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Why is he doing things that he knows will hurt me then lying to my face about it?

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28 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Ok... My boyfriend of a year and one month is a sweetheart, but lately he has been absent mindedly hurting me. For example he missed my last performance of the first show that I was cast as the lead in, now he did this to go to a friends birthday party, this I find acceptab... (725 words

Go with this girl and risk losing my friends?

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28 March 2010 (M age 30-35 - Okay I'm in a bit of dilemma there's a girl.. who i like very much. I've known her since primary school so a while ago. Anyway we became good friends after a party, and at that point i was with someone. But i could instantly tell i liked this girl. anyway fast forward 1 y... (417 words

Is it normal for straight males to sometimes have a crush on another male?

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28 March 2010 (M age 36-40 - I am a senior in all boys high school. I play football so I know students from th 9th grade thru the 12th grade. I have a problem. I am not gay, but I am starting to have a crush on a freshman that is 14 years old. He can make me laugh and we do have a good friendship.... (190 words

Saw bruises on my brother that he won't explain ...

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28 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - My younger brother (13) is staying with me for a few days and yesterday I noticed he had bruises on his lower back and I think they go lower but I couldn't see. It looked like he'd maybe been whipped with a belt but I'm not sure. I asked him about them and he became defensive ... (136 words

Anyone have experience with Venlefaxine?

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28 March 2010 (M age 36-40 - Hi there, On my gf's recommendation I went to see a doctor about depression and anxiety as i have suffered for so many years and it became unbearable. I've tried a few things but now have been given Venlefaxine to use. I have been on it foe a couple of weeks now. However,... (145 words

He won't have sex with me anymore...

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28 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - I had finally met him! The guy, the right guy. He was more than everything that I wanted, he was what I needed. We are both in our 30's and have been together now for over a year. While things are not always perfect, they are comfortable, safe and easy. We confide in ... (716 words

Can anyone explain why I feel guilty?

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28 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - Right i wrote here before regarding my alcoholic ex boyfriend who smashed my windows and how he was awful to me. well idiot me got back with him and he got worse and worse he has smashed every window in my house cut the sky cable and just been awful,he is in the cells and hel ... (170 words

My boyfriend is addicted to sex chat lines

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28 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - Hi everyone, I'm not sure what to do. I found out today that my boyfriend has been ringing sex chat lines on a very regular basis, sometimes two or three times a day. I also found that a couple of weeks ago he rang a woman who he used to sleep with. When I asked him why, he ... (402 words

I'm pretty sure she still has feelings for me ...

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28 March 2010 (M age 30-35 - A few months ago, I asked a girl out, and she said no, because she had a girlfriend. I was determined to stay good friends with her and we became closer and closer. Recently, she started kissing me and confessed that she liked me and had been unable to get over me. She told her ... (99 words

If you really loved me, you would do this ...

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28 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - I met my boyfriend about 10 months ago and he lives about and hour and a half away. I spend all my free time with him..which is every saturday and days during the week... and love him very much. he asked me to move six months after dateing and I dont feel ready to move yet. ... (135 words

What can be done about my hair?

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28 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - Ok, this isn't a relationship question but I'm so upset that I can't stand it. I'm upset about my hair, that I'm just crying my heart to pieces as I write this. I'm in tears because I'm so miserable and I need help. It looks shit ugly and I'm embarrassed to be seen in pu... (767 words

How can I get my mum to want to talk to my boyfriend?

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28 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - hey guys i dont know how good you guys are at thinking but i need some ideas and fast ... the thing is that me and my boyfriend have been going out for three months now and my mum still doesnt want to meet him and she wont let him in the house .. so this is the first questi... (155 words

I called him up and a girl answered.

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28 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - is he playing me or what? ok so me and my bf has been together for 18 months, he was my first everything. i truly feel like he loves me. he does the littlest things that make me feel special, all though he is in a different state he still does little things that make me f... (142 words

Why did he start a conversation, only to ignore me half way thru it?

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28 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - hiya im 17 On thurs night i went to a party n got with this guy who i had been talking to for the past 6 months on and off, there being a definate spark. He wouldnt leave my side and held my hand. But was very into 'going somewhere else' if you get my drift which makes me t... (113 words

Falling for a guy I have never met. Help!

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28 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I may sound very creepy. But I have fallen for a guy I have never met. My friends know who he is so he's not a creep. I was talking to him on msn a while back and we kinda arranged to meet and we have been texting a lot. I am always the one who texts first and keeps th... (186 words

Non-savoury discharge... what can this be?

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28 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 16 years old and i've noticed that there is an odd White discharge coming from my vagina and there seem to be small clumps around my clitoris. If I wipe it away it comes back And it's not particularly savoury. I have never had sex or any sexual contact. Anyone feeling ... (59 words

Why didn't she wish me a "happy birthday"??

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28 March 2010 (M age 36-40 - She didn't wish on my B'day..what does it mean..?? Hi, I found myself attracted towards a girl since i met her in a Train journey. During journey only i got her email ID so I started my communication with her via emails and gtalk. But one day i told her about my feeling... (203 words

Don't tell me to get over her - how do I get her back?

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28 March 2010 (M age 30-35 - Met this girl online over 3 years ago and fell in love. She's perfect for me, the most wonderful girl I've ever met in my life and never have any of my physical relationships before her been as wonderful as my relationship with this girl. We would talk for hours, several times ... (236 words

Do guys get excited when they get a little thigh action?

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28 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - Do guys get excited when they are touching a girl's legs? Especially the upper part of the leg?... (18 words

He said his Dad is in the hospital - is he lying and just changed his mind about me?

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28 March 2010 (F - ive currently going out with a guy i havent met yet (i know this sound stupid) we met on a iphone app and started chatting. i asked him to send a pic of him posing with a spoon to prove it was him and we been texting ever since. yesterday(saturday) i got a text from him saying ... (118 words

I want to move, but I'm not sure that my BF and his kids want to come with me...

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28 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year and half. We live together with his two children. I want to move, but I am not sure he wants to come with me, what do I do?... (39 words

My Stepmum has been critical of me lately, would it just be better if I left?

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28 March 2010 (F age 26-29 - Okay so here's the problem. My step mum and dad have been together for about 7 years, they were married 4 years ago when i was 11/12 i didn't really mind, so long as my dad was happy (he and my mum had split up when I was 2 and he hadn't had great partners until he found my... (295 words

Does he really like me for who I am or is he just interested in getting physical?

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28 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I are attached for 1 month plus and he is getting more touchy as in physical contact. We normally ended our outings in romantic outdoor places where he started kissing me and touching me. To be honest, I kinda enjoyed it at first but it was until yesterday that ... (281 words

Signs that he's gay vs. signs that he's not...

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28 March 2010 (M age 30-35 - Give Me your Opinion Please! Signs he IS gay: 1)He Likes Big Time Rush 2)He Listens To Nick Jonas and thinks he is "raw" 3)He Watches The Show "Glee" 4)He Flirts with me and His overall interactions with me are completely different from other guys(but he doe... (643 words

How can I know he's not playing me?

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28 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - Hey, I'm 25 and my boyfriend is 30 years old. His first interest is "sex" and nothing but sex, 15 years having sex as he wishes, I knew him at work I didn't have any relationships before him, he's the first man I know in my life. I kept myself from loving him, especially men ... (517 words

I feel like I'm holding onto someone who isn't meant to be held on to...

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28 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have been in an on and off relationship for a year. i gave up everything for him. i know money doesnt buy happiness but i gave up my ex boyfriend who was in the army and who was doing everything for me, for him. someone who didnt have nothing and still doesnt ... (339 words

Do men become possesive after sex?

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28 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Do men become possesive after sex? I've been with a guy for nearly a year now, and we recently started having sex around the beginning of the year. I've noticed now he occasionally refers to me as me 'my girl' . He wants to see me the whole weekend and weekdays and is now open... (134 words

What do you do with the tongue?

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28 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Quick question when you are giving a blow job, when you put it in your mouth should your tongue rub up against it or is it best to keep it out the way.... (33 words

Why is she lying about snogging him?

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28 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Me and my friends have this thing that you should never go out with a guy if one of your friend s like him Like this includes snogging. I recently found out that One of my friends Broke this thing with a guy i Really like and whats worse she's denying it. It happened at a house ... (241 words

My molester is going to be at this dinner. Should I go?

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28 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - today me and my boyfriend will be going out to dinner along with his mother and brother it was all payed for his brother's company. ok here is were it get's interesting i found out last night that my mother whom i dont get along with will be there with her husband who molested ... (129 words

Do you think I'm headed for a heartbreak?

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28 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - I used to be a happy go lucky kind of girl really, i met a man last year around this time, i met him on line, we got on so we met and things are brilliant when we see each other, we have a alternative relationship D/s (bdsm)..there have been some issues weve crossed which has ... (186 words

Mood swings after ejaculation!

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28 March 2010 (M age 30-35 - Ok, always after i ejaculation from masturbating i have maybe 6 ssecs of pleasure then it all turns to hate, anger, and depression all towards myself. But after about 10 mins im back to my normal self and i always go back to doing the same thing. Why??? ... (52 words

How do I handle this situation with this seller on ebay?

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28 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - Hi. I was wondering if you could offer some advice about this ?. I won a bid on ebay for some concert tickets, and paid for them straight away. It has now been three weeks since i paid for them, and i still haven't received them. I sent the seller a message, asking when the ... (212 words

Help!!! I had a one night stand with my friend's friend and I feel really disgusting and dirty.

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28 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Last night I got stupidly drunk which I don't normally do. I've never been that drunk in my life and I did something completely out of character. I had a one night stand with my friend's friend and I feel really disgusting and dirty. It was my first time as well so I bled a bit ... (140 words

What on earth is up with my teacher and the food?! please help

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28 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - My teacher brought in cake/sweets for our class because it was end of term. He does this usually, it is really lovely of him he has brought in things like Krispy Kremes for our year 12 (like 11th grade?) sixth form class before, and only us not the other classes he teaches, ... (626 words

I miss him so badly! How can I see him before July?

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28 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - ok i have to post this question again auz i didn't got ne reply except 1... i am in a commited relationship. i and my bf love each other like mad.. its a ldr. ok so the situation is that few months back my bf used to visit me every month and we used to have sexual activiti... (249 words

Friend or more than that?!!

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28 March 2010 (M age 30-35 - I have a very good friend of mine, we stay in college all day together, even now when the college is off, everyday she calls me atleast once. But the thing is she is scared to meet me off the college coz she is scared that someone might see us together and get a wrong ... (120 words

Any advice as I am hurting my husband but I just can't force myself to participate.

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28 March 2010 (F age - My husband has a child from a previous relationship. The mother of the child is very protective of him and really does not like to let him out of her sight. He is her only child. The child stays with my husband alternate weekends. when the child is there the mother rings approx ... (264 words

What's the best way to act round about a guy you really like?

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28 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hey all, I'm 14 and i'm confident, ive been told im okay-looking etc. But when im around a boy i like, i get very uncomfortable and awkward. classic right? I'd just like some help, whats the best way to attract him, keep him thinking about me and want to talk to me etc? what... (75 words

What happens to your sex life when you get married?

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28 March 2010 (F - What happens to your sex life when you get married (or are in a long term living arrangement)? Why does the sex always wane, and the relationship become almost platonic? Is it because you're together every day? I've seen in time and again and even in my own relationships. But ... (119 words

Help! What are the signs that a shy guy likes you?

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28 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hello. What are the signs that a shy guy likes you? Are there any hints at all? Thanks.... (22 words

Should I give him more?

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28 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - i need some advice this is quite long but here goes I have gotton myself into a situation i am not very proud of. I am 27 female never had a boyfriend and lack confidence. I fell for someone at work who i know just wants a bit of 'fun' no strings, i was never happy with the set ... (311 words

He won't communicate with me and says our relationship is over. Should I just let him go like that, or try to get him to talk?

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28 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - It's a long story but I recently traveled overseas to be with the guy I love for three months so that I could find out once and for all if we were in any way compatible. Yeah, I know, it was crazy, but it was a once in a lifetime opportunity, it was free, and I could take a job ... (547 words

Independence after the breakup

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28 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I've just broken up with my boyfriend of 11 months and it hurts. The breakup was coming for a while, but I put it out of my head because I thought maybe feelings would change and we would want to continue after I left university and he stayed on. We spoke, properly, and he ... (324 words

How to get in the mood for sex???

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28 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend of one year have decided to start having sex. but for some reason every time we try i cant seem to get wet enough?? we have tried forplay but nothing seems to work? therefore he starts to take it personally and thinks hes not doing somthing right or isnt ... (146 words

Am I falling in love with someone else?

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28 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Heya, I have been in a long term relationship for around a year and a half now. I absolutely love my boyfriend but recently i've been getting feelings for another guy now. MY bf lives far away so we don't see each other much but talk on the fone at least once a day. This oth... (115 words

I want to have afair with my boss.

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28 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - This might sound silly, but I want to have afair with my boss. I'm 20, he's 23 and as a student i work in his family bar. It's not that i like him because of his power, because we communicate on very friendly way. He's single, he has good body and he doesn't seem to be my soul ... (332 words

Worried in case I've caught an STD!

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28 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I'm a little confused here as to what to think. Last weekend i had sex with my ex boyfriend (silly i know, and I'm not proud of it) but it happened and I'm a little worried about STDs. I currently have a boyfriend who I also have an unprotected sex life with (I'm on the ... (179 words

I want to fight!

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28 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - my name is Gillian i am 16 and i have a problem i cant solve, i am a normal girl into normal things except i love to fight, its all i dream about and think about all day, i just want it so much it is a massive thing for me. I especially want to fight a woman much older than ... (290 words

How can I mention all of this to her without her splitting up with me and being upset...?

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28 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I have been with another female for nearly a year. I am 21 and she is 30. She has 3 kids and we have recently got a house together. She works on Wednesday and Thursday evenings and Saturdays 6am-6pm and Sundays 6am-4pm. I am the one that does most of the cleaning, look aft... (297 words

How long is too long to try getting back with somebody?

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28 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - How long is too long to try getting back with somebody? I broke up with my ex-boyfriend in March 2009 and recently I've been wanting to try and get him back. It was a long distance relationship and I don't think I was mature enough at the time to deal with that. (When we first ... (175 words

Did I screw up again?

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28 March 2010 (M age 30-35 - im not sure what to do in this situation. i told the girl i love that i couldnt be her friend no more because i respect her relationship with her boyfriend and the fact that he makes her happy and the love they share. ive had suspission's that she does in fact have feelings ... (423 words

Should I give up and try move on with my life as hard as it seems?

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28 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. I love him so much and ive never been like this before with anyone but Recently we have been arguing a lot and its getting more and more serious arguments. I believe in trust making a relationship work but i'm afraid ive lost all ... (468 words

In love with my mate but it's getting me down!

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28 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Im so depressed its unreal, its taken over my life. Ive been in love with my mate for a few years. To the point where i cant bare to go to long without seing him. I feel lost, hurt and generally like lifes falling apart. I cant stop crying. We havent had a great past becau... (525 words

What do you do when your relationship is in crisis?

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28 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hey everybody, I'm 21, I am in such a rediculous situatuion, its like im stuck in a bad dream, and i cant wake up. Ive been with my "ex" now for going on two years in april that is if we survive this situation. Its a long story but i guess i can give you the cliff notes...... (501 words

Exposed my former wife's lies, but still unsure of my future

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28 March 2010 (M age - I'm in my early stages of a breakup and I'm pretty sure i want to go forward from here. i will keep it in point form as it is a long history: recently found out that my partner has been seeing another man, was/am super pissed off. she denied it initially. went on the offensiv... (270 words

How do I get her to believe me when I say she's beautiful?

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28 March 2010 (M age 30-35 - I have been dating this AMAZING girl for almost 7 months now, and every time, tell her, she's beautiful, or amazing, she just kind of blows it off, but then someone else can say something like "wow you look good" and she'll thank them and a agree in some cases. She's already ... (79 words

Is my counsellor attracted to me?

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28 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - I think my counsellor is attracted to me... So I started seeing a counsellor a few months ago and I have noticed her energy level towards me is very high and overly happy to see me. Some examples would be when I am around campus and she see's me her face lights up and ... (206 words

Why do my close friends always seem to like the guy I like?

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28 March 2010 (F age 26-29 - Maybe it's my taste in guys, maybe it's a curse, I don't know. But it seems like every guy that I like one of my close friends would like him. I've liked only a few guys since becoming a freshman, but it seems every guy I pick, one of my friends come out and say, "I like him... (123 words

Help! Problems with sex!!!

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28 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have tried several times to have sex but we are both virgins and dont know what to do. First time we tried we spent half an hour trying to find the 'spot' but it would always slip out. Can this happen because of nerves? Can yall give me some pointers on what ... (61 words

Do EX's change?

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28 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - I am 28, my ex-boyfriend is 30. We had been together for 4 years and have been apart for one year. The reason why we broke up was that I couldn't take the stress anymore from not trusting him. After two years we were together, he cheated on me; not just one-nigh... (667 words

I am sexually active and the guiltiness wont go away

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28 March 2010 (F age 26-29 - im 15 and i love my boyfriend i know he truely loves me because he demonstrates it every day with his actions.We've had sex several times but i feel very guilty afterwards because i feel like im letting myself and my mom down.Im a catholic and my mom always tells me to save ... (76 words

My ex girlfriend asked me if I would ever have a threesome!

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28 March 2010 (M age 41-50 - ok so as the title says, my ex girl friend asked me if i would ever have a threesome a while back. im not sure if it was just a question to see what kind of guy i was or if she was serious? i dont really think she's into girls but i just have that feeling that she might be, she ... (176 words

Do female orgasms feel the same as male organsms?

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28 March 2010 (M age 30-35 - I was making love to my girlfriend, I was laying on my back and she was on top of me, she told me she was feeling that "urge-to-pee" sensation, which I almost instantly recognized as what girls feel when they're close to orgasm, or something like that. She was screaming like ... (315 words

I've just discovered the boy I like is much younger and just a kid

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28 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - There's this guy I like so much but I don't even talk to him. I don't know him either. I recently found out he's possibly one or two years younger than me. Couldn't tell cos he was so tall and seemed matured. Now I feel so down, cos I don't know what to do. I have tried hard ... (72 words

I know I shouldn't have cheated, so how can I have a future with her?

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28 March 2010 (M age 30-35 - Im currently engaged to my beautiful fiance, who i have been with for a year now... We started dating in march 2009. It started out as a physical relationship for like the first month, and eventually the emotions got deeper. But at the same time i was still with my ex , and ... (810 words

I am worried my brother in law's son might try something with me

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28 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - I m 37 having 2 kids. Both studing in 12th and 10th standard. I m house wife and my husband is a worker in oil factory. My husband met an accident and is in hospital from last 3 months. My brother-in-law and nephew has been paying all the hospital bills and our livelyhood as we ... (527 words

I'm having a sexual relationship with my housemate, and things are getting confusing. What should I do now?

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28 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - Several months ago, I started having a sexual relationship with one of my housemates. To make matters more complicated, he was my first. Since then, we have continued to have a secret (from our other housemate) affair. Several times we have mentioned breaking it off or seeing ... (163 words

Do boys never make passes at girls wearing glasses?

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28 March 2010 (F age 26-29 - What do guys think of girls who wear glasses?I wear them and I seem to get a lot of attention but I was just wondering... (25 words

Why does my girlfriend keep using dating sites, when we are supposed to be serious about each other?

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28 March 2010 (M age 36-40 - Ugh! I'm sick and tired of trying to deal with problems. I cannot begin to tell you the feeling I have of possibly knowing that I could be sharing my girlfriend... Why say that? Because I found out that whilst I was away in HK she had gone back to the dating site China Love ... (1389 words

I feel like we were fine just a few days ago! But now my boyfriend does not seem himself

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28 March 2010 (F age 36-40 - hi, i really hope some of you can help me. my boyfriend and i have been together for just over two years. he went through a rough patch late last year when he was having problems finding a job (and graduated college 6 months before that). we have been long distance since w... (806 words

I know its selfish but I want him to come home

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28 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - how can i persuade him to come home My boyfriend and i have been together for alomost a year now but hes taken a job oppertunity in the states for 8 months. weve been through so much together and it was so hard for me to watch him go. i miss him so much, we still talk every... (182 words

Why would a guy ask you if you had a boyfriend in my situation?

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28 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - What does it mean if a guy asks you if you have a boyfriend? I was seeing this guy casually on and off for about a year (and also sleeping with him), and then one day during the end of last October we had a misunderstanding that caused me to get angry at him and I basically ... (184 words

Porn problems...

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28 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - Just to warn you guys, yes this is another girl who is insecure over porn question. I, like most women, am with a guy who happens to watch porn. Yes, it does make me a bit insecure. I am thinking though if I could understand it a bit better I might be able to get ov... (131 words

If I pretend this doesn't bother me will I get her back???

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28 March 2010 (M age 41-50 - Well, The day before my gf was talking about cuddling with me and then yesterday she didn't want to do anything with me, not even talk. I asked her why she didn't want to talk, she said because she was talking to her friends. I was wondering why she couldn't talk to me and ... (389 words

Bad fit!

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28 March 2010 (M age 41-50 - I have an amazing relationship with my girlfriend, no complaints at all, our sex life leaves much to be desired. With a combination of both our anatomies, my guy doesn't fit very well to say the least. We're to the point now at least where she can enjoy it and gets off, but I ... (107 words

We started dating too soon after she broke up with her ex!

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28 March 2010 (M age 36-40 - I've dated a girl who is still getting over difficult relationship. Shes been with someone for a year and both were expected to get married, but out of the blue, he left her and that was it. 3 months later, we started going out. It went well, but we broke up a week later ... (98 words

My girlfriend is spending the night in a house alone with this flirt!

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28 March 2010 (M age 41-50 - OK now my girlfriend who is 20 years old, she is in costa rica for internship and staying with a host family. Now the host family is really nice but she has told me that the host father is a flirt. He is a nice guy but at times he would hug her or touch her arms when no one is ... (204 words

I think my step brother has a crush on me!

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28 March 2010 (F age 26-29 - I don't want to sound bigheaded I just want to know what other people think. I think my future step-brother likes me. What should I do? My mum and da got divorced not too long ago and my mums partner has a son. The first time I met him he acted weird around me and it mad... (212 words

He's telling me he thinks it isn't working out ...

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28 March 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hey everyone. I need help and fast. I met this guy a month ago and we went out 2 weeks later. So far we have been going out for 2 weeks and all of a sudden he is telling me that he thinks its not working out and his feelings are starting to go away. Were only with each other at ... (191 words

Should I cancel this trip so he realizes I'm serious?

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28 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - I just can't believe the incident that occured with me and my boyfriend. I went to meet him because he was waiting for his daughter to get dropped off by her mother..so, while I'm in the car with him and his daughter he ask's his ex if she needs a ride to the nearest train ... (241 words

Am I just stuck in this rut forever?

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28 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - I just want a LIFE!! I'm so sick of living in this rut which is such a pathetic excuse for one, but I feel so trapped. I'm so embarrassed, I feel like such a loser. My life sucks!! I've never had a career, just crummy jobs, and I'm trapped in a town with nothing to off... (776 words

Should I be honest with my b/f about what's going on with my ex?

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28 March 2010 (F age 30-35 - hi everyone, so ill be 16 in 15 days and the guy im dating is 19. he super sweet and tells me im amazing and beautiful and he could never ask for more. i like him a lot.. but heres the problem. my ex that i dated for 7 months and was crazy in love with is coming back to jersey ... (404 words

Married for 21 years and the spark is gone

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28 March 2010 (M age 51-59 - i been maried 4 21 yrs the love andthe spark is gone i dont know wat to do i am so lonly ... (30 words

A one sided relationship

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28 March 2010 (F age 51-59 - i don't even know where to start. i've know this guy for 1 year and 9mth. During the first year we would see each other once or twice and sometimes not at all. We however at times emailed each other. After a year and 4mth he finally committed to me. At times he doesn't ... (188 words

Hurt and betrayed by his text messages to another woman

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28 March 2010 (F age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend for almost 11 years now and on the weekend of my birthday we rented a resort and invited some friends to celebrate. Well when he fell asleep something told me to check his phone and I did. That's when I found out! I had my suspicions since De... (223 words

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