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*iharu44
writes:Ok well my ex boyfriend who is 17 and i broke up about 5 or 6 months ago and a week later after he broke up with me I started going out with his brother....his younger brother who is 14 and I am 16..the reason why I started going out with him I think is because I wanted revenge on my ex.....but I can't stop thinking about him latly I keep having dreams about him...... and when I talk to him by chating with him on facebook I always bring up the past about us...I always bring him up in almost every conversation I have even with my boyfriend now... but when I talk to my ex on facebook about the past he always says to me "why bring up bad memories? and make everthing more complected?" I don't know what to do I think I really did love him.....I can't make up my mind....He said if I brake up with his younger brother that he will never talk to me again...he will break off all contact with me....Please help me! please!
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2010): Nothing is easy in life, I assure you of that. Problems come and go and it never ends.
Whatever you do I wish you the best. Good luck.
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reader, Miharu44 +, writes (29 March 2010):
Miharu44 is verified as being by the original poster of the question I understand what you are saying and i thank you for trying to help me out with this but you see it seams easy for you to say this but you are not the one in the hole...so I am going to do whats best for me and go with my true feelings.But thank you anyways.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2010): You dug yourself into that hole...but I guess you don't need me to tell you that.
Break up with the little brother, you don't like him and you are only leading him on, making his life worse.
Get over your ex...he doesn't like you anymore. At the very least you should not be manipulated to date someone.
There is no big problem solver here...I'm sure you know what you have to do already but you intend to keep your heart and eyes closed, in hopes your ex will come back to you. Recycling the past is a choice you make yourself.
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