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writes:Me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 months+ and we used to spend a lot of time together, he practically lives here and we are totally in love, but now it feels like we spend even less time together hes always out on his bike with his dad or with his mates then when he gets back its late and i am sorting out my daughter so after that its usually time for bed, ive tried telling him and he says everything's fine, but im getting down i feel like all i do is sit in waiting for him to come back, i see my friends still, but i want to do things with him as well, why is he doing this? Reply to this Question
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reader, tofulove  +, writes (29 March 2010):
It isn't possible to keep the totally in love feeling forever. What I mean is you can still be totally in love together, but it won't always being spending time together. Usually the first six months of a relationship are getting to know each other. You are still so new to each other you want & are trying to find everything out about each other. Your boyfriend may feel totally comfortable around you now & doesn't see the need to always be with you. He already has you so he doesn't feel like he will lose you, unless you give him reason to feel that way. Unless you suspect him cheating there is nothing to worry about, I wish I could spend more time doing things with my partner but with a baby & him working full time it is almost impossible. We have been together almost 3 years now so I am just letting you know that usually it gets this way as more time passes. & if you're one of the few or even existant people who are madly in love for their whole life, you are very lucky ;)
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