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36-40,
*J_dr
writes:I can't find a girl, no matter what I do. I can't find anyone to even go out on a date with me. It's gone beyond even trying to find "that special someone" or "the one", I'm just trying to find any girl who will go out with me. Every girl I ask out pretty much just says no (the latest girl I asked out ignored me).I'm 24 and a virgin, but that's not what it's about for me. I'm also 24, and never had a girlfriend. I'm not trying to just go get laid, I actually want to meet someone that I share a connection with. But getting there seems impossible, because I can't even get a date.All my friends tell me to just relax and be myself and I'll meet someone. But I feel like screaming that I've been myself for 24 years and I'm still alone.The odd thing is with me, I'm not uncomfortable around girls, I'm not awkward. I really can walk up to any girl and strike up a conversation, easy as anything. I can make a female friend without a problem. But when I meet a girl, she never see's me as someone she could potentially date. All my friends give me a wrap that I'm such a great guy, blah, blah, blah. Attached friends tell me they're surprised I don't have a girlfriend. And few things annoy me more than an attached friend telling me she'd go out with me if she was single.I just don't know what to do anymore.
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reader, petina1  +, writes (13 January 2011):
 Well the people you are going up to could be the type you are attracted to, not wanting to rush in to things like so many do these days, have kids, relationships, breakdowns all in a very short period of time. Friendships can sometimes lead to romance, so make as many friends as you can and maintain that for a while.
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reader, CJ_dr +, writes (13 January 2011):
CJ_dr is verified as being by the original poster of the questionPetinal: I'm not shy, that's what I'm saying the problem is. I have the confidence to go up to a girl and introduce myself, they just never see me as someone to date. I'm always just a new friend.
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reader, petina1 +, writes (12 January 2011):
i don't usually go for meeting people on the internet, option. But im afraid that could be an option for you because you don't seem to have any confidence. Sign up to facebook, you can chat on there, see profiles and pictures, theres a start. There's always lots going on there. Or you could just join a dating agency. These things are out there for shy guys like you, you are not on your own.
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