coach I would soon grow to admire and still do to this day. Here’s my (long) recap: Before tryouts, I had no clue what to expect from him, but I’d heard that he’s pretty fun to be around, etc. (He’s a pretty popular teacher). ... (1053 words

Any time I try to talk to him about my problems he calls me a drama queen!

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5 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - I have been involved with a man whom I have been with for several years. It seems as if he is changing, he use to be a marine, and I am wondering if something is wrong with him psychological, he is determined that what he says is it and no matter how he may be wrong, he has a... (353 words

Stuck between two girls, both I really like.

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5 March 2010 (M age 30-35 - Well I really don't know what to do. I kinda like two different girls, I say like because I'm not in love with either one of them and I don't believe in saying it until you mean it. Anyway the first one is Trish, she's beautiful, she's funny, she's... well she's a lot of ... (343 words

When should I kiss her!?

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5 March 2010 (F age 26-29 - I'm 14, female, and bi. I've been going out with this girl for the second time. This time we've been together for two weeks, and two weeks the last time as well. So, my friends and one of hers think she wants to kiss me. I really don't know...shes very touchy so its kind of ... (96 words

I beleive he's the one, but I'm not 100% sure if he likes me!

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5 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hey. I’d really like someone else’s prospective on this. It’s driving me mad! I’ve been msning a mutual friend for a year and a half ish and I’ve fallen for him. He’s the first person I’ve ever really liked and I don’t know why I like him. I’m really fussy when it comes to... (365 words

Is there something wrong with not being attracted to a penis?

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5 March 2010 (? age 30-35 - Is there something wrong with not being attracted to a penis? For some odd reason, I can't watch heterosexual porn. I'm an 18 year old girl with a boyfriend, but I watch lesbian porn sometimes. Well, just today, I was watching something, and a scene popped up with a man and ... (134 words

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