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female
age
30-35,
*Cloves
writes:Okay, I have a huge problem. I am in love with my next door neighbor and I have been since I was in second grade.He is two years older than me and he and my brother HATE each other. But I still find myself thinking about him every 5 minutes.The question I ask myself everyday is that "Is he using me or does he feel the same?"My neighbor is one of those guys who is always in trouble, whether it's drugs or drinking. He is very fond with the ladies, but whenever we have our secret hangouts he tells me he loves me and that one day he wants to marry me. Cheesy I know, but every time I look into his eyes I fall for it. I keep wondering if he is screwing me over, but I have NOT slept with him or anything else in that matter, we have only had a couple of heated make out sessions.Besides,I am not one of those girls to sleep around, I'm more like the "girl next store." Plus, he tells me all his secrets and I tell him mine. But everyone always tells me I am way better than him and that he is a liar/douche/screw up.(He has many haters). But just this week (after one of our meetings that got pretty heated) he texted me saying he never wanted to talk to me again, that being with me is wrong and he never wants to see me again. But he has still been texting me, but i haven't reply. Idk what to do! My heart tells me he loves me (but that because i want it to), but my brain says he is just going to break my heart again. What do you think I should do?
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (26 December 2010):
 He sounds like the boy who makes a lot of mistakes, mostly because his own life is a mess. Give him a chance to sort his life out, sort his mind out. Ignore him for now, perhaps later, after this whole ordeal begins to seem faded, you can start talking to him again, see how he is. Listen to what your mind is telling you, he is going to break your heart again but that does not mean your heart is not also right, he could really love you, he just is not in the right place to show it properly.
I hope that helps.
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