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writes:Hello. I'm a 14 year old gir with a 13 year old boyfriend (he's turning 14 in 3 days). This is a bit awkward to say but I keep having dreams about us having sex. I don't know why! I don't want to have sex with him and I'm waiting to have sex until marriage, and he's never talked about us having sex. Neither have i. I don't watch porn or do it with myself either, so I don't get why I'm having dreams about us having sex. Do you think you know why? Are these kind of dreams common?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2010): It could be that your hormones are acting up when you are sleeping. I find myself thinking about doing it as well even at 17. I think it is quite normal to have these thoughts.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2010): "He's never talked about us having sex. Neither have i. I don't watch porn or do it with myself either."
You don't make room in your daily life for sexual thoughts: that's exactly why you end up dreaming about sex.
Sexual desire is something that builds up unconsciously, whether you think of it or not. It's just how the body works. You can either release the built up pressure (through masturbation, perhaps) or your body will try to release it by itself (through those dreams).
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reader, GG96 +, writes (27 December 2010):
I don't know why but I get these dreams. They're perfectly normal. I get them on guys I like at the time, my boyfriend (if I have one) at the time, etc.
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reader, Not cool +, writes (27 December 2010):
It is common I do the same thing it's our hormones
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reader, needlesandpinsuh +, writes (27 December 2010):
Yes they are, and they are sign you are a properly functioning human. Enjoy! Don't rush things. If you are still of the social maturity level where you think it must be "discussed" or "proposed" first.. well, think about it. It's unromantic and awkward and something of a turn- off, even though it is smart to talk about it if your main concern is cooperation when it comes to "protection". Perhaps this is why waiting until you are both independent adults with your own places and financing, or better, really, waiting until marriage, when it is simply Assumed what will come next are the most ideal situations when it comes to "doing it" for the first time.
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