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female
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30-35,
*eed up yet hardly
writes:So my boyfriend and I first started dating when I was 16 then broke up b/c I felt that he was irritating my.. basically I was totally immature back then. So a month's gone by and I find out that he ended up having a one night stand and getting some woman he barely knows pregnant. After I heard that, I left him alone for two years. In 2009, he and I started back talking but I was reluctant to get back with him b/c I didn't thin I could forgive or forget what he did and I wanred to see him hurt. So to make a long story short, we ended up getting back together, moving in together..blah, blah. Then his mom and I got into it. She said something to me that I told her in confidence so I was drunk an slashed her tires. Every since then, his family and I been at bay with each other. Every holiday Im left alone b/c he's with his family which pisses me off and on top of that, I feel like Im not that important to him like he is to me. We argue a lot, not everyday b/c i hate that he puts his family before me or that he blames me for everything vile in our relationship. What should we (I) do?
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reader, Mjfbla +, writes (27 December 2010):
 The blaming isnt cool. But seriously?!?! Family should ALWAYS come first. You to arent married. He could be very close to his family. Why dont you go with him next time? Probably because you overreacted acted somewhat stupidly and his family doesnt want you around. Thats you fault. And you can blame your bf for not being around but whose fault is it that you cant go with him? You do alot of blaming to for somone so blameless. Take a step back. Maybe say sorry to his mother so you can go with him to the next holiday.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2010): A man's family is very important to him. By burning that bridge you crossed a line. Please get out of this and move on.
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