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writes:I'm in love with my third cousin. We didn't grow up together so I don't look at her like my other cousins, she's really hot and cute. We met about 5 months ago, I can't get her out of my head. She's in love with me too. We see each other very often, we text and she invites me to her house. I ran my fingers in her hair and she kissed me. She asked me if I could to spend New year's day/night with her alone. She's a cousin.. I really don't know what to do.. Please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2010): Thanks for the advice everyone. But I don't really give a damn about age. We had a family reunion on December 28th in my Uncle's place about 6 blocks away, I was there a little early and her dad was there cooking food with my dad and other people. Her dad said,"She'll be here."(He probably said this because all my other cousins are all 19+ and we're the only young kids). Her dad also said that Me and her are really close friends. She arrived in the evening and we(with our other cousins) set up a fire on their backyard and we sung some songs and after dinner we(me and her) went up to their roof and we sat there the whole night chatting she bought some booze with her and we drank but we were not drunk. Then, they called us down and all of us sat together in their living room. My cousin was gonna marry our relative and we shook their hands and his dad said looking at me,'This is kind of good cause it brings our family closer.' It was really weird at the time. On our way home she text me saying that she really like me and I replied saying that I liked her too. So, I decided to spent New year's day with her(alone). And thanks once again for saying that 3rd cousins are okay to fall in love with each other.
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reader, Tonywoodo  +, writes (27 December 2010):
Ye If your bloodlines is so distance then it should just be another girl not really related enough for it to be wrong so it's fine but I doubt you should tell you parents at this early stage
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reader, C. Grant  +, writes (27 December 2010):
 Are you sure you're using the term "third cousin" correctly? That means that your nearest blood connection is a great-great grandparent. People who are that distantly related don't usually even know there's a connection. It's so distant that no one should have a problem with it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2010): Given your age... spending New Years alone with ANYONE is a terrible idea.
I have no problem with you being third cousins, for all intents and purposes you are barely even related. It would have been entirely possible for you two to have gone through life and not known each other, or even have met.
But you are far too young at the moment to be thinking seriously of this, whatever your hormones are telling you to do.
Do date, go to movies and whatever else today's teenagers do that doesn't involve alcohol and sex. But keep the hanky panky to a minimum until your guys are at least 16.
Flynn 24
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