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Archived questions from: March, 2010 (see latest questions)

Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Opinions on this please. Does this girl like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5128 days ago

31 March 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Does the girl like me? I am a mute (verbally impaired). I say this, because it will come up. I can't figure out if this girl likes me and I really don't want to ask. Every time I see her she smiles at me and stares (kinda.. Hard to explain. I'm usually walking by, so she ... (347 words)

I'm pretty, smart, outgoing, confident, ...so why wont anyone ask me out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

31 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well I'm 16 years old and I've never been asked out or in a relationship or anything. I know some say that's still super young, but I don't care. I think I'm really pretty and I'm actually really smart- in our class ranking based on GPA, I'm only 5 people away from #1 (out of ... (381 words)

She met a guy for a week and consider him her boyfriend, but has been hanging out regularly with me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

31 March 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - *OP's own title* Alright here is my situation. I like this girl at work. After two months of working together we have become friends and my feelings for her grew. A movie came out that everyone wanted to go and see. However no one was able to go because they all had... (494 words)

Why does a guy want you to say his name during sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

31 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - this is a pretty simple question really....Why does a guy want you to say his name during sex? is it jut for ego or does it actually have a purpose?... (30 words)

Do you think my friend is in an abusive relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

31 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - You know I'm wondering about this I know this girl but her boyfriend is ALWAYS tell her I love you everyday or almost twice a day on facebook. He seems very possessive and obsessed with her cuz he seems to be on her profile everyday and posts I love you or even one of those si... (164 words)

I was wondering is it normal to only be able to visualize yourself from a third person perspective?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

31 March 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I was wondering is it normal to only be able to visualize yourself from a third person perspective? I'm really shy and I've noticed when I think about stuff I did in the past like going out to get some food I can only see myself like there is a video of me and I'm watching it. ... (66 words)

I'm totally jealous and fear that he will ignore me more than he already does.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5131 days ago

31 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - What would you do if your friend, he always tells this friend that he loves her? Me and Bob are close we have known each other for 2 years now. He smiles at me and I gave him a hug. If I smile at him he laughs and smiles back. This friend of Bob who is a girl talks to him ... (125 words)

Confused about my sexuality.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

31 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, you maybe as confused as I am after reading this! . . . I've never wanted a 'boyfriend' or drooled over males and its never bothered me. . . It's Bothered my friends more,coz they couldn't understand WHY I didn't fancy anyone. Few yrs ago tho I was asked if I fancied ... (159 words)

Help!!! Guy trouble!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

31 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy I really fancy in my school but I don't know if he fancys me!! We are friends and he is in some of my classes! When ever he sees me in those classes I catch him out the corner of my eye looking at me, if he talks to me it will always be about himself or his ... (165 words)

My first anal, will it hurt much?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

31 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - *OP's own title* Hi. I got this fantastic boyfriend and we have been together for a little more than a year. He is very cute and is just perfect. But the problem I have is that we are talking about having sex for the first time. He is two years older than me and I am sorta... (152 words)

He didn't rape me - but it sort of feels that way to me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

31 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - ok here's what happened. I was making out with my guy friend who really likes me I like him too but he is kinda a ladys man so I don't want to be in a relationship with him cause I think it would just end bad I told him i'd rather just be friends and he agreed. So anyways to ... (378 words)

Everyone has a girlfriend except me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

31 March 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 22, at university and I've learned to realise that the reason that I always pine about having a girlfriend is that everyone has one except me. The problem I've got is that I would use a girlfriend to fill a void in my life that needs filling. So any relationship I have will ... (163 words)

My Aussie sweetheart is coming to the UK to see me - but I've just fallen for someone else!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5141 days ago

31 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im kind of in a very tricky situation. So i had a summer romance with a girl i met in australia, im from england. She's 22 and I'm 21. We really liked each other and have had this kind of long distance thing going on for nearly 9 months now. Talking on the phone everyday... (332 words)

In love with a murderer...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4992 days ago

31 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - *OP's own title* I consider myself to be a great catch. Cute, educated, fun, kind, caring, etc. I have not had luck finding a lasting relationship, and about two years ago, I went on a website where prisoners post ads for pen-pals. I wrote to a few men, mostly as a way to cure... (330 words)

Should I try some marijuana just for the experience?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

31 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 21 years old and i have never smoked,drank or any other stuff! but all my friends do it..and since i hang out with them all the time i felt an urge to do it too and i tried smoking and i liked it but i am not addicted to it or anything but i do it just once in a while.... (96 words)

Suggestions on ending 8 years of singledom please!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5141 days ago

31 March 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm a 29 year old single guy. I've not had a girlfriend for 8 years and, frankly, I'm a bit feed up with the whole thing and would like some advice/suggestions. I've tried various dating websites (several of them) but almost never get any views or emails or winks (nevermind ... (147 words)

Why did he have to step on my heart and then get married to someone else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5140 days ago

31 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I met a man on dating site then we decided to meet we went on a date he told me all the right things i just kept listening he even asked me if i would agree to be in a polygamous marriage i said no. But first i was really shocked about how he appeared on the date his ... (200 words)

Why doesn't he seem to care when I leave him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

31 March 2010 (?) age 36-40 - Hello, I really hope someone can read this and offer some insight. This is a bit long, so thanks in advance for reading it. I have been with my partner for two years now and everything is generally great. However, a few months ago after a very heated argument ( rare ... (378 words)

I am in love with a guy who has a girlfriend but they are in a long distance relationship? Do I have a chance

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

31 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - *OP's own title* hey everyone, i am 21 years old,so recently i met this guy thru a friend,we met just once but we really clicked..but he has a girlfriend he is pretty serious about.. but i cant seem to get over this guy i think if given a chance i wld be the best he ever had... (159 words)

Advice on the "Microgynon 30" type pill?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

31 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My mum put me on the Microgynon 30 pill a few weeks ago, as told, I took my first one on the first day of my period which was 2weeks3days ago, and I'm still currently on my period, i should be off in a couple of days hopefully but then i have like 3days before I have my first ... (146 words)

His bad breath and nasty comments about his exes are making me wonder... am I too unfussy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

31 March 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi Guys, I have been on a few dates with a guy recently and the problem is he has very bad breath indeed. He is not very attractive facially and has the bad breath and when I first met him I didn't fancy him that much but he made me laugh and seemed quite sweet so I thought ... (373 words)

If you got together after a break up, how did you achieve this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

31 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I've recently split up with my boyfriend...and I'm just wondering if any people have gone through a break up and got back together at a later point. If so how did you achieve this. Thanks... (39 words)

Did I cheat? Am I obligated to tell my wife what happened?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

31 March 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - One night in the first year my wife and I were together we got into a huge fight and we broke up. we wernt married yet. She left my house and went home and at the time I was completely devastated. I went out to an all night grocery store where I ran into an exgirlfriend ... (490 words)

Someone get my name off this mortgage!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

31 March 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - how can i get my ex to give me financial settlement for our house. she wont sell it, ignores all solicitors letters, when i met her 5 years ago i had 30k and we used it to do the house up and had a couple of holidays from it. when we ... (213 words)

How can I end this painful and perpetual cycle and finally get together with someone? Preferably her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

31 March 2010 (M)

- I am a 38 year old guy with not much experience of sexual relationships but a lot of experience when it comes to missed opportunities. 5 years ago I met a young woman who I really hit it off with. I worked with her but every time it came to asking her out on a date ( and she ... (766 words)

Why doesn't my husband want any children??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

31 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - my husband and i have been together for 13 yrs now. we have 2 children although only one is biologically his. we have currently come across a problem. when i bring up the subject of another child, he says he doesnt want anymore. he knows that this is something i want more than ... (114 words)

I want to know if I'm really in love? Is he the one for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

31 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im 16 yrs old....i cant get this guy off ma mind......hes my cousin whose 14 yrs older to me......i think about him all the time....i miss him such sooo much wen hes not around.....my heart like skips a beat or starts beating a bit fast wen i think about him or hear his name or ... (310 words)

I've been having unprotected sex with my boyfriend for months,but I did take 3 contraceptive pills at once, could I be pregnant?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

31 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im a bit confused.... 2 days before i was due on my period i took 3 conterception pills in one night, i heard that by doing that it can delay your period for a couple of days, is that true? but im now 5 days late on my period, these past few months i have been having un-prot... (154 words)

How do I stop liking this total jerk?!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

31 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - There is a guy i have an /enormous/ crush on. he smokes weed, he drinks, he's in a gang, but he never stops smiling, and he's totally cute. I cannot understand why i can't stop liking him He's abusive. Not like kicking and punching, just like little pinches and pokes and... (239 words)

I'm in pieces because I feel like my boyfriend no longer loves me! And my period is late, he's not exactly there for me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

31 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im in pieces because i feel like my boyfriend of a year no longer loves me. last night i was next to him in bed crying in pain as i had a stomache ache, he just rolled round and fell asleep, despite me led in pain crying my heart out, he must of heard my sobs but still didnt ... (248 words)

My ex getting engaged with her one and a half month new guy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

31 March 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello! I found out that my ex, (we broke up about 3 months ago after a year of beeing together) is getting engaged with her rebound relationship. I could tell even after she broke up with me that she was attracted to me and we kept contact cos we love eachother. She brok... (671 words)

How can I convince him to take the next step?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

31 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i in iove with a married man and he feels the same but he is afraid to leave his wife. we get on together and share a lot. how can i convince him to take the next step? We are same age, we trust each other too.... (48 words)

I can't get over this guy or put it aside! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

31 March 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Hello. So I've mentioned this before...a person I like in my class. Its almost been a year and I still like this person. We certainly are good friends now but it stops at that. I don't feel as bad as I used to about the fact that most probably nothing will happen between ... (243 words)

Girlfriend is begging to not lose me... I need as much advice as possible!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

31 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Recently, I posted an a thread about me and my ex having some issues with other people in our relationship. This is the last post I wrote..Okay so, me and my girlfriend got back together after a 1 month split up and we are doing great. Before the split up we been together... (756 words)

He was explaining how guys get boners and I wondered if it was a hint?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

31 March 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - One night me and the boy i like were hanging out listening to music and talking! Thing is im in love with him. He is so easy to talk to! He said to my friend that we were so close that he appears he likes me when we r just friends. He was explaining to me how guys get boners ... (106 words)

Why is my son's father refusing to introduce me to his new girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

31 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my son father and I are not together we haven't been even before my son was born. We have been having "relations" off and but when I found out he have a girlfriend it stop but he still asks . Just recently he has a girlfriend all of a sudden and from what I c they are very ... (209 words)

My friend is really annoying, negative and moody lately!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

31 March 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My friend seems to be really annoying nagative and moody lately. Im in love with this boy and im texting her about him and she claims shes all annoyed with my obsessive talking about him. And thats such a load of bull. She will rant and rave about her guys when shes dating my ... (104 words)

Why would he not say a word after everything that's happened? What's going through his mind?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

31 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im really confused at the moment and recently ive had no sleep.' the reason i think this is happening is because of this one lad. ( sorry about poor punctuation as my full stop doesnt seem to want to work [Mod note: I put some in for you, thanks for the apology. Don't forget ... (378 words)

We're both new to this and now I'm confused about what he actually thinks!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

31 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my bf are both 16, we ve been going out for 4 months. Recently things have started to get alot more physical, previously when storys of other people we know doing stuff have come up he would say that they're too young. Last week he was lying on me, we were kissing when ... (101 words)

She's getting attracted to girls again, and is bugging me to let do something with them! I think it's cheating. Help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

31 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend 'W' have been together for almost a year and a half. We met at school and liked each other straight away. I was shocked to learn recently that she used to only like girls, and has in the past had girlfriends, but she says it wasn't that serious because ... (200 words)

Period during pregnancy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

31 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Heys.. I heard from my realative that her friend only found out that she was pregnant on the sixth month cos shed been having periods. Then again your not suposed to have periods while pregnant. Is this possible and why would it happen?... (44 words)

What are the odds that her new relationship won't work out, and if she'll realize I won't lie anymore?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

31 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i lied to my girlfriend for 5 months about hanging out with friends and then confessed and stopped lyin.she lied in the beggining of our relationship about her ex boyfriend for about 6 months and i forgave her. she wont forgive me and started lyin again and has a new boyfriend ... (100 words)

She informed me after the fact that I was her first, now she's avoiding me! I don't know what I did wrong!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

31 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I met this girl and i thought she was really nice, we became friends and things moved on from there. After a few months she says she's ready to have sex. After she tells me it was her first time, and i thought it was cool that she chose me. But after that things started ... (111 words)

When is the right time to move in together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4803 days ago

31 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been seeing my boyfriend for 2 and a half months nw,ever since we dated we been spending a lot of time together and we spend nights together,i have my own rented house but i spend most of my time at his house,we are thinking of moving in together,when is the right time?... (54 words)

I was mortified by his comment! What did he mean?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

31 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - ive known this guy for 7 months and weve become close friends in that time. i really like him but notice sometimes he says things which dont add up for example he owns 3 houses, has 60 k in savings and want to buy a 350 k house in london. hes had a rough time and his wife lef... (194 words)

I don't want to lose my boyfriend because of sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

31 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I cant have sex with my boyfriend becose am still a virgin, and cant make him cum thru blow job. .wot should i do,i dont want to lose him to other gurl becos of sex.... (35 words)

Wouldn't he have asked me out by now? Is he just flirting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5141 days ago

31 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have recently moved back to my home town, and i joined a local pub quiz, one of the blokes that is in our group i get on really well with, we do flirt with each other, and my friends all say he likes me and when we are in each others company he is always staring at me. And ... (154 words)

I'm at my lowest ebb, what do you advise?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

31 March 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - im so fed up with my life.please listen to me-hopefully you can advise. im 35 years old im living at home-why ? because last year my world fell apart. i left the guy who had been my fiance for 6 years. i got sick of the mental battering and he left me having to declare mysel... (137 words)

I don't understand why I have started feeling this way about my friend, what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

31 March 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My best guy friend used to be in love with me, or so he says, he says he's never liked anyone as much as he liked me. About a month back he got a girlfriend, it was like a slap in the face when I found out, but I guess thats because I thought he still liked me. While with his ... (176 words)

How do I let her know I like her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

31 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - OK, so I've met a really nice woman, and I want her...A LOT! I know she is definitely gay, but she does NOT know that I know, nor does she know that I feel this way for her. Next week, I'm going to get the chance to meet up with her again. I don't want to come accross too ... (150 words)