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anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and are spending Christmas holidays with our families. We're being together for 14 months and he didn't text me for Christmas. We have a great relationship, we love each other so much. Or so I thought... I thought he didn't text or call me because he had no credit left on the phone, so I called him late in the evening. And guess what: he told me he got caught up in a game and he totally forgot about everything else. There was also noise coming from the kitchen, he forgot about his phone etc. , there was also his family, but he spent the day in his bedroom, playing at the computer. He's not a gamer what so ever, but he was just killing time. But I felt unimportant and left out FOR A GAME. Now he feels terribly sorry for forgetting about this, he promised he's make it up to me. But it's the second time it happens. I am not clingy, when we don't see each other, we barely talk on the phone, because I know he is busy and he has a life with or without me. Anyway, I got messages from random people, old friends and people I haven't seen from ages, a ton of messages. But none of them was from him. Do you think I expect too much from him? What should I react further? What should I do? Please help me... I feel hurt
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reader, serenity80  +, writes (26 December 2010):
No wonder you feel hurt. It sounds to me that your boyfriend just isn't in to you.
Nobody that means something to someone will forget to contact that partner on christmas day.
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reader, angelDlite +, writes (26 December 2010):
 its not acceptable behaviour. a person would have to have a heart of stone to not be hurt by that. the fact that you dont talk much on the phone, i am not sure about that. do you see much of each othe in person or is the phone your main way or contact? girls are better with phones than guys anyway. i would definately discuss this with him. you have every right to because he has hurt you. let him know that if he does this again he is really ruining things between you. it is then up to him how he deals with your comments.
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