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Does he love me or just not good with expressing his feeling...?

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Question - (31 March 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 3 April 2008)
A female South Africa age 41-50, *tokzy writes:

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My name is Joy11 and I'm 26 years old and I've been with my boyfriend for 8 years. He seldom tells me he loves me and I'm currently expecting his child and we're both very happy. Does he love me or just not good with expressing his feeling sometimes it really bothers me, should I be worried?

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A female reader, Ntokzy South Africa +, writes (3 April 2008):

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Hallo there everybody!!!!

Thanx so much for the replies, everything you said makes sense, i guess i have been feeling emotional.YEAH YEAH my baby does love me and i know.

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A female reader, Gena Bullock United States +, writes (31 March 2008):

Gena Bullock agony auntYou are getting ready to go through some major hormonal changes, honey. The new baby on the way, you two are in love and do love each other after all this time. You just might not feel as attractive since you're pregnant, but remember HE is having feelings about this change too. Do communicate in a nice, quiet way how you feel--showing lovey-dovey affection along the way. Let him know that if he is having feelings about the new baby and the changes that may occur, that he's not alone. It could help take some of the stress off that isn't being spoken. Don't let it build up in a rage.

Best, Gena

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A female reader, birdynumnums Canada +, writes (31 March 2008):

birdynumnums agony auntI agree with the previous posters, actions speak louder than words. If he has by your side forever, and has always been non-demonstrative, it's probably just his nature. My guy isn't the type to shower me with affection or give me public displays of affection, but that's just the way he is. It doesn't mean that he doesn't love me! We've been together 35 years, raised a family and are still planning our future together! I suspect that the majority of guys are the non-mushy type, 'cause most of the guys that I know personally aren't "romantics". I wouldn't worry if I were you.

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A female reader, Devilish Angel United States +, writes (31 March 2008):

Devilish Angel agony auntIf he's still with you after eight years, then he must feel something for you. If you're happy together, then be happy together. Don't bring unnecessary things up. Most people don't even hit the one year mark let alone 8 years!

Concentrate on how happy you guys are and the rest will come later.

I have a hard time telling my boyfriend I love him but I still show him how much I love him in my actions. My boyfriend is the same way. Actions speak louder than any words that can be spoken.

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